Prioritize

Send us Fan Mail It’s been a minute—and we don’t take it lightly that you’re still here with us. Truly… thank you. In this episode, we catch up a bit—talking about an upcoming business trip to Cancun (yes, maybe too much YouTube research), and a recent project in Columbus, Mississippi that turned into a story worth telling… just not today. Because something else took center stage. Recently, while...

Send us Fan Mail This week, we take a nostalgia-soaked detour back to the 80s — because nothing says “holiday spirit” like stumbling across a beloved childhood show suddenly streaming on Prime. One minute you’re scrolling, the next you’re eight years old again, wearing questionable fashion and eating cereal straight from the box. Then we shift gears into Thanksgiving mode: the excitement, the chao...

Send us Fan Mail Some memories don’t fade—they just smell like bacon grease and sound like laughter from the next room. There’s something about the sound of an iron skillet in the morning—the hiss of batter meeting bacon grease, the smell of hotcakes that could wake the whole house. Mom always said they had to be golden on the edges, not too thick, not too thin. Thanksgiving meant those hotcakes,...

Send us Fan Mail In this heartwarming episode of Prioritize , I take a walk back through the early chapters of life — when the world was simpler, and the lessons came from family, not from headlines. From soccer fields and fishing trips with Grandpa to the unforgettable day I got my first Chinese throwing star (don’t worry, Mom survived), these stories remind us how deeply the roots of faith, fami...

Send us Fan Mail It's been a while...a Looooong while!  So...we decided to start a new season...same crazy voice!  Not sure about you, but I've had a few life changes since last we spoke, and discuss a few of those changes today - job change, getting fired, trying to find a new path, and...a certain kind of gift. ...A few of the issues I address in this episode -   Traveling mics Standar...

Send us Fan Mail Trying some new things in the studio with the mics, checking details in the podcast feed, and just back from a project in Crowne Point…today we hit on MARRIAGE!  Where to begin? ...A few of the issues I address in this episode -   Do you like? Share? Comment? Subscribe? Rate? After a trip out to Crown Point, IN…I got an idea for a special podcast for the Patreon Page He who finds...

Send us Fan Mail With a new level of appreciation for eyeglass wearers everywhere…we’re back in the studio for another recording…one of which has been long-awaited.  Have you ever had to replace an appliance? Washer…dryer…dishwasher?  We begin a very long journey with a few steps to the Home Depot, and go into some detail on this circus in this episode…hope you likes! ...A few of the issues I addr...

Send us Fan Mail After a long stretch of very little to no activity within the podcast realm…I have returned, and I sincerely appreciate your patience.  Too much going on from trips, being on the road, and a few life altering events, however I am back in the studios with a new addition.  I discuss it in today’s podcast! ... A few of the issues I address in this episode -  The upcoming Home Depot e...

Send us Fan Mail A butler's pantry, a new audiobook, and a little trip to Iowa...what do they all have in common? Find out in this episode of Prioritize! Hope you likes! ...A few of the issues I address in this episode -   A new book coming out - "The Factory" and I am working on the audio book working on our Patreon subscriber platform Finally got the Butlers' Pantry completed...

Send us Fan Mail New studio, new pallet wall, and time for a new podcast! Customer service podcast is on the way, a birthday podcast, a trip to Iowa, and many more to come.  My son is now helping me with building the Pattern page for future subscribers for exclusive content, videos, merchandise, and more.  I'm excited about it, and hopefully, when you see it and subscribe...you will be too! ...

Send us Fan Mail My wife and I were deciding on our next getaway...and we were leaning towards Florida fun in the sun...and then she mentioned this!  You'll never guess the spiritual encounter we had in Vegas!  Enjoy! ...A few of the issues I address in this episode -   - foodies  - The Nuns of Fremont Street  - A deep spiritual experience  - Turo Toby-isms:"I don't even know what I...

Send us Fan Mail This is a tough one for me, some bad actors from way back, and the evil continues.  What does that mean for husbands like you and me…?  I discuss it in this episode! ...A few of the issues I address in this episode -   - 2012  - Batman  - A Husband’s role  - Commitment  Links to items mentioned in this episode - Batman The Joker Batman The Dark Knight Rises Toby-isms:"I don&a...

Send us Fan Mail      Been a while since I've dropped an episode.  My apologies.  Got a few new fans! Thanks for subscribing (no fee)!        Have you ever been flipping through the radio, or Spotify/Apple Music/Whatever...and came across that song that took you back? There are some song you listen to and all the sudden...you are transported back to that place, that one place when you first h...

Send us Fan Mail You search, and search, and date, and make mistakes, and finally after long last...you have found "The One"!  And then you marry...and forget about dating???  What happened?  Time to bring it back, and in this episode...we discuss a few ideas, and why it's important. ... A few of the issues I address in this episode -  How To History of Valentine's Day...we sho...

Send us Fan Mail We work hard, maybe play had, buy stuff...and then what...?  From stuff in the closets to relationships on the brink...today we discuss prioritizing letting go! ... A few of the issues I address in this episode -  Junk drawers Garages A recent date with the wife a busy three months bad relationships people we've lost Links to items mentioned in this episode - Toby-isms: &quot...

Send us Fan Mail Just came through Christmas...and already missing it.  The traditions, the music, the goods, and the memories.  I discuss a few of them here in this episode. ... A few of the issues I address in this episode -  Traditions Grandma's House Ginger crinkles Chex Mix Steak Dinner Links to items mentioned in this episode - Sam's Club Bose Toby-isms: "If I always do what I...

Send us Fan Mail We look forward to this time of the year...all year long!  While we can't press stop, or rewind...we can slow it down a bit and make the enjoyment last just a little bit longer.  We discuss just how to do that in this episode. ... A few of the issues I address in this episode -  The Best Hot Chocolate Recipe Ever...sort-of The anticipation Make it last Links to items mentione...

Send us Fan Mail Well...one can't be 100% correct, every day, all day, all the time...or can they? ... A few of the issues I address in this episode -  Stepping off the wagon Taking ownership date nights Ruth's Criss Links to items mentioned in this episode - Ruth's Criss Christmas Night With You Straight No Chaser Toby-isms: "If I always do what I've always done, I will a...

Send us Fan Mail      Back in the studio...I have just a few thoughts on traditions, I share some of ours, and a few quirks along the way.      Thanks for listening!  I'm glad you're here! ... A few of the issues I address in this episode -  Fasting Thanksgiving The day for which we've waited Holiday Memes Holiday traditions Some angry Uncles, puzzles, and movies Links to items ment...

Send us Fan Mail In this episode, I discuss the overtly obvious conspiracy to destroy every experience I encounter with the fast food industry from McD's to BK to Taco Bell and more.  What is happening out there?  They used to be great, but lately...not so much.  Have you experienced this lately? Thanks for listening!  I'm glad you're here! ... A few of the issues I address in this...

Send us Fan Mail In this episode, I discuss memoirs of a recent stay in a distant hotel and the many nuances between today’s stay, that of 2019 and before, and even a few family vacations as a kid and their unforgettable Overnighters in a so-called “hotel”.      The hotel experience has changed over the years.  Back in the day the staff at a hotel provided us with VIP services  - fresh linen, clea...

Send us Fan Mail This is the last part of the podcast...broken into 4 different parts: Prioritizing the debt free journey. On this live episode we take a guest from the audience along with some q's about debt - This was recorded on a live platform called - Wisdom (it is a podcast platform)  and was done so with a sub-par Microphone...kindly excuse the lack of quality sound.  I am trying out d...

Send us Fan Mail This was recorded on a live platform called - Wisdom (it is a podcast platform)  and was done so with a sub-par Microphone...kindly excuse the lack of quality sound.  I am trying out different equipment for when I am on the road. We walk directly into debt while deluding ourselves into thinking it's just this one credit card, it's just an emergency, it will just be this...

Send us Fan Mail This was recorded on a live platform called - Wisdom (it is a podcast platform)  and was done so with a sub-par Microphone...kindly excuse the lack of quality sound.  I am trying out different equipment for when I am on the road. We walk directly into debt while deluding ourselves into thinking it's just this one credit card, it's just an emergency, it will just be this...

Send us Fan Mail The audio on this podcast will be different, as this is recorded on the road. I forget my luggage at my Fort Wayne office, leaving me with one pair of shoes, and they are the same pair of shoes that I’ve got me to work for the past Three years… This might be the end of the road. Thanks for listening!  I'm glad you're here! ... A few of the issues I address in this episod...