Pastors' Wives Tell All

Ministry teaches you a lot about endurance—but it also teaches you about discernment. In this episode, we share an important conversation we’ve spent a lot of time praying through. It’s one we didn’t arrive at quickly or lightly, but one that came through unity, clarity, and a deep trust in God’s leading. We talk honestly about calling, capacity, and what faithfulness looks like when God invites y...

In this short and spirited episode of Pastors’ Wives Tell All , we’re talking about one surprisingly divisive topic: thrifting . Some of us absolutely love the hunt—the thrill of a good deal and the satisfaction of a hidden gem. Others thrift out of sheer necessity, stretching budgets and making things work in real life and ministry. And then there are those of us who walk into a thrift store and...

What if the very things disrupting your life are actually part of God’s invitation? In this episode of Pastors’ Wives Tell All , we have an honest, relatable conversation about inconvenience —the kind that sneaks into ministry, parenting, marriage, and personal growth. From interrupted schedules to stretched capacities, we explore how calling often requires adjustments we didn’t plan for and struc...

In this episode of Pastors’ Wives Tell All , the hosts share exciting details about an upcoming women’s retreat created specifically for women in ministry —and not just pastors’ wives. With honesty and enthusiasm, they unpack the heart behind the retreat: creating a space where women who serve can finally exhale, be understood, and be poured into. Scheduled for April 17–19, 2026 , in Frazier’s Bot...

After a short break, the hosts of Pastors’ Wives Tell All reconnect to reflect on the new year, the weight of calling, and the miraculous ways God continues to show up.  In this heartfelt episode, they pull back the curtain on the emotional highs and lows of running a nonprofit and trusting God with both the pressure and the provision. The conversation centers around Come Away Missions and the wor...

In this episode, we’re sitting down with the incredible Alexandra Hoover—a compassionate writer, speaker, and the author of Eyes Up , Without Wavering, and You Can Let Go. Alex is known for blending biblical wisdom with practical, hope-filled insight, and today she brings all of that and more. She is a proud Latina, a wife and mom of three, and currently pursuing her master of arts in women and th...

In this episode, we along with our guest Stephanie share a speedy conversation filled with rapid-fire questions, cherished Christmas traditions, shopping preferences, and creative pursuits. We highlight the importance of family, community, and faith, all while cracking ourselves up— like we do. Get all the info about our next pastors’ wives retreat and apply here: https://www.pastorswivestellall.c...

In this episode, we’re sitting down with someone who embodies honesty, resilience, and a whole lot of Jesus — Stephanie Horton . Stephanie has been married to her college sweetheart, Joshua, for sixteen years, and together they’ve served in ministry just as long. They live in Dothan, Alabama, where Joshua pastors Timbers Drive Church. Stephanie homeschools their three kids, teaches English online,...

In this episode, we sit down with the radiant and deeply authentic Renee McKinney , who has spent the last 21 years serving in ministry with her husband, Justin — a worship pastor, college professor, and (formerly) not-so-great singer… until God stepped in. Their story is full of the kinds of miracles you write down so you never forget: unexpected provision, supernatural spiritual gifts, and trans...

In this episode, we sit down with Mary Read , a pastor’s wife, mom of three energetic boys, and lifelong learner with a heart for faith, family, and connection. Mary opens up about what it was like returning to the church she grew up in—yes, the very same pews, hallways, and people she knew as a kid —and navigating the unique mix of nostalgia, expectations, and change that came with it. Mary share...

In this delightfully unhinged Christmas episode of Pastors’ Wives Tell All , we ask each other rapid-fire holiday questions and accidentally reveal way too much about our chaotic Christmas traditions. We’re talking favorite songs, family rituals, foods we could eat year-round, and why cookie-decorating might actually be a spiritual discipline. We finish with heartfelt holiday wishes and a Christma...

In this episode, we sit down with Hannah Kurtz , a pastor’s wife, homeschool mama, and soon-to-be mom of six, to share the twists and turns of her family’s ministry journey. Hannah and her husband, Thor, began full-time ministry in 2017, eventually following a mission-trip “divine detour” to Lincoln, Illinois, where Thor now serves as the youth pastor at Open Arms. Hannah opens up about their tran...

In this travel-happy episode of Pastors’ Wives Tell All , we sit down with our globe-trotting friend Amy to talk about all things travel — including her epic trips to Israel, which are basically the spiritual Olympics of tourism. We kick things off with rapid-fire questions that reveal way too much about all of us (as usual), then dive into stories about eating local foods, navigating intense-but-...

In this week’s episode of Pastors’ Wives Tell All , we chat with our dear friend Amy Gordon , a pastor’s wife and mama who opens up about walking through health crises, chronic illness, and the unexpected ways those seasons deepened her family’s faith. She shares how “staying long and going deep” in ministry has shaped her perspective, why community is absolutely essential, and how sometimes the h...

In this laugh-filled episode of Pastors’ Wives Tell All , we are joined by the always delightful Tara Sun —and let’s just say things get real fast. From an unforgettable (and slightly mortifying) restroom mishap to swooning over the beauty of the Oregon coast, this conversation is equal parts hilarious and heartwarming. The ladies also swap book recommendations— Habits of the Household and Emotion...

In this episode of Pastors’ Wives Tell All , we sit down with Tara Sun to talk about what it really means to find balance, rest, and peace in the middle of ministry chaos. Drawing from her own experiences of burnout and healing, Tara shares her story of hitting a breaking point—mentally, physically, and emotionally—and how God led her into rhythms of true rest and dependence on Him. Through storie...

In this Thanksgiving episode of Pastors’ Wives Tell All , we share our favorite holiday traditions, personal stories, and the deeper lessons God has taught us through gratitude. From funny family moments to unexpected “closed doors,” we reflect on how God’s redirection often leads to greater blessings than we ever imagined. The conversation dives into gratitude for unanswered prayers, the joy foun...

In this Spill the Tea episode, we’re joined by our hilarious and down-to-earth friend Donna Jones —and y’all… this one is equal parts tragic and hilarious.   Let’s just say a wardrobe malfunction makes a grand appearance (and not in the way anyone would want). From the unexpected kindness of strangers to the pure panic of realizing what just happened , this episode proves that sometimes all you ca...

In this engaging conversation, we sit down with pastor’s wife, author, and national speaker Donna Jones to talk about one of the toughest parts of ministry—conflict. With over 30 years of experience in church leadership, Donna brings wisdom, compassion, and practical tools for navigating relational tension with grace and truth. She shares what she’s learned about healthy conflict resolution, emoti...

In this lighthearted episode, we chat with Stephanie's sister-in-law, Lydia Lusby! From hilarious childhood memories to sibling dynamics and family quirks, this conversation is full of laughter, warmth, and relatable moments.  You’ll hear about Lydia’s memorable refusal to sing into a dented microphone, what it was like meeting Stephanie for the first time, and how family pets (and coffee!) pl...

In this heartfelt episode, we sit down with someone extra special—Stephanie’s sister-in-law, Lydia Lusby ! Born and raised in Statesboro, Georgia, as a pastor’s kid with three older brothers, Lydia knows what it’s like to grow up in the thick of church life. Today, she and her husband, Jeremiah, call Missouri home, where she works as a customer service assistant and appliance retail manager at Lig...

Buckle up, friends — this episode is taking you on the road with us! We are spilling all the hilarious (and slightly chaotic) details from our latest trip together — from snack debates to candy obsessions and even… a surprise parrot encounter. It gets interesting to say the least, folks! Join in for all the laughs, friendship moments, and road trip shenanigans — complete with Taco Bell traditions,...

In this episode of Pastors’ Wives Tell All , we’re looking back on our recent retreat — and wow, what an incredible weekend it was! The theme “Positioned for Purpose” came alive in ways we never expected as pastors’ wives gathered to connect, laugh, cry, and grow together. We’re sharing personal stories from the retreat, moments of vulnerability that opened the door to real connection, and the pow...

In this episode of Pastors’ Wives Tell All , we’re chatting about a devotional book that has completely transformed the way we connect with God. We’ve been reading it together, and let’s just say—it’s been powerful! From learning how to praise and worship more intentionally to discovering new ways to seek God in the middle of busy ministry life, this conversation is full of real talk, laughter, an...

Ever felt like ministry life is equal parts beautiful and exhausting?  We get it. That’s why we brought in our counselor (and dear friend), Larinda Horton — a pastor’s kid, pastor’s wife, and licensed professional counselor with a heart for Jesus and for those serving in ministry. In this episode, Larinda gets real about the struggles pastors’ wives face: loneliness, unrealistic expectations, boun...