Polite As Fuck Podcast

In this extra spicy episode, Erica and Eli share their thoughts on sending scandalous photos and what their experience is with lingerie. Follow PAF on YouTube @politeasfckpodcast ,  TikTok @politeasfuckpodcast , & Instagram @politeasfuckpodcast .

In this episode, Erica and Eli explore the fine line between desire and desperation in relationships —  dissecting behaviors like getting too comfortable too quickly and sacrificing personal needs for someone else.  Follow PAF on YouTube @politeasfckpodcast ,  TikTok @politeasfuckpodcast , & Instagram @politeasfuckpodcast .

This week, Erica and Eli discover what love bombing actually is and whether or not they've experienced it.  Follow PAF on YouTube @politeasfckpodcast ,  TikTok @politeasfuckpodcast , & Instagram @politeasfuckpodcast .

Sneaky Instagram messages? Strange Venmo transactions? This week, Erica and Eli share their experiences with cheating, how physical and emotional cheating differ, and if they consider different subreddit stories as crossing the line. Follow PAF on YouTube @politeasfckpodcast ,  TikTok @politeasfuckpodcast , & Instagram @politeasfuckpodcast .

Already in July, Erica and Eli take this episode to reflect on the past 6 months of 2024. They share achievements, hardships, and lessons learned, as well as what they envision the rest of the year to bring. Follow PAF on YouTube @politeasfckpodcast ,  TikTok @politeasfuckpodcast , & Instagram @politeasfuckpodcast .

Remember you couldn't wait to grow up? Well, Erica and Eli are here to remind you why we should've waited longer. This week, they share your responses and a few of their own on the dreaded responsibilities that come with adulthood.  Follow PAF on YouTube @politeasfckpodcast ,  TikTok @politeasfuckpodcast , & Instagram @politeasfuckpodcast .

It's officially summer! Erica and Eli compiled a list of summer bucket list items that won't break the bank but will bring the good times.  Follow PAF on YouTube @politeasfckpodcast ,  TikTok @politeasfuckpodcast , & Instagram @politeasfuckpodcast .

Erica and Eli are approaching the dating scene a little differently this year, but that doesn't mean first dates are any less awkward. They share what to look for before even accepting a date, why a spark isn't always a good sign, and how to navigate the feelings after.  Follow PAF on YouTube @politeasfckpodcast ,  TikTok @politeasfuckpodcast , & Instagram @politeasfuckpodcast .

This week, Erica and Eli heat things up with a sexy episode on giving and receiving oral sex. After sharing some good (and not so good experiences), they give some key tips on how to get out of your head to give better head. Follow PAF on YouTube @politeasfckpodcast ,  TikTok @politeasfuckpodcast , & Instagram @politeasfuckpodcast .

Coming straight off the Rock 'n' Roll San Diego half & full marathon, Erica and Eli bring the runners high to talk about their training and race day experience. They compare being a student athlete vs. racing as an adult and how their fitness goals have evolved. Follow PAF on YouTube @politeasfckpodcast ,  TikTok @politeasfuckpodcast , & Instagram @politeasfuckpodcast .

This week, Erica and Eli are joined by lifelong astrologer and friend, Hailey, to better understand their birth charts and how it impacts compatibility. She breaks down the difference between astrology vs. tarot and explains why knowing someone's sun sign isn't enough to determine a match. Follow PAF on Instagram @politeasfuckpodcast , TikTok @politeasfuckpodcast , and YouTube @politeasf...

This week, Erica and Eli finally sit down to have an open and honest conversation about whether or not they want to have kids. They weigh how that decision is impacted by relationships, community, health, finances, and career.   Follow PAF on YouTube @politeasfckpodcast ,  TikTok @politeasfuckpodcast , & Instagram @politeasfuckpodcast .

The Miami trip finally left the group chat, and it was one for the books! In this episode, Erica and Eli recap their recent adventures in the sunshine state and contrast it to their (even more eventful) time in North Carolina. Follow along on YouTube @politeasfckpodcast ,  TikTok @politeasfuckpodcast , & Instagram @politeasfuckpodcast .

Piggybacking off the last episode, Erica and Eli dial in on how they stepped out of the single "waiting room" and are flourishing in self discovery and friendships. Follow along on YouTube @politeasfckpodcast ,  TikTok @politeasfuckpodcast , & Instagram @politeasfuckpodcast .

Following some thought-provoking questions at book club, Erica and Eli discuss sweet moments they've witnessed recently, what their niche love language is, and how their friendships have evolved. They unpack what it takes to build a community and how to trade loneliness with solitude. Follow along on YouTube @politeasfckpodcast ,  TikTok @politeasfuckpodcast , & Instagram @politeasfuckpod...

This week, Erica and Eli dive into their journey with fashion and finding their own personal style. From their favorite brands to their lease favorite pieces, this episode is sure to spark your next outfit idea. Follow along on YouTube @politeasfckpodcast ,  TikTok @politeasfuckpodcast , & Instagram @politeasfuckpodcast .

This week, Erica and Eli open up about their struggles with social anxiety and how it portrays physically, behaviorally, and psychologically — including on the dating scene. They also share some hacks they've found to get out of your head and enjoy the moment.   Follow along on YouTube @politeasfckpodcast ,  TikTok @politeasfuckpodcast , & Instagram @politeasfuckpodcast .

Shed your winter coats and grab your cleaning supplies! After some quick life updates, Erica and Eli chat about ways to declutter your space and life, take inventory of what you have versus what you need, and ultimately prepare for the spring season.   Follow PAF on Instagram @politeasfuckpodcast , TikTok @politeasfuckpodcast , & YouTube @politeasfckpodcast .

Happy Birthday Erica! In this episode, the tables are turned as Eli plays the "Favorites Game" with Erica for her 28th birthday. Erica also answers reflection questions around this past year of life, including how she has evolved. Follow along on YouTube @politeasfckpodcast ,  TikTok @politeasfuckpodcast , & Instagram @politeasfuckpodcast .

This week, Erica and Eli reminisce on the "good ol' days" of their youth when they would strut around in gaucho pants, watch Flavor Flav find love, and make up a dance routine while they waited for the computer to turn on.    Follow along on YouTube @politeasfckpodcast ,  TikTok @politeasfuckpodcast , & Instagram @politeasfuckpodcast .

Nestled in Mission Trails Regional Park, Erica and Eli open up about their experiences with femininity and why it can be a struggle to embrace that side of themselves. They answer a few journal prompts for healing feminine energy and share some practical tips for getting in touch with it.    Follow along on YouTube @politeasfckpodcast ,  TikTok @politeasfuckpodcast , & Instagram @politeasfuckp...

Despite what's been said in other episodes, Erica and Eli really do like the little things guys do. This week, they're here to share a few examples of what men do that have them kicking their feet. Follow along on YouTube @politeasfckpodcast ,  TikTok @politeasfuckpodcast , & Instagram @politeasfuckpodcast .

In this episode, Erica and Eli share a few of their weekly random thoughts — like how to use public restrooms and if natural deodorant works. Then, they deep dive into into the relationship subreddit and give advice on a number of posts.    Follow along on YouTube @politeasfckpodcast ,  TikTok @politeasfuckpodcast , & Instagram @politeasfuckpodcast .

This week, Erica and Eli dive into their definition of an "inner child" and what resonates most from the four types of childhood wounds. Then, they answer some journaling prompts for inner child healing that bring up a plethora of silly stories.  Follow along on YouTube @politeasfckpodcast ,  TikTok @politeasfuckpodcast , & Instagram @politeasfuckpodcast .

After some crazy road rage experiences, Erica and Eli decide it's time to discuss the pros and cons of living in California. From transportation, people, and activities to weather, culture, and safety, does the good outweigh the cost?   Follow along on YouTube @politeasfckpodcast ,  TikTok @politeasfuckpodcast , & Instagram @politeasfuckpodcast .