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It's Dara's birthday and we are celebrating with an entire episode all about her favorite subject - Electro!  Visit us at pinkkinkpodcast.com Sponsored by - visit www.jyiphoto.com for all your vanilla and kinky photo needs. You can also contact him at www.fetlife.com/iso800 Affiliates -  SireDonLeather.com (use code PINKKINK to save 10% on your order) Leatheretc.com (use code PINKKINK to...

Whether you are a longtime member of the kink world or a newbie just exploring, you may have noticed something a bit concerning. Kink often has an issue with elitism. In the kink community, there is often a sense of hierarchy: what kinks are the best kinks... and the kinkier, the better. But this competition is unhealthy for you and your partners. We discuss why and how to avoid falling into the t...

TW: CNC/Rape Play It is sometimes hard to understand why we enjoy some of the kinks we have. Whether it's being a sadist and wanting to hurt someone, dress up diapers and using a bottle and pacifier, or even wanting to participate in rape role play, some of our kinks are a little more difficult to wrap our heads around. We tell our stories of acceptance and share the stories our listeners were bra...

Hypnosis has been used for centuries to induce dreams, recall memories, and transform habits. So it makes sense that it could also be used to elicit pleasure. We speak with Mr. Taqtiks, a certified hypnotist, to learn all about how to use hynposis in your BDSM play.  Follow Mr. Taqtiks on Fetlife at https://fetlife.com/users/110316 Visit us at pinkkinkpodcast.com Sponsored by - visit www.jyip...

Consent. It is the foundation of BDSM. Without consent, what we do is nothing more than abuse. We discuss how best to ensure you have consent in a scene. But there are multiple ways to consent so we also talk about which ways are more effective than others.  Visit us at pinkkinkpodcast.com Sponsored by - visit www.jyiphoto.com for all your vanilla and kinky photo needs. You can also contact h...

Many people believe that long distance D/s relationships are never going to work out. Your family may discourage it, and some of your best friends may advise you not to take it too seriously, in case you get your heart broken. Things could get complicated, and you could get sad and lonely at times. But if you communicate and work together, you can have a successful relationship.  We discuss a...

Kink within polyamory relationships provide extra challenges. How do you incorporate D/s rules into your other relationships? What do you do if one partner doesn't like bruises and another does? We talk about all this and more as we try to navigate the challenge of meshing two lifestyles together. Polyamory resource - Tik Tok: Two good resources are Polyammering and Polypages  Visit us at pin...

Rope bondage has gained in popularity as more people have come to admire the artistry that can be created with rope. But rope is considered edge play because of the risks involved. We speak with Simple_Beauty, an accomplished rope top, and Rara's rigger. We talk about why Simple Beauty loves rope, the different kinds of rope, the risks involved and more.  Follow Simple_Beauty on FetLife at ww...

Kink has dangers. Dangers to our social standing, to our health, to our sanity. Anyone who tells you that BDSM is “totally safe” is probably lying, or is too ignorant to play with. But something being risky doesn’t automatically make it bad. After all, people bungee jump and sky dive and swim with sharks. It all comes down to what activities you are willing to do, even when knowing all the risks i...

People in leashes in grocery stores. Kink at Pride. So much has been in the news lately about whether kink is appropriate in public and if so, how much? We discuss our thoughts on the matter, which not surprisingly, are very different. We don't have answers but hopefully we will get a discussion started on a very hot button topic. Let us know your thoughts. Contact us through our website or throug...

We are absolutely fascinated by pet play and furries so we talked to experts to learn more about this kink. Visit us at pinkkinkpodcast.com Affiliates - SireDonLeather.com (use code PINKKINK to save 10% on your order) Sponsor - www.jyiphoto.com for all your vanilla and kinky photo needs. You can also contact Jae at www.fetlife.com/iso800 Check us out on Instagram, Twitter and FetLife at pinkkinkpo...

We talk all about our favorite toys. Photos and videos of the toys can be seen on Instagram and Tik Tok. Links for Rara's favorites -  Leather Claw Gloves, Fire Hose Paddle, & Slapper - SireDonLeather.com Heart Shaped Spiked Paddle - Tiny Terror Toys on Etsy Boxing Hand Wrapping Inner Gloves - https://www.amazon.com/dp/B079JYMXKT/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_apa_glt_fabc_JJFDTYSC18GWS22T78DD?_enco...

Many kinksters began to utilize social media apps to educate and inform about a variety of standard kink concepts such as negotiations, safety and consent. Tik Tok in particular really exploded with what kinksters call Kink Tok. We have even started our own Tik Tok account - thepinkkinkpodcast. Several Kink Tok content creators have really established themselves as kink influencers and we wanted t...

There is a lot of disagreement about how fiction portrays BDSM. Fifty Shades is one of the most talked about fictional portrayals and probably the most controversial. Some people recommend watching the movie Secretary instead. Even Netflix has jumped on the BDSM bandwagon with their series Bonding. We decided to explore all three to see how well they did in showcasing the reality of kink. You may...

Rara gets on her soapbox to discuss the assumption that BDSM is only about sex and sexual things. Hint - It's not.  Affiliates - SireDonLeather.com (use code PINKKINK to save 10% on your order) Sponsored by www.jyiphoto.com for all your vanilla and kinky photo needs. You can also contact Jae at www.fetlife.com/iso800 Visit us at pinkkinkpodcast.com Check us out on Instagram, Twitter, and Fetl...

When Rara turned her back to Top in an impact scene, Dara saw her opportunity to convert more kinksters to "TeamLightning." This bonus episode features interviews with experienced electro participants and first time electro participants. In addition, eavesdrop during an electro scene with Dara and one of her favorite electro bottoms.

This episode is all about Caregivers and littles. This topic is near and dear to our hearts because we both identify in the little category. Caregiver/littles are very misunderstand, even within the BDSM lifestyle. So it's important for us to explain what the dynamic is, destigmatize this dynamic, bust all the negative myths about it and showcase all the wonderful parts. Affiliates - SireDonLeathe...

Whether you are a new or experienced kinkster, you have probably run into a lot of assumptions about the lifestyle. Some may be true, but there are also a lot of myths. In this episode we debunk myths about the lifestyle in general as well as those specific to Doms and subs. We can't tackle all of them, but we bust our way through quite a lot of myths. Affiliates - SireDonLeather.com (use code PIN...

FemDomme, or Female Dominance, refers to a BDSM scene or relationship in which a female-identifying person is a dominant partner or top partner. While there are many similarities to a male dominated D/s, there are also differences and plenty of misconceptions. We talk about what it's like being a FemDomme, the difficulties we run into, and why we love this type of dynamic.  Affiliates: ...

Domination and submission. It's what everybody thinks about when you think about BDSM. Many people have preconceived notions about how D/s works. They get an idea in their head of what is right and what is wrong. And we’re here to tell you that probably a lot of what you think and believe about D/s is wrong. We explain what D/s really is versus the myths and discuss different types of Doms and sub...

A rare Pink Moon has made an appearance and we couldn't let it slip by without celebrating. Therefore we offer this special bonus episode offering a glimpse inside a private BDSM play party. Enjoy listening to interviews with kinksters ranging from new to experienced. We even have recorded a needle scene with Rara bottoming for a new top. We hope you enjoy this fun and memorable episode. Visit us...

In order to maintain a healthy relationship, especially within the BDSM community, you need to be aware of signs of unhealthy behavior. Of course, these red flags can appear in any kind of relationship–but it’s extra important when you’re in a power exchange relationship or picking a play partner and risking injury. Whether you are a submissive looking for a Dom, a Dom looking for a submissive, or...

Aftercare is, very simply, the time you and your partner take after play time to recover and also to see to each other’s emotional and physical needs. It is doing whatever those participating in the scene need to get back to baseline or better. Learn what it is, why you need it and the different ways you can do it. Visit us at pinkkinkpodcast.com Check us out at Instagram, Twitter, Tik Tok and Fet...

Negotiation is a cornerstone of successful BDSM play. It is the process of working out what each of you enthusiastically agrees to do or to avoid when you play together.  Negotiation can be fun -- and even hot.  Visit us at pinkkinkpodcast.com  Check us out at Instagram, Twitter and FetLife at pinkkinkpodcast  Support us patreon.com/pinkkinkpodcast

We challenged our listeners in Episode 7 to melt Dara with their best Scottish accents. Listen as she hears them for the first time and how easily she melts.  If you wish to send us your best Scottish accent (or a British accent for Rara) then go to http://pinkkinkpodcast.com/contact-us/ and click on the link to to leave a voice mail message. Please include your name so that we can feature yo...