Path to Play

It's almost World Cup time! Join us in a fun conversation as we talk about our all time world cup favorites and what has made the tournament so special. We look forward to the upcoming weeks and how we think the World Cup will pan out.

In this episode, we shift from Eman’s playing journey to the experiences that shaped him as a coach. Eman walks us through how he first got into coaching, and what he loves about working with youth soccer players. He also breaks down the different leagues and pathways in youth soccer right now, offering his perspective on what each environment provides and how families can navigate them. Eman shar...

Join us for a conversation with Eman Vallejo as he reflects on his journey through youth soccer, from local club beginnings all the way to elite level club soccer. Eman shares how differences between smaller and larger clubs, coaching influences, support systems, and personal challenges shaped both his development as a player and his perspective on the game today. Eman also reflects on some of the...

Join our invaluable and heartfelt conversation with Pilar Bernal, a dedicated soccer mom and sports parent. Pilar shares her firsthand experiences from 20 years of supporting her two daughters throughout their youth soccer journey across various levels and even countries. Discover the unique challenges, lessons, commitments, and character-building aspects of youth sports from a parent's perspectiv...

Relax and enjoy this week’s conversation where we share our personal takes on themes and questions we hear all the time in the youth soccer space, along with a few general hot takes you've definitely debated on. As always, we want to hear your thoughts as well.

Happy Easter weekend! Join another fun, lighthearted conversation to get to know us a little better through a game of "Would You Rather'".. you're invited to ask more or share your own answers!

In this episode, we talk through what it really looks like if you haven’t been recruited yet. From sophomores just starting to think about college to seniors with no offers, we break down realistic options, share our own experiences, and offer practical ways to take action. The goal is to bring clarity to the process and reinforce that your path doesn’t have to look like everyone else’s to be succ...

Our conversation on youth soccer tryouts offers transparent insights for parents and players on real expectations, honest thoughts on preparation, and how to handle outcomes positively. We both share our personal experiences that helped us navigate the tryout process with confidence and resilience and we emphasize our belief in every experience being a valuable step forward.

In this conversation, we break down what guest playing in youth soccer is all about and include our own personal experiences with it. Learn about potential benefits, processes for becoming a guest player, and general opinions on what skills and opportunities the guest playing environment can offer. If you are curious on what guest playing could mean for your athlete or yourself, this is an honest...

In this episode, we take a closer look at the real and unfiltered conversations happening on Reddit around youth sports. We unpack the pressure to specialize early, the reality behind scholarship odds, and the confusion many families are navigating. By staying plugged into these honest discussions, we reflect on shared experiences, validate common concerns, and offer perspective grounded in both l...

Join us for a conversation with insights into the journey of committing to college soccer, focusing on both the physical and mental preparations we believe are important for a successful transition. We reflect on our personal experiences, the role of strength training, and the challenges of adapting to an even more competitive environment. Our honest thoughts and experiences emphasize the need for...

Join our conversation on the real challenges and experiences of transitioning from a life dedicated to sports to everyday life. We explore the emotional and practical aspects of this transition, including the importance of cultivating new hobbies, staying connected to the sport, and finding one's identity beyond athletics. Our discussion highlights personal anecdotes, the significance of community...

This conversation delves into the financial implications of youth sports, exploring the average costs, hidden fees, and the impact of socioeconomic status on participation. Rory and Valentina discuss the growing trend of specialization in sports at younger ages and the various opportunity costs associated with youth sports involvement. We emphasize the need for parents to be aware of both necessar...

Valentina and Rory talk about the impact of parental involvement in youth soccer, and the unavoidable crazy parent we have all seen in action. We share our personal experiences with the intensity of parents during matches and we break down the importance of building healthy habits through reflective conversations post-game, the role of encouragement in fostering an athlete's confidence, and exampl...

Valentina and Rory reflect on the significant time commitment required from both athletes and their families throughout various levels of youth soccer. We share our own experiences, realistic hours spent traveling for games and practices, and the impact on family dynamics. Our conversation emphasizes the importance of understanding potential demands of youth soccer, especially for families with mu...

Valentina and Rory welcome Miranda Bernal, who shares her journey through soccer from a young age to her experiences in high school and the challenges of choosing a path forward to college athletics. Miranda discusses the importance of mentorship, the impact of burnout, and the life lessons learned from playing soccer, including self-discipline and the value of open communication. Our conversation...

Join us for an interview with John Romano from the North End Athletic Association, where we discuss the significance of youth sports in the community, the role of volunteers, and future aspirations for the organization. John shares his personal journey with the NEAA, emphasizing the importance of creating a welcoming environment for children to engage in sports, build friendships, and develop life...

In this episode, Valentina shares the story behind her college injury, how it happened, what the immediate aftermath really felt like, and the long stretch of figuring out who she was without the sport that shaped her for so long. We talk about coping, finding purpose outside of soccer, the people who made the biggest difference, and the moments that shifted how she sees the game today. This conve...

In another fun and insightful holiday episode, we wanted to bring our community's thoughts and experiences to the center of the conversation. We're sharing top stories, honest reflections, and lessons from our very own Path to Play listeners and the conversations that we all wish we had at some point in our youth sports journey. This is a conversation that brings the many different perspectives ac...

For our Holiday Special, we're having a Q&A to let you get to know us a little better. In this episode, we answer rapid-fire questions followed by more reflective ones that are glimpses into our youth soccer days. A fun break from our usual educational episodes, and a chance for our community to hear more of the stories behind Path to Play.

In this episode, we break down everything you need to know about college soccer showcases including what they are, who attends, and how recruiting really works at these events. We talk through the different types of showcases, how they’re formatted, and what happens behind the scenes when college coaches are evaluating players. We also discuss strategies for athletes and parents to make the most o...

Our first mini-series couldn’t end without a special bonus episode. In this feature, we asked Valentina’s former college coach to share his perspective on college ID camps, offering valuable insight into how to truly stand out in a large pool of players, how athletes can follow up effectively after camps, and how to choose camps strategically. An insightful conversation for parents and athletes al...

In Part 2 of our mini-series on college soccer ID camps, we share what these experiences were like for us — both as players attending and as coaches helping run them. We talk about what made certain camps valuable, what ended up not being worth it, and the lessons that helped us better understand what these events may or may not be able to offer depending on your goals. We also share a few suggest...

What is an ID camp/clinic? In Part 1 of our mini-series on college soccer identification (ID) camps, we give an overview of what they are, who hosts them, who attends, and what actually happens once you’re there. Our conversation is for anyone looking for a quick and digestible way to understand the basics of these events. Stay tuned for Part 2 where we'll discuss our experiences and thoughts on i...

In this episode we talk about what “leveling up” really means, from building consistency and confidence to focusing on the technical details that often get overlooked. Rory shares his experience finding that next gear as a player, and Valentina reflects on what she wishes she had done differently. Whether soccer is your top priority or just one part of your life, this conversation is about showing...