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Purchasing kink toys can be expensive and not everyone has the budget or even the desire to spend that much money. Some very creative people have found kink uses for everyday items - what we call pervertables. In this episode we explain exactly what pervertables are and give you lots of ideas of pervertables you can use in your scenes. This episode is sponsored by Manscaped. Get 20% OFF @manscaped...

It's that time of the year when we express our gratitude for so many things relating to the podcast. Join us for an episode of thankfulness and laughter.  This episode is sponsored by Manscaped .  Get 20% OFF @manscaped + Free Shipping with promo code  PINKKINK  at MANSCAPED.com!  #ad #manscapedpod Visit us at pinkkinkpodcast.com Affiliates - SireDonLeather.com (use code P...

Some people think no and stop are safewords while others call it plain language. So which is it? Are they the same or different? We discuss this as well as go into depth about communicating in a scene. Visit us at pinkkinkpodcast.com Affiliates - SireDonLeather.com (use code PINKKINK to save 10% on your order) Leatheretc.com (use code PINKKINK to save 10% on your order and free shipping on orders...

Rara and Dara both have talked about being Demo Tops at events. But what exactly is a Demo Top? How does that differ from other types of Topping? They answer these questions and more in this episode. Visit us at pinkkinkpodcast.com Affiliates - SireDonLeather.com (use code PINKKINK to save 10% on your order) Leatheretc.com (use code PINKKINK to save 10% on your order and free shipping on orders ov...

Tik Tok, specifically Kink Tok, has become the newest way for kinksters to learn about BDSM. Unfortunately, not all the information presented is accurate. In fact, some is downright dangerous. We go through some of the worst we have come across and hopefully clear some things up. Visit us at pinkkinkpodcast.com Affiliates - SireDonLeather.com (use code PINKKINK to save 10% on your order) Leatheret...

We share how we dominate. What are our dominating styles? What do we look for in a submissive? What kind of rules and tasks do we like to include in our dynamics? What would be a deal breaker? We answer these and so many more questions. Visit us at pinkkinkpodcast.com Affiliates - SireDonLeather.com (use code PINKKINK to save 10% on your order) Leatheretc.com (use code PINKKINK to save 10% on your...

Are BDSM Contracts a requirement for a dynamic? Why should I have a contract? What should be included in a contract? We answer these questions and much more in this episode.  Visit us at pinkkinkpodcast.com Affiliates - SireDonLeather.com (use code PINKKINK to save 10% on your order) Leatheretc.com (use code PINKKINK to save 10% on your order and free shipping on orders over $50) BDSMandPolyO...

We finally devote an entire episode to the subject of subspace. What is it? What does it look like? How can I achieve it? We answer all these questions and more in our deep dive into subspace. Visit us at pinkkinkpodcast.com Affiliates - SireDonLeather.com (use code PINKKINK to save 10% on your order) Leatheretc.com (use code PINKKINK to save 10% on your order and free shipping on orders over $50)...

In this episode we answer questions that we received from listeners and found on social media. If you would like to ask us a question, send us a message through our email or through social media. Visit us at pinkkinkpodcast.com Affiliates - SireDonLeather.com (use code PINKKINK to save 10% on your order) Leatheretc.com (use code PINKKINK to save 10% on your order and free shipping on orders over $...

Being a submissive is an amazing and wonderful thing but sometimes it can be difficult to explain just why it is amazing and wonderful. In this episode we go through all the benefits of being a submissive. We also talk about some of the potential pitfalls of your submission. Even if you are not a submissive, you should listen because it will give you a better understanding. Visit us at pinkkinkpod...

It's Rara's birthday episode so she chose to discuss Praise Kink.  Also known as affirmation play, praise kink is growing in popularity. You may think that it's an easy thing to include praise in your scenes or dynamic, but Praise Kink is so much more than just saying thank your or complimenting your partner. We discuss the psychology behind this kink, how to determine if you have it, and how...

This week we are talking about Fear Play - what it is, why do we enjoy this type of play, and we give you ideas on how to incorporate fear into your scenes. Because fear play falls into the category called "edge play” because of the high physical or psychological risk, we also go over ways to minimize the risk and how to handle things if trouble arises. Visit us at pinkkinkpodcast.com Affiliates -...

It's Dara's birthday episode so she got to chose the topic and she picked Humiliation. It is one of the kinks she has and wants to explore more. We talk about exactly what a humiliation kink, the importance of boundaries and consent when doing humiliation scenes, and what Dara has agreed to do if we meet our Patreon Membership campaign goal. Visit us at pinkkinkpodcast.com Affiliates - SireDonLeat...

The term "in service" is something kinksters are very familiar with. But did you know you can Top or bottom in service to someone? In this episode we explain exactly what service Topping and bottoming is and how it differs from typical Topping and bottoming. We also set off our Patreon Membership Drive in honor of our September birthdays. For more information about our Patreon, check out http://pi...

We talk about why your reputation is everything within the BDSM community. We discuss how having a bad reputation can hurt you and how a good reputation can benefit you. We even give tips on how to get that good reputation. Visit us at pinkkinkpodcast.com Affiliates - SireDonLeather.com (use code PINKKINK to save 10% on your order) Leatheretc.com (use code PINKKINK to save 10% on your order and fr...

When we saw that Netflix had a new show titled "How to Build a Sex Room" we knew that we would have to watch. And since we have opinions, we knew we would have to share our thoughts, good and bad, on the show.  Visit us at pinkkinkpodcast.com Affiliates - SireDonLeather.com (use code PINKKINK to save 10% on your order) Leatheretc.com (use code PINKKINK to save 10% on your order and free shipp...

The recent popularity of things like 50 Shades and 365 has created more interest in kink. Helping people understand what we do is great, but these works of fiction have created another problem by blurring the lines between fantasy and reality. In this episode, we talk about the differences between what the media portrays BDSM as and what the reality is. Visit us at pinkkinkpodcast.com Affiliates -...

Exhibitionism and voyeurism are two sides of the same coin. Without someone to watch them, exhibitionists have nothing. And without someone willing to be watched, voyeurs are left with nothing to do. Rara, the exhibitionist and Dara, the voyeur, talk about how these kinks work for them and ways to include them in a D/s dynamic.  Visit us at pinkkinkpodcast.com Affiliates - SireDonLeather.com (use...

It had been a super long time since either of us had gone through the BDSM Checklist and updated it with our current likes and dislikes. We used the checklist that is available at pinkkinkpodcast.com on the Resources page. Join us as we go through the list, share stories, and see once again how different we are from where we started and from each other. Visit us at pinkkinkpodcast.com Affiliates -...

When does masochism in BDSM become harmful for your mental health? We spoke to AJ, a kink and sexuality educator and therapist to answer this important question.  To reach AJ - Ajcheyfitz@tamarapincus.com Visit us at pinkkinkpodcast.com Affiliates - SireDonLeather.com (use code PINKKINK to save 10% on your order) Leatheretc.com (use code PINKKINK to save 10% on your order and free shipping on...

Frenzy is an experience that affects many new kinksters. You are finally getting to dip your toes into this kinky world that you have learned about and you are overwhelmed. You become consumed by your desire to do it all, even to the point of neglecting all other concerns, even safety concerns. We share stories of frenzy, ours and friends, as we discuss why frenzy can happen and how best to deal w...

Controlling orgasms is a fun way to add heat to your sex life and it's a very common practice in D/s relationships. We talk about different ways to incorporate orgasm control into your life and the many surprising benefits of orgasm control. Visit us at pinkkinkpodcast.com Affiliates - SireDonLeather.com (use code PINKKINK to save 10% on your order) Leatheretc.com (use code PINKKINK to save 10% on...

BDSM is a lot of fun but it comes with risks. If you are smart and experienced, then you have identified ways to minimize risks. But there is always the chance that things can go wrong. They can be small things or really big things and everyone, Top or bottom, should be prepared to deal with mistakes. Visit us at pinkkinkpodcast.com Affiliates - SireDonLeather.com (use code PINKKINK to save 10% on...

Wax play is a form of temperature play in which wax is dripped onto your partner's body. It may seem like a simple way to add some fun to your kinky play. However, before engaging in wax play you need to know what you are doing. We talk about how to play with wax safely and offer different creative ways to expand on your wax play. Visit us at pinkkinkpodcast.com Affiliates - SireDonLeather.com (us...

Drop is a term we hear a lot in BDSM. Technically drop is what happens to your body after you've drained your brain of all the hormones and chemicals that it released during your scenes. It's a term typically associated with submissives but anyone can experience drop after a scene, including Tops. How exactly does drop work? What is happening to your body when you drop? Can you prevent it? Is it o...