Probably True

Constantly beset and bedevilled by the feeling you're Not Doing Gay Right? (Or trans, or non-binary, or bi, etc, etc) Me too!  A little look at what it means to be visible, who decides if we're doing it right, and something about a Findus Crispy Pancake that will probably put you off your dinner.  Don't let the straights get inside your head, they'll only make you boring. Monkeypox: http...

[TRIGGER WARNING: CONVERSION THERAPY] Ex-outreach pastor for notorious Ex-Gay religious organisation Exodus Ministries, George, shares his story of how, when he tried to 'pray away the gay', he ended up gaying away the pray. Eventually. George's book, My Gay Church Days , is available now, and you can reach him via his Insta account, @MyGayChurchDays . Let him know I sent ya. ;) --- Stories of que...

Is it worse to work in a boring 9-5 or get someone off in ten minutes and go back to bed? It's called a blow job for a reason, Stephanie. Stories of an amateur tart trading Gentleman's Services for a haircut, thoughts on happy endings, and the only kind of healing you get from crystals. --- Stories of queer life and even queer-er sex.  The repeatedly award-winning, slightly filthy storytellin...

[CONTENT WARNING: Sexual and emotional abuse; thoughts of suicide.] Michael tells how his local priest insinuated his way into the lives of his devout family, before manipulating and abusing him over many years, how he managed to break free, and the difficulties he found when trying to hold those responsible accountable. A heavy listen, a story of abused power, suffering at the hands of people who...

The continuing non-binary adventures! A story that involves Mario Lopez, broken zippers, and the kindness of strangers. Or, how a vulnerable moment led to something beautiful. And slinky. And SWISHY. SO FLIPPIN SWISHY! I've just realised there's not even any sex in this one. Oh well. --- Stories of queer life and even queer-er sex.  The repeatedly award-winning, slightly filthy storytelling p...

When the sex is that good, you can forgive them for almost anything... But is it good enough to keep going back, despite theft, armed robbery, and... a man asleep in a chair...? Demitri Wylde thinks so, especially as he got a video souvenir of the good bits. Check out his writing, podcasts, and sexual deviance right here , or just search for 'Demitri Wylde' wherever you want to find him. (And if a...

The Probably True guide to Gay Saunas: What to expect, good etiquette, and some basic hot-tub maintenance. Roll on up for slime, sex and a sad story of a slippery mobile phone. Some say it's still there, waiting to be claimed by anyone brave or foolhardy enough to try... - Stories of queer life and even queer-er sex.  The repeatedly award-winning, slightly filthy storytelling project tackling...

From wandering into Heaven as a 15-year-old to living, loving, (and shagging) under the shadow of HIV in the 80s and 90s, Matthew Hodson, HIV activist and underwear model (or so he says), has plenty of stories to share. Including how he made a tidy profit the night he was unburdened of his virginity, and what happened when a journalist told his mum he was living with HIV. AIDSmap.com - @MatthewHod...

Join the Probably True Discord chat thing: https://bit.ly/probtruediscord It's important to know whose rules we're playing by, and whether or not they work for us. The joy of queerness is that if they don't work, we can change them. And also we get free tacos on Tuesdays. Commemorating a sexy encounter, a shiny bicycle, and a wanky explanation about what works for you might not work for me, why th...

Boarding school shenanigans, first love, and overflowing pens: Elder Queer George shares some of his many adventures as a Good Boy turned badass. Enjoyed George's tales of debauchery and decadence? Drop him a line and tell him: HodsonG453@gmail.com -- Stories of queer life and even queer-er sex.  The repeatedly award-winning, slightly filthy storytelling project tackling LGBTQ issues in a fun...

The final part of the Love Languages miniseries, brought to you from my mum's spare room, in the grand tradition of Christmas. Whether it's buying my way into relationships, compensating for my company, or just getting caught perving on a stranger by my boyfriend, gifts are a complicated part of life and love. --- Stories of queer life and even queer-er sex.  The repeatedly award-winning, sli...

The next episode in the Love Languages miniseries looks at Quality Time: If you care about people, spend time with them. (There's a bit more to it than that but, admittedly, not much.) Also: Why it's not a good idea to suffocate feelings with DimSum; how I'm part canine; and a general warning about drum circles. COMING SOON: The Probably True Ask Me Anything Christmas episodet! Get your questions...

Part 3 of the Love Languages miniseries looks at Words of Affirmation: How to craft a compliment, how to make it all about them, and how to take (a compliment) like a pro.  Also, Jurassic World, Americans, and getting addicted to saying nice things about people. It's like heroin, but not actually like it at all. --- Stories of queer life and even queer-er sex.  The repeatedly award-winni...

Good cuddles don't have to mean adequate diddling. Physically touching another human is extremely good for your mental health. It's got something to do with sea creatures. Possibly. Thoughts on non-sexual physical contact, intimacy, and an epiphany in crushed velvet. --- Stories of queer life and even queer-er sex.  The repeatedly award-winning, slightly filthy storytelling project tackling L...

Love languages: What are they? How do we use them? Can I have some cake? If I do it like this, will you be finished before the next episode starts? These and other questions will be answered in the first of a five-episode mini series looking into the many different ways we can tell the people in our lives how much we care. Or, if you're anything like me, realise that someone you dated years ago wa...

Love, laughter and lobbing shoes: The story of a gay couple's journey to start a family, including temper tantrums, sneaky social workers, and a LOT of wine. Paul's podcast, Adoption Adventures, is available in all reputable podcast places, and on Instagram , Facebook and Twitter . --- Stories of queer life and even queer-er sex.  The repeatedly award-winning, slightly filthy storytelling pro...

Do you come out as Non-Binary? How do you know if you are, or not? Can I get a sponsorship deal after mentioning talking about my genitals so much?  All these questions and more, answered with a resounding "I don't know. Sit down and have a biscuit." ----- Stories of queer life and even queer-er sex.  The repeatedly award-winning, slightly filthy storytelling project tackling LGBTQ issue...

What makes a hero? Spaceships? Unattainable moral superiority? A goatee? I consider this while speaking to fearless activist Peter Tatchell about the documentary of his life and work. You're welcome to disagree with my conclusion. 'Hating Peter Tatchell' is available now on Netflix and is definitely worth a watch. Check out http://petertatchellfoundation.org to sign up for the newsletter, and for...

[CONTENT WARNING: Hallucinogens & other drugs] After hearing my experiences in Smoke, filmmaker, avid listener and Sexual Adventurer Jason Decker wanted to share his experiences. Those experiences include: the quest for the mind-blowing orgasm; A celebrity lion at Burning Man; and Fear and Quilting in D.C. An episode about drugs, sex and a desert full of hippies. Amongst other things. TheNaked...

What it means to be visibly queer when you're surrounded by boring people: Creating a Queer Nation, having fun at the Olympics and a potted history of The X-Men. Sort of. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Navigating a life beyond the gender binary can be long and hard. But then, so's my d*ck. Author and Trans Activist Nevo Zisin shares their stories of coming out (often, just to keep people on their toes), going gay without moving a muscle, and giving the boys tips on their technique. As it were. Nevo's instagram: https://www.instagram.com/nevozisin/ and their new book, The Pronoun Lowdown: https:/...

As lockdown restrictions start to ease, social anxieties and a lack of conversation materials cause awkwardness and general confusion. Can you lose your flirting mojo? What happens when you send an awkward email? The best thing to do is go home and eat a Twix. Stories of queer life and even queer-er sex.  Probably True - the repeatedly-award-winning, slightly filthy storytelling project tackl...

A dodgy pickup line, a heavy prescription and an unexpected career in porn: It all started with some unusual glasses and some fairly innocent photos, but ended up learning to love your disability, exploring some niche fetishes, and celebrating the things we do to pay the bills. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

After the 'success' of the Bottom episode, it seemed only right to do one about topping. The main thrust (lol) is to make the whole thing a team effort, not just a sprint for the finish. Of course, we can't talk for long about sticking body parts into one another before bumping into our old friend Toxic Masculinity.  Stories of queer life and even queer-er sex.  Probably True - the repea...

How to make coming out harder than necessary: a guide to keeping things interesting from the host of My Best Friend's Journal. From family fights to under a literal spotlight, Mike talks us through some of the moments where he kinda came out, but also didn't. It's complicated. But it probably didn't need to be. My Best Friend's Journal is Oprah (no, not that Oprah)'s favourite podcast, and is avai...