Proadvisor Coach Podcast

Today’s conversation discusses:   The intricacies of the way we feel during our everyday interactions.   Let us not ignore them.  Enjoy!

“I got into coaching because I was concerned I’d forget the power of personal development” ~ Coach Nick   When you talk about personal development on a podcast every week for more than 2 years, I wonder what the 137th conversation would sound like?    Check it out here…

Are you where you want to be?  In business?  In life?   We have accepted the responsibility of owning all the results in our lives.   At one point, victim mentality played a role.  I am here because _______ (insert external forces aka excuses).   Now that we have moved to the point of acceptance and responsibility, what am I actually capable of changing?   What internal work can I do to influence...

Once you commit to internal work, how does that show up?   Coach Josh references episode# 133 _ “Heart of a Lion” in this week’s episode of #truthseekers.  That’s a good kick-off point to today’s conversation.   And when prioritizing the Internal over External, what exactly does that mean for your External World?  What actually happens?   The coaches give a few real-life examples so that you might...

Mike Skrypnek understands that healing our past traumas and reforming our subconscious patterns allows us to realize our unlimited worth.  He will show you ways to gain the insight needed to develop the awareness to overcome limits keeping you from your own personal or professional happiness and success.   Mike is an interantionl bst seller of 9 books, keynote speaker, podcast host, men’s mental h...

We all have an example where we felt UNSTOPPABLE ! …where we couldn’t be touched; where we were on top of the world; where our energy was bursting at the seams! How does that happen?!  Can we repeat it?  And can we LIVE in that place more often? Why not… The coaches have a secret to share; they give credit to Phil Stutz’s popular Netflix documentary called “Stutz”, and his and Barry Mich...

Pushing yourself into places of vulnerability = the quickest way to grow. Passive aggressiveness may be an indicator that you are burying, or tip-toeing around, something you feel strongly about. How might we be rewarded by a more direct way of addressing something that bothers us? We coaches discuss this further because things that don’t get addressed only build up and explode later. Our conversa...

Decisions do not = certainty.  They are value proposition trade-offs. Everything we do is made up. We get to decide what we are searching for.  And we can’t pursue anything until we make up what that thing is – define it. Limitless possibilities. If you don’t define exactly what it is, you are guaranteed to not get there . It takes courage to define it; to go on the Hero’s Journey. And i...

Creating things (content, concepts, etc) is an evolutionary process. Ideas will build on top of each other.  And there is one underlying truth: I have to start somewhere. Starting with something simple means I can do it over and over again. And at a certain point, it becomes natural to stack.  To build on top.  To create new concepts with the once-new-concepts-now-growing-stale I st...

Sharpening the saw = practicing what we do well, in a manner that challenges what we believe to be true . Coach Nick’s 3 ways to sharpen the solve: Record what you are doing (for yourself to review) We pick up different things when we can see ourselves We notice opportunities to do things differently Get feedback Oftentimes we are scared of feedback Feedback is a gift, whatever way you cut it Jour...

How do you think about setting goals? What are the “right” goals to set? On this week’s episode of #truthseekers , we coaches talk about having a well-balanced approach to goal creation. I, Coach Josh, entered the coaching world 3 years ago so that I could make an impact using my natural abilities, while at the same time living a lifestyle I enjoy. It dawned on me that I hadn’t yet set any “lifest...

Are you 100% bought in to the commitments in your life? Maybe in some areas; maybe not in others…? Today’s episode of #truthseekers explores the concept of COMMITMENT … We wonder how many instances show up daily where we simply run through the motions. Is that acceptable to you? What if you replaced those instances with things that you ARE totally bought into? What difference would that make in yo...

Ryan Gottfredson, Ph. D. is a cutting-edge leadership development author, researcher, and consultant. He helps organizations vertically develop their leaders primarily through a focus on mindsets. Ryan is the Wall Street Journal and USA Today best-selling author of “Success Mindsets: The Key to Unlocking Greater Success in Your Life, Work, & Leadership.” And, he is the author of the book, The...

What ARE the 3 biggest problems?!?! Doing the same old thing Thinking iterative , instead of exponential Leading vs. Management Some key questions to reflect on these 3 problems What are the things you have been doing consistently in your      business that you haven’t been aware of? We tend to think in a linear fashion… by thinking exponential, it     ...

Emotions = clues. The way we feel about certain things are blinking light, green-flag indicators on where our lives are seeking evolution. If we continually experience the same emotions and react the same way, we remain stuck in our patterns. We know it’s difficult to see our own patterns, BECAUSE WE’RE IN THEM. So what does that leave?  That leaves our emotions. Do you feel your emotions? &n...

A year in review.  Let’s explore how far we’ve come… how have you used coaching in 2022? In 2022, how much have you: •          Moved away from painful patterns, people and situations? •          Moved towards a more desirable future, personally and professionally? •       &...

121 _ How to Rethink Metrics and Reinforce Our Purpose w/ RC Olsen A construct in place in the grand majority of businesses is how important metrics and numbers are. Are they THE MOST IMPORTANT thing?  Or are they an indicator that our influence is being made? Notice the difference between “I have to make $150,000 in income this year” vs. “I will create $150k-worth of impact in alignment with...

Do you ever think about living a life that others expect of you?  Have you already left that life? This week’s #truthseekers guest Josh Painter experienced this in his 20’s – living the life others expected of him.  And then he left it. It was his 30 birthday that served as his turning point.  Divorce, moving, and leaving a job he didn’t love all happened as a result of Josh making...

“The great shortcomings of the human race is our inability to understand exponential functions.” If you’re anything like us #truthseekers , you are constantly seeking ways to improve – to get that edge! Something happens as we upgrade… we run into more limiters.  So what do we do? If we do nothing, we become comfortable with the results we are getting.  Unacceptable. The more momentum we...

Being present in the moment.  Why are so many people adopting this mentality nowadays?  It might be helpful to first define the opposite… NOT being mindful (or present) means your mind drifts to another area of your life.  It means you’re not focused on what you’re doing, what’s in front of you.  You’d rather be doing something else. When you’re present, your attention goes 100...

Haven’t we all had that feeling where we aren’t motivated to do ANYTHING?! Sometimes (usually) that happens on Thanksgiving.  Is it… might it be… is there ANY way to get things done… when we aren’t motivated?! Leverage leverage leverage. When was the last time you used leverage in a scenario where maybe you didn’t want to do things? All the time!  “There always leverage if we’re willing...

" Any feeling felt all the way through is bliss " is a quote from Joseph Campbell that this week's #truthseekers guest Chase Tolleson reminds us of. What did he mean by this?  Chase shares his perspective of the passing of his brother.  Wow. The rest of our conversation focuses on how we as humans, and men in particular, deal with our feelings.   "What do we do with our feelings?! &...

Have you ever committed to something for a full year? 52 weeks.  365 days. That’s a lot! How does one make a massive change like that?  What’s the secret?  What’s the success principle? As we know, one of the quickest ways to change your results is to change your environment, whether that be your physical setting, or the people with which you surround yourself. In this episode, Coac...

Have you ever wanted something badly, only to realize it wasn’t what you thought it was once you got it? There is something interesting that happens when you realize – when you become – what you are after. The consciousness of the desire drops. One more time; the consciousness of the desire goes away . Think about that… and watch our conversation this week as we dive deep!

The Fool’s Choice:  if I am honest, I am going to lose a friend. Whenever we cover up the way we truly feel, ESPECIALLY in the name of saving someone else from feeling a certain way, we move further away from our true power . So what do we do?  How do we address the Fool’s Choice?  How can we be honest about the way we feel?  How can we live in our true power? “I’m going to be...