Queer Retrograde

whole lotta sex in this one, bruv

hobbes tries to breathe thru some mild stage fright to bring ya'll a retelling of current events 

pls excuse the sometimes grainy quality of sound, we're just out here tryna deliver some content while also living on farms, chasing dreams, living our best life ok also remember that time Bette stood down from sleeping with who she (wants to) work with?? FOR THE FIRST TIME??

who the hell is Pipa Pascual and why is Bette so wet about it??

Bette and Gigi had a sex scene. thank dog. 

it is what it is. hot & gay commentary on one of the best shows on Showtime! we give all the deets so it's almost like you donneven need to watch it yourself ;) 

WE LOVE FEMMES. YOU LOVE FEMMES. VENMO OR CASHAPP A LOCAL FEMME TODAY. we got all kinds of into it with special guest Laurin Beasley! a true icon of the culture of all that is femme, we explored role models, identity, and even marriage, ya'll. an episode with layers, let's go! find Laurin at @lo.beasley for more content~

linds and hobbes plug into some hot takes on Pride, dating apps, & where the hell we gays be out in the worldt (richmond lol). pairs well with this hot ass summer heat and a cold one, bruv~ 

we got a real live professional out here to give us the deets on therapy! burning questions of how it all works from individual to group sessions & if there's anything to the theory of how we date people that resemble our parents in some way, the whole 9 ;) BONUS: if you mention this podcast episode and take up a practice with Chloé & Magnolia Health, you'll get a discount! go check out ma...

did you think we forgot?? to share?? our own tea on relationship views? been a minute, but here's an episode with your fav queer co-hosts and a lil life update since our first episode premiere! 6 months and 22 episodes in, oooooweeeeeee!

we're tearing up all the rules with this one! breaking apart relationship hierarchy & heteronormativity with beautiful blob illustrations, creator of the IG contro.io, Beth, joins us to hash out how alt relationships get distilled for your viewing pleasure. every detail matters, as each element both on paper and in reality is highlighted! 

perspective is wild, ya'll! we tackle the practice of law of attraction & manifestation with Tik Tok vet @thecharliemckee :D a lifelong fan of finding the beauty in everything, we took some time with Charlie to kick back and appreciate the atmosphere. there's plenty for everyone ;) 

our beloved friend Jay James (she/her/they/them), aka Juicy opens up the portals of her personal experiences with polyamory, finding her sexuality, & the divine pursuit of sprinkling so much romance into a friendship, you wouldn't even know what you were lookin' at from the outside cos IT'S BIGGER THAN THAT :D we parsed out the nuances of privilege within these lenses & how blackness plays...

we picked up what bell hooks was puttin' down in her game-changing book, All About Love, with our dear friend Christine (she/her/we) and got in the thick of what. it. all. means! from self care to how we pursue solitude to find ourselves, Christine leads the way into the toolbox of reimagining a more tender world outchea. this one's thick, accompany with water. to keep up with Christine, IG: chris...

get the earbuds in & a light jacket on for a walk to vibe with Cardinality's debut album! we dug deep with AG (he/him) & Ty (they/them) and just how all that magic happens with this ethereal expression of sound :D it's queer, it's intimate, it's bold, it's everything ya need to have an out of body experience with these two crafting untethered moments of artistry now available on Spotify! c...

are you trying to unplug from the matrix and also in need of finding that missed connection from your last Target visit?? Zairé (they/them) is here to remind us how craigslist PROVIDES!! our minds were 100% blown stepping into the digital world from the lens of a computer-builder. we dug into new age social media and how to navigate gen z's TikTok prowess & curating safe spaces for us alphabet fol...

switch the lens in your glasses, ya'll--we went international for a whole new perspective with a dear friend and fellow artist, Peter (he/him) :) a tall glass of water giving thoughts on Canadian life, what the heck it means to define family out here for queer folk, social disruption, and Thoughts On the Pandemic when healthcare is ~Set up Differently~! this conversation pairs well with whatever t...

get some double AA batteries and rev up that dusty DSLR you got in high school when you really were About That Life and took photos cos becca shares some mad wisdom in the ways of film! we got deep into our contemplative sides as we talked The Spectrum of Gender and how becca uses a hot dog alter ego to explore it :) it's pretty tight, have a listen! you can find Becca on IG: _____george (that's 5...

we had the honor and privilege of having julisa join us to discuss how she's managed to stay friends with all of her exes (you read that right: all of 'em) and how she applies polyamory far beyond just the romantic atmosphere! a convo so loaded, so daring, so JUICY, you're gonna want to find her IG & tiktok @papifritas.tattoos immediately, cos dammit julisa's just that charismatically cool ;)

We feel lucky to have been on this journey with our bb Tayshia but there's something off with how this all went down... Listen to hear our unpopular opinions. 

linds and hobbes cover both episodes of the latest bachelorette series where we get the men tell all & "hometown" dates with the final four! everyone is still very sweaty in la quinta, yet somehow they power thru this week with no visible sunburns and minimal drama ;) 

Hobbes and Linds dive into their personal histories with this time of year and their thoughts on this whole idea of gift giving featuring a special surprise guest to talk about softhands.club (a virtual market filled with awesome queer artists to support). Hobbes gives their holiday movie recommendations, and the episode wraps up with some winter quarantine tips. Stay safe y'all! 

we get the final bennet vs noah showdown alongside another handful of painful conversations of the men dumping on tayshia but she wore that white gown straight to town while jojo showed up on a scooter! 

Hobbes and Linds recap the recently released gay romantic comedy "Happiest Season," now streaming on Hulu. 

In the most trauma filled episode we've seen in Bachelor history, Hobbes and Linds discuss the ridiculous amount of emotional labor that's put on our beautiful Tayshia throughout episode 8. We're almost to the end of this journey with Tayshia, so the queers make some predictions for how she might cut the group moving forward.