Rainbow Dreamcatcher: The Love Podcast

Rainbow Dreamcatcher The Love Podcast has switched focus. In the premiere episode, Nilla chats with guest Jelan about their leap into life abroad. They delve into the unexpected bureaucratic hurdles, the profound personal growth, and how practicing therapy in a new country has reshaped Jelan’s entire therapeutic approach.

Happy Valentine's Day! In this episode, Nilla & Big Sexy discuss the path to going from friends to a long-term relationship. They discuss the pitfalls many people fall into when navigating the delicate transition, give tips on having success when changing from friendship to relationship, and what to do if it doesn't work out. Be A Colorful Human!  Send in your stories or any questions you may...

In this 2nd episode of the RDTLP Friendship Series, Nilla and Big Sexy discuss how to identify if you are in a toxic freindship. Nilla talks about her personal experience with toxicity within her friendship circle and how she found revelation from the most unlikely ally. Join Rainbow Dreamcatcher as they dive into the world of harmful and destructive friendships and share markers to help identify...

Happy New Year to all our colorful humans! In 2025 we will start a new "Friendship Series." We will explore all aspects of friendships throughout the year. In this first episode of that series, Nilla and Big Sexy discuss how to go about making friends, the meaning of the word "friend," and how they nurture and build connections, and provide tips to identify those skills in your own life. Be A Colo...

In this insightful episode, RDTLP delves into the signs and red flags that may indicate you're in an abusive relationship. Join Nilla and Big Sexy as they discuss the various forms of abuse—emotional, physical, and psychological— and expert advice on recognizing harmful behaviors. Listeners will learn about the importance of setting boundaries, understanding the cycle of abuse, and identifying pat...

Nilla and Big Sexy are joined by Stephanie (IG: StephOhs) of Final Girlz (www.youtube.com/c/FinalGirlz ) to discuss jumping back into the dating pool after getting divorced. Both Nilla and Steph have experience with this, Big just listens. They also talk about Steph's experience with dating apps, being celibate on purpose, a few horror stories, and why it's important to not settle for anything les...

Nilla and Big Sexy dive right in after their hiatus into the hot topic of dating apps. They discuss the history of, the rise of, and the inundation of the multitude of websites designed for hookups and supposed long-term love. Listen in and learn why these apps aren't designed to help people in the way they promise and how they will keep you lonely! Be A Colorful Human!  Send in your stories o...

Nilla and Big Sexy discuss the 5 things that can be done to improve your relationship immediately. Implementation of these things will have you living and loving better in any relationship, not just marriage and dating. Some you know, some you may be surprised about. Rainbow Dreamcatcher is also experimenting with a shorter format. Share your thoughts! Be A Colorful Human!  Send in your stories or...

By special request, (and since we haven't been able to record anything new), we r re-releasing Episode 17 FIGHT!! The Keys To Repair 30 Common Disagreements. Colorful humans, don't let the aggressions of the world sabotage ur relationships. In this insightful and personal episode of Rainbow Dreamcatcher The Love Podcast, Nilla and Big Sexy embark on a journey through the often challenging...

Nilla and Big Sexy discuss the necessity of non-violent communication in healthy relationships. Nilla gives the 4 things needed to have this type of conflict resolution. Rainbow Dreamcatcher explores techniques for effective communication without resorting to aggression, defensiveness, or hostility, emphasizing the power of active listening, expressing feelings and needs clearly, and initiating co...

Nilla and Big Sexy discuss the possibility of a relationship actually improving after infidelity. Nilla goes over the tools needed and the circumstances required to make this happen. Hint: explicit communication is key! QOTW sent in by Ryan: "How do you put yourself in a position to be in a relationship (find someone)?" Be A Colorful Human!  Send in your stories or any questions you may...

Nilla and Big Sexy return to their favorite subreddit of "Am I The A$$hole?" This week, they look at parental assistance with housing, monetary equality in a relationship, issues with an ex-MIL, a mom getting back into dating, and communication trouble around a dishwasher. Chime in and let us know if you think any of the people are indeed "The A$$hole!" Be A Colorful Human!  Se...

This week Rainbow Dreamcatcher helps Reddit folks answer the age-old question: "Am I The A$$hole?" They look at friendships, in-laws, and proper dessert etiquette. There are some disagreements, some passive-aggressions, and a whole lot of fun. Will definitely do this again! Be A Colorful Human!  Send in your stories or any questions you may have for Rainbow Dreamcatcher: The Love Podcast...

On this episode of Rainbow Dreamcatcher The Love Podcast, Nilla and Big Sexy flip the script and Big Sexy gives out love and life advice as Nilla asks questions from Reddit. The questions range from friends who aren't really friends to sex as a transaction to family members who get no respect. Big gives his advice and Nilla shows why she's the professional. Be A Colorful Human!  Send in yo...

Nilla and Big Sexy answer a popular question circulating social media and listener questions. They discuss women choosing to face a bear instead of a man if they were walking in the woods, the difficulties of bisexuality, and the ways they like to be supported during tough times. Colorful Human questions submitted by Sophie and Kira. Be A Colorful Human!  Send in your stories or any questions you...

Get ready to laugh your way to a better relationship! Humor is the spice of life, and in long-term relationships, it might just be the secret ingredient to everlasting love. Join Nilla and Big Sexy, your favorite love gurus, as we delve into why laughter really is the best medicine for keeping the spark alive. Real-life anecdotes, expert advice, and a sprinkle of our own comedic moments await you....

How do you stop the sexual flame from going out in a long-term relationship? Nilla and Big Sexy explore what sex looks like after you have been together for a while and what to do if that spark just isn't there anymore. The QOTW comes from Ryan: How do you keep that spark alive in a relationship? Editor Note: Nilla's mic goes out at 29:45 and Big's mic does the same at 39:00. There is...

How do you come back from betrayal? This week, Nilla and Big Sexy discuss the steps to rebuilding trust in the relationship after there has been a betrayal. They dive into what constitutes betrayal, what to do to make it right, how to navigate that path, and how to move forward with your partner. The QOTW comes from Dallas: How do you handle feeling not good enough for your partner if they're...

Nilla and Big Sexy continue their discussion on what to do and what not to do to have a functional relationship. This week, they examine what helped them have a functional relationship. Nilla provides guidance on appreciation, gratitude practices, avoiding sarcasm and negative play that can become abuse, and being able to say, “I’m sorry!” QOTW sent in by Marvelyn: How do you make time in a relati...

Nilla and Big Sexy discuss the hierarchy of a functional relationship, breaking down the loneliness crisis in the world, and how to combat it. NIlla explains the differences between clean pain vs. dirty pain. Big confesses that he has a teacup booty and the couple examines when the switch happened between dating and choosing a long-term partnership. QOTW sent in by Anonymous: When would you consid...

Nilla and Big Sexy are on Vacation for Nilla's birthday. Here is a re-release of the first episode in the "Relationship Bugaboo" series, Housework. Enjoy. If you have any "relationship bugaboos" you would like Rainbow Dreamcatcher The Love Podcast to address, leave us a comment or hit us up on social media. Our latest episode presents a new series within Rainbow Dreamcatche...

This week features a special guest! Taking Big Sexy’s place is our friend Stephanie Bale (IG: @stephohs). The topic is the hit Netflix show “Love Is Blind.” SPOILERS AHEAD! Nilla and Steph chat about following 3 main couples in season 6 and the drama that plays out within each of their stories. The problems with each get dissected and examined with humor and insight. They, of course, veer off into...

In this week’s episode, join Nilla and Big Sexy as they ask the question, “who the f*** did she marry?” and dive into the saga that is Reesa Teesa (TikTok @reesamteesa). Reesa broke down her marriage to a “pathological liar” in her 52-part story told on TikTok. Rainbow Dreamcatcher examines her story and, more importantly, the aftermath of those circumstances. Nilla provides suggestions on how to...

Well, it was bound to happen. We recorded an entire episode and the mic wasn't working. We will re-record the episode soon but in the meantime, here is us apologizing. With love to all of our colorful humans! Be A Colorful Human! Send in your stories or any questions you may have for Rainbow Dreamcatcher: The Love Podcast to rainbowdreamcatchertlp@gmail.com IG: @rainbowdreamcatcherthelovepod T...

QOTW sent to us by Colorful Human Aubrey, “Every time my partner and I talk about politics we end up in a fight. It’s to the point we had to take this topic off the table entirely. How can I talk about a triggering topic and stay cool-headed?” In this episode, Nilla and Big Sexy chat about strategies for maintaining composure and fostering constructive dialogue when engaging in politically charged...