People in the Squeeze

Tornado warnings, Costco tears, adult diapers, and box breathing. Jayne and Heather ride out the chaos when the storm hits — literally and emotionally — as they put their own book’s wisdom to the test. It’s curiosity over panic, boundaries over burnout, and grace in the middle of the gale. Grab a breath (in 4, hold 4, out 4, hold 4) and come weather this one with us. Welcome to People in the Squee...

It’s where careers crash headfirst into the reality of caring for aging parents—and wow, is it a doozy. We rip the lid off the hidden toll on workplace performance and retention, and shine a light on the unspoken stigma of bringing it up with your boss. From FMLA fine print to MacGyver-level team-building at home and at work, we’re serving up practical ways to survive the squeeze without sacrifici...

Scams, slings, and a dead phone in the ER. In this episode, Jayne and Heather unpack the exhaustion that creeps in when you're the go-to for everything—and everyone. We’re talking fake Netflix texts, emotional landmines, surprise orthopedic crises, and what it really means to "pace yourself" when the chaos doesn’t quit. Plus, a new mantra: breathe first, blame later. Welcome to People in the Squee...

Purpose, independence, and a second helping of perspective. In Part 2 of our conversation with Carey Lindeman, we talk about aging with intention, asking for help before it’s a crisis, and why “I just don’t want to do it anymore” might be the most liberating sentence in the world. Also: neighbors as team members, walking sticks as freedom, and why ice cream absolutely counts as dinner. Welcome to...

Launch parties, iPad troubleshooting, and a fridge full of hotdog buns. In this episode, Jayne and Heather sit down with special guest Carey Lindeman, CEO of PromiseCare, a custom in-home care boutique, to explore what happens when small signs become big turning points. From "just a favor" to full-blown crisis, they unpack the adolescence of aging, the art of starting before it’s too late, and why...

Driving debates, stubborn streaks, and the fine line between independence and chaos. 🚗💨 What happens when aging parents start making choices that feel like a one-way ticket to disaster? Jayne and Heather break down the Adolescence of Aging , why "you're not the boss of me" is still a thing, and how to navigate defiance without losing your mind. Plus, the art of preparing anyway , finding peace i...

Life’s coming at you like a flood—messy, overwhelming, and leaving debris everywhere. 🌊 What do you do? You can resist, you can fight… or you can embrace radical acceptance. Jayne and Heather break down the unexpected twists of supporting aging parents, from ER chaos to the garden plot theory (yes, someone’s always dumping in your garden). Plus, why shifting from resistance to calm isn’t just goo...

A networking event, a family crisis, and a room full of power women—all proof that no one is talking about this. Why is one of life’s biggest transitions still whispered about like a dirty little secret? Jayne and Heather break open the conversation on the Adolescence of Aging, the invisible load of supporting aging parents, and why this stage of life deserves a seat at the table (with a strong cu...

Concert chaos, snow globes, and the magic of saying, “I know this sucks.” 🎶 We dive into the messy, hilarious, excuse-my-French, oh-so-relatable moments of supporting our aging parent when the plan explodes. Cognitive clutter, mentor moms, role fatigue, roadkill friends and why scheduling fun is non-negotiable. Plus, the invisible load you didn’t know had a name. Bring your messy middle—we’re her...

We’ve got new superpowers, ocean metaphors, a balloon that refuses to stay underwater, and a CEO confessing life’s biggest blind spot. Plus, why you need a team, a plan, and occasionally, a sense of humor to survive this chaos. New episodes every other Tuesday wherever you get your podcasts. If you like what you hear, please like and subscribe. Website: peopleinthesqueeze.com IG & TT: @peoplei...

In this very first episode of 'People in the Squeeze' we reflect on the tumultuous year of 2024 and discuss our mission to be a voice in the movement to change the way we collectively talk about and experience the life stage of caring for aging parents. We also share the personal story about a transformative lunch that inspired the creation of People in the Squeeze. We emphasize the importance of...

In this heartfelt preview of the People in the Squeeze podcast, Heather and Jayne share an emotional conversation about the difficulties of caring for aging parents. As they dive deep into their personal experiences and the intense moments they've faced, they discuss how to make this challenging journey better for everyone. Join us every other week as we explore important topics, share learnings,...