Processing Infidelity in the Church: Healing conversations on betrayal in ministry and marriage.

In this series we discuss the Do's and Don't of infidelity recovery. Your world has been turned upside down and nothing looks the same. I have been there! Boundaries for recovery can provide a safety net when you can hardly trust your decisions during this tragedy. Part 2: DO - Commit to your own recovery! DON'T - Obsess about their recovery. Resources - Survival Kit Set up a call to s...

In this series we will discuss the Do's and Don't of infidelity recovery. Your world has been turned upside down and nothing looks the same. Boundaries for recovery can provide a safety net when you can hardly trust your decisions during this tragedy. DO - Today we talk about how it's important to find safe people to trust with your story. DON'T - When you find your people, be care...

What can help you survive infidelity? In this episode, Joni shares the faith-based books, devotionals, podcasts, and programs that helped her survive betrayal and navigate the early days of infidelity recovery. If you’re a Christian woman reeling from betrayal trauma, these tools can be your lifeline. Download the free “Fallout Survival Kit” checklist here and keep it close when the days feel impo...

When betrayal shatters your world—especially within the church—it’s natural to ask, “But where was God?” In this honest and vulnerable episode, we talk about the spiritual confusion, anger, and silence that often follow infidelity and ministry-related betrayal. If you’ve been left reeling from broken trust in your marriage or within your faith community, this conversation is for you. Together, we’...

In this heartfelt episode, Joni Pauley shares her recent emotional struggles while revisiting a place filled with painful memories of Infidelity. She reflects on the unexpected challenges of confronting her past, the feelings of self-doubt and failure that arose, and the importance of vulnerability in the healing process. Through her journey, she emphasizes that it's okay to have setbacks. Embrace...

Listen to the Sound of Survival Playlist In this episode of Processing Infidelity in the Church, Joni lets us sit in Survival Mode a bit longer, sharing a playlist of songs that helped her work through the grief and shock of infidelity in her own life. Don't be afraid to feel the feels, explore the losses and let God just hold you in this time. We don't need to rush - survival happens one...

When betrayal hits—especially in the context of ministry—it can feel like your world has exploded. In this episode, we talk about what it means to enter survival mode after a personal or spiritual fallout. Whether you're still in shock or just trying to breathe through the day, you're not alone. We’ll explore the emotional, spiritual, and even physical responses to trauma and how they show...

It's okay if you don't have all the answers. Healing takes time—and it begins with acknowledging your story. If you're navigating the aftermath of infidelity and need a safe, supportive place to process what you're going through, Joni offers one-on-one coaching tailored to your experience. Reach out today—your healing matters, and you don’t have to walk this road alone. Joni is a C...

What do you do when you're sitting in the silence? In this episode, we discuss the profound impact of silent grief and the challenges faced when dealing with betrayal within the church community. We explores the emotional turmoil of maintaining appearances while suffering internally, the fear of revealing personal struggles, and the often inadequate responses from the church when betrayal beco...

In this episode of Processing Infidelity in the Church, Joni discusses the profound impact of betrayal, particularly within the context of faith and community. She reflects on her own experience of infidelity, emphasizing the emotional, spiritual, and relational confusion that often follows such trauma. Joni is a Certified Professional Life Coach. Her mission is to create a safe and judgment-free...

Sign up here for email updates . Processing Infidelity in the Church is a faith-centered podcast offering honest, healing conversations for anyone facing betrayal in ministry and marriage. Whether you're a pastor’s spouse, a church leader, or someone navigating the heartbreak of infidelity, this space is for you. Hosted by Certified Christian Life Coach and former Pastor's Wife Joni Pauley...