PSR Podcast

Sexual betrayal trauma has a profound impact on a wife emotionally, mentally, and spiritually. The impact can shake the faith of the most deeply rooted Christian woman. How can she heal? And is there hope for restoration? In this episode, Lyschel Burket shares her story and what she has learned about healing from betrayal and the power of God in our weakness. Learn more about Lyschel and her minis...

Did Jesus have anything to say about understanding our emotions? Human beings are rather predictable when it comes to our emotional systems, yet we often talk as if it's impossible to understand our emotions. In this episode, Stephen shares some insights he has gained over decades of studying emotional systems and gives us a biblical framework to see how we can manage our emotions in healthier...

Why do you and I need Jesus? In times of crisis and disruption (or temptation) our priorities are exposed, whether good or bad. In this episode, Jonathan and Stephen share why they love and trust Jesus. Maybe this will encourage you to examine your own relationship with Jesus and how you can pursue Him more faithfully and fully.

There is truly nowhere on earth that sexual struggles don't exist for teens. But this doesn't mean we need to be fearful or hopeless as parents or educators. In this episode, our guest Sheila Harkins shares her experience as a mom and educator in helping teens navigate the difficulty and challenges of sexuality (and other tough subjects). Gain hope and help in building stronger connections...

Is there hope for someone labeled a sex offender? This is a heavy and hard subject to address. But in this episode, we hear from a wife who has traveled this road with her family. Her husband is serving a 12-year sentence due to viewing illegal pornography. Listen in to learn just how far the grace of God can reach -- and how you can help support and care for these families affected by criminal se...

How can your marriage survive sexual betrayal (of any kind)? And how important and helpful is counseling to this process? In this episode, our guest Dan Drake will help us understand therapeutic disclosure; what it is, what its role is in the restoration process, and how to do it effectively. If you feel stuck in your marriage, this program might help you take next steps toward greater hope and he...

The big question a porn addict must answer in order to recover is: Do you really want to be free and sober? In this episode, our special guest Carl Thomas shares his story of addiction and recovery -- and the power of community for actually living free from porn. Listen in to find hope and resources for total transformation. Learn more about Carl and his ministry at  LiveFreeCommunity.org.

A listener reached out to us to address how alcohol and sex combined can be detrimental to intimacy in marriage. Our guest, Mark Denison, will help us explore the dynamics and dangers of mixing this substance and behavior, and why recovery is necessary for relational health.

There is a Proverb that says, "Whoever walks with the wise becomes wise." (13:20) Stephen Cervantes has been an excellent marriage counselor for over 30 years. He is wise in understanding dynamics of healthy and thriving relationships. In this episode, Stephen shares lots of insights to help couples grow and flourish in their relationship. Learn more about Stephen at HopeCounseling.com .

How much does one's culture shape their sexuality? And how does that aid or hinder recovery from sexual addictions? Sam Louie is an Asian-American who knows personally how difficult it can be to break free from sexual shame and grow in wholeness and sobriety. In this episode, Sam shares his story and some insights for dealing with deep shame surrounding sexual brokenness. Learn more about Sam...

Do you struggle with answering the "why" question surrounding your sexually addictive behaviors? What is underneath these compulsive actions? In this episode, Eddie Capparruci helps us unpack what he describes as your "inner child" and how understanding who this is will unlock significant growth in your recovery. For more info on Eddie and his ministry, visit InnerChild-SexAddictio...

Many of us don't pay much attention to how we talk. Especially if we have a "negative talk" template. In this episode, Jonathan and Stephen unpack this template to help you recognize if you talk in this unhealthy way -- and provide insights and tips for how to reduce or eliminate this kind of talking from your life. Learn how to talk WITH people instead of AT them.

Since 2008 hundreds of men have experienced our Gateway to Freedom 3-day intensive workshop. Powerful transformation has occurred in many men's lives. Over the years, men have allowed us to share their insights with our podcast listeners. This episode gives you a peek into five men's journeys and the insights they are gaining. We hope it will encourage you to keep pressing on in your own p...

Parents, you are the most influential person in your child's life. This means there is no one who can guide and mold your child like you can. But there are wise ways to influence and foolish ways, especially when it comes to the topic of sex. In this episode, we have our Director of Training, John Fort, to help you navigate very practical conversations on this topic with your children. Discove...

Co-host: Stephen Cervantes ( HopeCounseling.com ) One of our soon-to-be-married listeners sent us a question on how he can be "ready" for the wedding night and honeymoon with his new bride. Jonathan and Stephen offer a number of insights and practical tips from decades of personal experience and ministry to hundreds of couples. We hope this helps not only yet-to-be-married listeners, but a...

When a husband has betrayed trust in his marriage, there is a lot of healing his wife must go through. But is there anything the husband can do to help her heal (besides aggressively engaging his own recovery)? YES! In this episode, we hear from Carol the Coach, who has years of experience in helping husbands learn and practice empathy with their hurting wives. Men, listen up! This episode could c...

Co-host: Stephen Cervantes ( HopeCounseling.com ) How do we learn our unhealthy sexual attitudes, patterns and behaviors? And why is it important to know this? We were all "trained" in our brokenness. In this episode, Jonathan and Stephen help you understand your "training program" and how you can be retrained to a whole new life of hope, health, and purpose.

Co-host: Stephen Cervantes ( HopeCounseling.com ) Everyone has faced loneliness of some kind in their lives. But now we are experiencing loneliness at unprecedented levels in developed societies. What is causing this rise in loneliness and how can we combat it? Join us as we talk about the epidemic of loneliness and the practical hope found in community and service.

Let's state the obvious: parenting is scary! And when it comes to teaching our kids about sex, it can be very scary, especially in today's hyper-sexualized culture. But we don't have to be paralyzed by fear. In this episode, John Fort helps us unpack our fears as parents and gives practical help for facing fears with hope and confidence. Learn more in John's book, Honest Talk, at H...

Stephen recently traveled to Portugal and he has some insights from this trip that he wants to share with you and me. Learn some history about the Templar Knights, the sovereignty of God, and why this matters to your journey of faith and integrity.

When a wife has faced the painful trauma of sexual betrayal, what can her husband do to help her heal? In this episode, Barbara Steffens helps us navigate this delicate question. She has many years of experience in helping wives heal, and this experience offers lots of wisdom for husbands who want to change. May this program offer you hope and insight for taking positive next steps toward healing....

Co-host: Stephen Cervantes ( HopeCounseling.com ) Anger is a powerful emotion that reveals what we value, whether good or bad. And anger has the potential to fire off anger responses in others. How can we learn from our anger and respond in healthy ways? This episode unpacks these deeper questions about anger and the hope we have for managing anger well.

Do Jesus and the 12-Steps belong in the same sentence? Some Christians may say no. But what if God is bigger than any singular recovery process, and the grace of Jesus is better than empty religious rituals? In this episode, Mark Denison shares insights from his new book entitled "Jesus and the 12 Steps." Learn with us about how God is still in the business of setting addicts free, and how...

God invented sex. On purpose! But how can parents teach their kids about one of the most basic elements of life? This episode unpacks 5 keys teaching points to help parents communicate God's design to their kids. Gain confidence to have rich and meaningful conversations about sex with your kids. For more help, get a copy of Honest Talk at  Books. Bebroken.com . 

Originally aired: June 11, 2019 Many men are living lust-FULL lives rather than lust-FREE lives. And so many struggle to fully enter "real recovery" and find the freedom their hearts long for. In this episode we are delighted to have Jay Haug with us to share his story and how his ministry helps men go "all in" with recovery. Learn 4 keys disciplines that can free you from the powe...