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When we saw that Netflix had a new show titled "How to Build a Sex Room" we knew that we would have to watch. And since we have opinions, we knew we would have to share our thoughts, good and bad, on the show.  Visit us at pinkkinkpodcast.com Affiliates - SireDonLeather.com (use code PINKKINK to save 10% on your order) Leatheretc.com (use code PINKKINK to save 10% on your order and free shipp...

The recent popularity of things like 50 Shades and 365 has created more interest in kink. Helping people understand what we do is great, but these works of fiction have created another problem by blurring the lines between fantasy and reality. In this episode, we talk about the differences between what the media portrays BDSM as and what the reality is. Visit us at pinkkinkpodcast.com Affiliates -...

Exhibitionism and voyeurism are two sides of the same coin. Without someone to watch them, exhibitionists have nothing. And without someone willing to be watched, voyeurs are left with nothing to do. Rara, the exhibitionist and Dara, the voyeur, talk about how these kinks work for them and ways to include them in a D/s dynamic.  Visit us at pinkkinkpodcast.com Affiliates - SireDonLeather.com (use...

It had been a super long time since either of us had gone through the BDSM Checklist and updated it with our current likes and dislikes. We used the checklist that is available at pinkkinkpodcast.com on the Resources page. Join us as we go through the list, share stories, and see once again how different we are from where we started and from each other. Visit us at pinkkinkpodcast.com Affiliates -...

When does masochism in BDSM become harmful for your mental health? We spoke to AJ, a kink and sexuality educator and therapist to answer this important question.  To reach AJ - Ajcheyfitz@tamarapincus.com Visit us at pinkkinkpodcast.com Affiliates - SireDonLeather.com (use code PINKKINK to save 10% on your order) Leatheretc.com (use code PINKKINK to save 10% on your order and free shipping on...

Frenzy is an experience that affects many new kinksters. You are finally getting to dip your toes into this kinky world that you have learned about and you are overwhelmed. You become consumed by your desire to do it all, even to the point of neglecting all other concerns, even safety concerns. We share stories of frenzy, ours and friends, as we discuss why frenzy can happen and how best to deal w...

Controlling orgasms is a fun way to add heat to your sex life and it's a very common practice in D/s relationships. We talk about different ways to incorporate orgasm control into your life and the many surprising benefits of orgasm control. Visit us at pinkkinkpodcast.com Affiliates - SireDonLeather.com (use code PINKKINK to save 10% on your order) Leatheretc.com (use code PINKKINK to save 10% on...

BDSM is a lot of fun but it comes with risks. If you are smart and experienced, then you have identified ways to minimize risks. But there is always the chance that things can go wrong. They can be small things or really big things and everyone, Top or bottom, should be prepared to deal with mistakes. Visit us at pinkkinkpodcast.com Affiliates - SireDonLeather.com (use code PINKKINK to save 10% on...

Wax play is a form of temperature play in which wax is dripped onto your partner's body. It may seem like a simple way to add some fun to your kinky play. However, before engaging in wax play you need to know what you are doing. We talk about how to play with wax safely and offer different creative ways to expand on your wax play. Visit us at pinkkinkpodcast.com Affiliates - SireDonLeather.com (us...

Drop is a term we hear a lot in BDSM. Technically drop is what happens to your body after you've drained your brain of all the hormones and chemicals that it released during your scenes. It's a term typically associated with submissives but anyone can experience drop after a scene, including Tops. How exactly does drop work? What is happening to your body when you drop? Can you prevent it? Is it o...

High protocol is, in the BDSM community, is a code prescribing strict adherence to a pre-determined set of rules or etiquette that determines acceptable behavior for a submissive. Many romanticize high protocol as the thing to aim for in D/s relationships. So what is it exactly and how does it differ from other types? Is it really a better way to do D/s? We answer these questions and more. The Res...

Breakups are painful no matter what brings them about. When it's a D/s relationship that ends it can add to the pain. Your routine is altered, you need to unlearn habits, and you may have to deal with seeing your partner at an event and possibly with a new partner. We discuss the process of grieving and give tips on what you can do to allow healing to happen. Visit us at pinkkinkpodcast.com Affili...

Common questions we hear include "how can I make my scenes last longer?" and "how can I take more pain in my scenes?" There are things that you can do to work on your bottoming skills which will definitely improve your scenes. We talk about scene communication and body awareness and others things you can do to become the play partner who others seek out. Visit us at pinkkinkpodcast.com Affiliates...

Medical roleplay involving medical scenarios, procedures and practices is a very common and popular kink. We see it everywhere from the "sexy nurse" outfits to playing doctor. No experience is necessary and neither is elaborate equipment. Your imagination is your only limit. We offer ideas for ways to incorporate medical roleplay into your kink life and even share some of our own medical fantasies...

A common label in the lifestyle is service sub. But what is a service sub? What does it mean to serve? Service submission is a lot more complicated than people realize. We discuss exactly what is meant by service, the different types of service and why people would want to serve. Visit us at pinkkinkpodcast.com Affiliates - SireDonLeather.com (use code PINKKINK to save 10% on your order) Leatheret...

DISCLAIMER: The information provided in this episode does not, and is not intended to, constitute legal advice; instead, all information and content in this episode is for general informational purposes only.  Millions of adults participate in consensual, mutually agreed upon kink. But is any of what we do actually legal? Can you consent to a beating or whipping? This is a very serious subjec...

We thought we would introduce our new Pink Kink subreddit by answering some more questions from Reddit. Check us out at r/PinkKinkPodcast. Ask questions, share stories, and don't forget to send questions our way to be included in future Answer Reddit Questions episodes.  Visit us at pinkkinkpodcast.com Affiliates - SireDonLeather.com (use code PINKKINK to save 10% on your order) Leatheretc.co...

Honorifics are an important part of many people's identity and relationship. But when it comes to honorifics in the lifestyle, there are as many different possibilities as there are opinions on when and how to use honorifics. There has even been debate on social media as to the proper use of honorifics. Join us as we share our opinions on the subject. Visit us at pinkkinkpodcast.com Affiliates - S...

Dara and Rara both identify as switches. But as with everything else, their switch personas are different. That is because switching is a spectrum and there are a multitude of ways to incorporate switching into your play. We talk about what switching means to us and different ways to bring out your inner switch. Visit us at pinkkinkpodcast.com Affiliates - SireDonLeather.com (use code PINKKINK to...

You probably have heard about breeding fetishes but did you know about pregnancy fetishes? Or lactation fetishes? Have you heard about hucows? We cover the whole spectrum of these often misunderstood fetishes. 

Within BDSM, the label brat has become associated with being rebellious, an antagonist, refusing, whining and many other negative stereotypes. But the reality is that bratting is actually a spectrum ranging from sassy to fighting back. Many kinksters like a little extra attitude in their partner and bratting ethically can add extra fun to your scenes and dynamic. We brought in special guest Katrin...

You probably have heard about BDSM collars. But what exactly are they, what do they mean and why do people wear them? Are they like pet collars? We answer all these questions and more. Mentioned in the episode -  Rad Babe Creations - https://www.etsy.com/shop/RadBabesCreations Elegantly Owned - https://www.etsy.com/shop/ElegantlyOwned Visit us at pinkkinkpodcast.com Affiliates - SireDonLeather.com...

One of the most popular fetishes (one in seven people appear to have this fantasy) but surprisingly one of the most stigmatized, is podophilia, otherwise known as a foot fetish. We bring in Miss Marla Jane, a pro Domme who does foot sessions, and her husband, who has a foot fetish, to discuss foot domination. Visit us at pinkkinkpodcast.com Affiliates - SireDonLeather.com (use code PINKKINK t...

Is being a part of the BDSM community necessary? Can you be a "true" kinkster if you aren't involved in your community? Are BDSM communities beneficial or harmful? We debate these questions and more. Visit us at pinkkinkpodcast.com Affiliates - SireDonLeather.com (use code PINKKINK to save 10% on your order) Leatheretc.com (use code PINKKINK to save 10% on your order and free shipping on orders ov...

Hang with us as we talk all about our adventures at Winter Fire. We give you behind the scenes at this amazing kink convention. We talk with others who attended. If you weren't able to attend, then this is the next best thing. Visit us at pinkkinkpodcast.com Affiliates - SireDonLeather.com (use code PINKKINK to save 10% on your order) Leatheretc.com (use code PINKKINK to save 10% on your orde...