Raising Rebels

In this episode, we break down why fathers must be the primary role model for their sons in a culture overflowing with influencers. We use Andrew Tate as a case study, examining admirable qualities like discipline, work ethic, confidence, courage, and his anti-victim mentality, while also discerning areas that don't align with biblical manhood like pride, sexual immorality, and vulgar language. As...

In this episode, hosts Joel and Tec sit down with college students Addison Kelley and Jack Stafford to talk about navigating faith at secular universities like Ole Miss and FSU. They share how their parents planted seeds of faith without forcing it, why Gen Z is turning to church in record numbers, and what it looks like to resist peer pressure while still building genuine friendships. Jack recoun...

This episode explains how dads can talk with their kids about pornography in an honest, loving, and age-appropriate way. The conversation covers why parents need to be proactive, how exposure can happen through smartphones, social media, group chats, and influencers, and why silence can lead to shame and confusion. It also discusses starting early, asking simple check-in questions, using hopeful l...

In this episode of Raising Rebels, we discuss why pornography is not just a boys’ issue—both sons and daughters are impacted, but in different ways. We explore how early exposure affects children, the dangers of accidental encounters online, and the importance of ongoing conversations about dignity, respect, and identity. The hosts share practical advice for parents, including how to address unrea...

In this episode of Raising Rebels, Joel and Tech address the reality of pornography’s impact on the brain, especially for teens and parents. They explain how pornography hijacks the brain’s reward system, making it harder to resist and easier to form unhealthy habits. The conversation covers why early, honest talks with kids are crucial, how repeated exposure can change decision-making, and why sh...

In this episode of Raising Rebels, Joel and Tech dive into the heated cultural conversation surrounding fairness and equity in girls’ sports—sparked by the public exchange between Riley Gaines and Simone Biles in June 2025. The discussion goes beyond headlines to examine why so many fathers remain silent, what’s at stake for our daughters, and how men can lead with courage and conviction in today’...

Can you really outwork a bad diet—and what does faith have to do with nutrition? In this episode of Raising Rebels, host Joe sits down with Chris Beottcher, a 10-time Ironman, physical therapist, father of four, and health coach, to break down what actually moves the needle for energy, fat loss, testosterone, and long-term health. They unpack why nutrition matters more than endless workouts, how b...

Words shape identity—and as fathers, the ones we choose can either build confidence or leave lasting wounds. In this episode of Raising Rebels, Joel and Tech dive into the real power of language in parenting. From replacing “don’t” statements with identity-building phrases, to avoiding sarcasm with younger kids, to using intentional anchor phrases that speak value and purpose, this conversation is...

In this episode of Raising Rebels, Joel sits down with entrepreneur, father, and coach Tyler Tote for a powerful conversation about redefining wealth, reclaiming time, and stepping into purpose. Tyler shares the emotional moment that pushed him to leave a stable banking career, the years of discipline and sacrifice that followed, and how faith became the foundation of everything he built. From del...

Discipline can shape a child’s character—or crush their spirit. In this episode of Raising Rebels, Joel and Tech break down how to give consequences that teach, not punish, and how to discipline in a way that builds a bridge, not a wall. We talk about the danger of correcting in anger, practical ways to downregulate (yes—breathe), why discipline is really training, and how to make consequences pre...

Pastor Sam joins Joel to unpack a dad’s calling as the primary spiritual leader at home—why modeling real, imperfect faith beats outsourcing it, how simple daily rhythms (good questions, prayer, church, and one-on-one time) shape kids, and how to navigate tough conversations with honesty and grace. You’ll hear research-backed reasons fathers matter, practical prompts to spark deeper talks, and hop...

Trust is the bedrock of leadership at home and at work. In this episode, Joel and Tech unpack why trust outranks talent, how vulnerability beats defensiveness, and a simple formula—transparency + empathy + consistency—that reliably rebuilds broken trust. You’ll hear real family moments, coaching insights, and practical ways dads can keep small promises that make a big impact. If this helped you le...

Joel sits down with Tyler Todt (aka @TyRomper) to talk faith, mornings, mindset, and a practical blueprint for becoming a stronger man, husband, and father. We cover “plan the mission” nightly planning, winning the morning, training hard (“no zeros”), modeling marriage for your kids, dropping distractions, and three steps you can start today. Stick around to the end for Tyler’s rapid-fire action i...

“If you’ve quit more workouts than you’ve finished, this one’s for you.” Joel sits down with 10-time IRONMAN and father of four Chris Betcher to unpack mental toughness, chunking big goals into bite-size wins, and the “don’t miss twice” approach to discipline. They dig into simplifying men’s health, modeling habits for your kids, trading cheap dopamine for real fulfillment, guarding your family’s...

Welcome to the very first episode of Raising Rebels! Joel and Tec launch a practical playbook for dads who want to grow as husbands, fathers, and leaders. From personal stories to hard-earned wisdom, they dive into the importance of fatherhood, building family values, raising resilient kids, and pushing back against cultural pressures. Whether you’re a dad, mentor, or leader, this episode will ins...

Connection doesn’t “just happen”—it’s built with small, predictable habits. In this episode of Raising Rebels, Joel and Tech share a practical playbook for dads: protect family dinner, use simple prompts like Rose–Thorn–Bud, build weekly traditions, embrace long hugs (hello oxytocin), schedule one-on-one time with kids, and keep pursuing your wife with daily check-ins and date nights. You’ll leave...

In this Raising Rebels episode, Joel and Tec get real about the struggle dads face when work gets their best—and family gets the leftovers. They unpack practical ways to “bring the juice” at home, set guardrails at work, budget time like money, and choose alignment over constant “balance.” You’ll hear simple rituals (location-based reminders, the quick outfit change), culture-setting at the dinner...

Dads: this episode is your practical playbook for helping kids contend for the faith—moving from a defensive posture to confident, humble engagement. We unpack how to model a living faith at home, why the resurrection is central, how to use family devotions and “rabbit trails” to surface real questions, and two daily practices you can start now. Plus: book and YouTube resources (Under the Hood, Th...

Are you busy for your family, but not with them? In EP3 of Raising Rebels, Joel and Tec get practical about intentional fatherhood—simple one-on-ones, tech-free dinners, car-ride devotions, and purpose-driven parenting. They share real stories (stepping away from coaching, a missed family trip), stats that sting, and faith-first habits you can start today. Pick one small action, make time on purpo...

In this episode of Raising Rebels, Joel and Tec tackle one of today’s biggest parenting challenges—technology’s grip on our kids. From the 2007 iPhone revolution to today’s TikTok generation, they unpack staggering research on screen time, social media, and rising teen anxiety. The hosts share practical steps for reclaiming attention at home—like family phone parking, setting boundaries, and model...

Kicking off Raising Rebels, Joel and Tech unpack how ‘80s/‘90s freedoms—streetlight curfews, whistle-range adventures, and risky playgrounds—built grit and resilience, and how today’s always-online world, fear-based headlines, and over-monitoring are reshaping childhood. You’ll hear practical ideas to restore free play, teach delayed gratification, anchor the family around church and the dinner ta...