Proactive is the Way

Featured Topic: Let Your Life Speak - Episode 11   Our topic this month will be all about letting our life speak. What should we consider to effectively listen to our voice of vocation?   In the second episode of Designing Your life we highlighted a couple of exercises on how to identify flow and a mind mapping exercise to narrow down activities that we tend to gravitate towards. Then we used this...

Featured Topic: That Good Life - Episode 10 A few weeks ago we kicked off That Good Life. Tiffany and I discussed how we cultivate purpose and define meaning within life. It was interesting that while looking back on our life we both shared that having children or rather the efforts that we put into raising children turned out to be the most memorable and rewarding experience within our life. We a...

Featured Topic: That Good Life - Episode 10 A few weeks ago we kicked off That Good Life. Tiffany and I discussed how we cultivate purpose and define meaning within life. It was interesting that while looking back on our life we both shared that having children or rather the efforts that we put into raising children turned out to be the most memorable and rewarding experience within our life. We a...

Special Edition - That Good Life A Ted Talk with Mihaly Csikszentmihalyi Flow, the Secret to Happiness Mihaly Csikszentmihalyi asks, "What makes a life worth living?" Noting that money cannot make us happy, he looks to those who find pleasure and lasting satisfaction in activities that bring about a state of "flow." 📹  https://youtu.be/I_u-Eh3h7Mo   Join us on our next series, That Good Life 🎙Pro...

Featured Topic: That Good Life Our topic this month, That Good Life. While discussing the Good Life we will be focusing on the Hungarian - American’s psychologist’s book Flow by MIHALY CSIKSZENTMIHALY (muhhay lee chik sent mee hai ee) Last week we had a fire and was displaced. While we managed to land on our feet like a cat with a bazillion lives I couldn’t help but to reflect on that moment and h...

Featured Topic: That Good Life Our topic this month, That Good Life. While discussing the Good Life we will be focusing on the Hungarian - American’s psychologist’s book Flow by MIHALY CSIKSZENTMIHALY (muhhay lee chik sent mee hai ee) Last week we had a fire and was displaced. While we managed to land on our feet like a cat with a bazillion lives I couldn’t help but to reflect on that moment and h...

Featured Topic: I Got Standards! We are continuing our conversations on Principles by reviewing You Owe You by Eric Thomas. During our last episode we laid down our laws of the land, our principles. We identified our top 5 non negotiables that we abide by in our efforts to manage our lives. In this episode we will cover the top five principles that we found valuable in Eric’s book and how his prin...

Featured Topic: I Got Standards! We are continuing our conversations on Principles by reviewing You Owe You by Eric Thomas. During our last episode we laid down our laws of the land, our principles. We identified our top 5 non negotiables that we abide by in our efforts to manage our lives. In this episode we will cover the top five principles that we found valuable in Eric’s book and how his prin...

Featured Topic: I Got Standards! Happy New Year everyone! I pray that each one of you have continued joy, peace, love, and prosperity in 2023 and the years to come. Thank you for joining us for our first episode of Kinky Knots Cafe’s Proactive is the Way in 2023! Our topic this month will be about Principles. What standards have you set that serve as your benchmark and are the foundation for how y...

Featured Topic: I Got Standards! Happy New Year everyone! I pray that each one of you have continued joy, peace, love, and prosperity in 2023 and the years to come. Thank you for joining us for our first episode of Kinky Knots Cafe’s Proactive is the Way in 2023! Our topic this month will be about Principles. What standards have you set that serve as your benchmark and are the foundation for how y...

Featured Episode: Proactive is the Way - The Holiday Edition Hello Friends! Merry Christmas and Happy Holidays to you and yours! In our efforts to celebrate the holiday season with you we want to bring you some holiday cheer with a bit of trivia. We hope that you will join in and enjoy all of the festivities that we have in store for you. Listen to the podcast for the details and make sure to join...

Featured Topic: Get Out’cha Own Damn Way “Without the ability to understand ourselves, we inevitably become lost.” During our last episode Conspiracy theories and paranormal encounters were at the top of our discussions as Tiff and I shared how the vices we thought we created in good defense, to protect ourselves, actually almost ruined our lives. When Tiffany realized that she was damaging relati...

Featured Topic: Get Out’cha Own Damn Way “Without the ability to understand ourselves, we inevitably become lost.” During our last episode Conspiracy theories and paranormal encounters were at the top of our discussions as Tiff and I shared how the vices we thought we created in good defense, to protect ourselves, actually almost ruined our lives. When Tiffany realized that she was damaging relati...

Featured Topic: Get Out’cha Own D@m# Way! “To confront patterns of self-sabotage, we need to change the way we think. We have to become aware of our false beliefs and shift into a mindset that actually gets us to where we want to go.” During our last couple of episodes we focused on habits, the good and the bad, and  steps we could take to create more good habits and eliminate the bad ones. As we...

Featured Topic: Get Out’cha Own D@m# Way! “To confront patterns of self-sabotage, we need to change the way we think. We have to become aware of our false beliefs and shift into a mindset that actually gets us to where we want to go.” During our last couple of episodes we focused on habits, the good and the bad, and  steps we could take to create more good habits and eliminate the bad ones. As we...

Featured Topic: The Mind, Loaded and Ready “Until you make the unconscious conscious, it will direct your life and you will call it fate.” ~ Carl Jung Addictions, fixations, tendencies, weaknesses, enslavement, customs, no matter what you call it, the good and the bad, we all got’em. Do you know what your habits are? Most of us don’t really identify the behaviors we have as a habit. Typically thes...

Featured Topic: The Mind, Loaded and Ready “Until you make the unconscious conscious, it will direct your life and you will call it fate.” ~ Carl Jung “Men are born soft and supple; dead, they are stiff and hard. Plants are born tender and pliant; dead, they are brittle and dry. Thus whoever is stiff and inflexible is a disciple of death. Whoever is soft and yielding is a disciple of life. The har...

Featured Topic: The Mind, Loaded and  “Until you make the unconscious conscious, it will direct your life and you will call it fate.” ~ Carl Jung “Men are born soft and supple; dead, they are stiff and hard. Plants are born tender and pliant; dead, they are brittle and dry. Thus whoever is stiff and inflexible is a disciple of death. Whoever is soft and yielding is a disciple of life. The hard and...

Featured Topic: The Mind, Loaded and Ready “Until you make the unconscious conscious, it will direct your life and you will call it fate.” ~ Carl Jung Addictions, fixations, tendencies, weaknesses, enslavement, customs, no matter what you call it, the good and the bad, we all got’em. Do you know what your habits are? Most of us don’t really identify the behaviors we have as a habit. Typically thes...

October Topic: Designing Your Life - Episode 2 “Your fate is within your hands” What have you done or are doing to successfully craft a life that makes you feel fulfilled and creates an environment where you live abundantly in peace, with love, and oh so much joy! We will continue our discussions on the idea of designing your life and what it takes to design effectively by reviewing Designing Your...

October Topic: Designing Your Life - Episode 2 “Your fate is within your hands” What have you done or are doing to successfully craft a life that makes you feel fulfilled and creates an environment where you live abundantly in peace, with love, and oh so much joy! We will continue our discussions on the idea of designing your life and what it takes to design effectively by reviewing Designing Your...

October Topic: Designing Your Life “Your fate is within your hands” What have you done or are doing to successfully craft a life that makes you feel fulfilled and creates an environment where you live abundantly in peace, with love, and oh so much joy! Join us as we discuss the idea of designing your life and what it takes to design effectively.  If you have questions from this episode and would l...

October Topic: Designing Your Life “Your fate is within your hands” What have you done or are doing to successfully craft a life that makes you feel fulfilled and creates an environment where you live abundantly in peace, with love, and oh so much joy! Join us as we discuss the idea of designing your life and what it takes to design effectively.  If you have questions from this episode and would l...