Parenting Today's Teens

All behavior is goal-oriented ... the key to getting through to your teen is understanding what motivates their poor choices. In this week’s episode, Mark Gregston addresses questions sent in by parents puzzled by their children's drug use, anger issues and downright laziness. Don’t miss out on his wisdom — listen now! Have a question for Mark? Submit it here: markgregston.com Parenting Today&...

Parenting in the digital age comes with its own set of challenges, one of the biggest concerns being teenage privacy. How are you to find the balance between your legitimate fears and the necessity of extending trust? In today’s episode, Mark Gregston and Wayne Shepherd discuss the privilege of privacy, the role of teenagers in proving their responsibility and the age-based considerations that com...

If your teen throws a fit whenever you ask them to come home at curfew or to dress more appropriately, it can be incredibly frustrating. But do you ever pause to find the "why" behind your teen's anger? In this episode, Mark shares some common reasons for a teen's anger and how you can respond without getting caught in a shouting match. Tune in for tips on how to get to the heart o...

When teens live in a house where there's a lot of conflict, wanting to get away from it comes as a pretty natural response. Whether that's through sneaking out at night or numbing the pain with drugs, the teen AND their parents need to work together to find healing. In this week's interview with Heartlight teens, Mark talks to two high schoolers, including one young lady who shares how...

When it comes to creating expectations for a teen's behavior, being too strict OR giving too much leeway can both backfire. So, how do you find the balance in the middle? In today's show, Mark Gregston and Wayne Shepherd discuss what it looks like to give your child more control and privileges at age-appropriate milestones and why teens often need to be given the chance to prove themselves...

Parenting takes on a new level of complexity when traditional family structures are disrupted. Disruptions can occur due to things like divorce, the loss of a loved one or the responsibility falling on grandparents. In this week’s episode, Mark Gregston answers questions from a variety of guardians who want to know the best ways to support and guide their teens through life’s turbulent seasons. Tu...

Any good parent wants the best for their child, but beware: Overprotection leads to under-preparedness. If your kid is hidden away, they will never experience the necessary “iron sharpening iron” interactions with their peers that are crucial for maturity. Join Mark Gregston and Wayne Shepherd as they discuss the keys to raising well-rounded, confident individuals who are equipped to thrive in the...

It's great if you can get your teen to keep their room clean or always turn in their homework on time ... but at the end of the day, that's not what builds a close relationship. Do you invest enough time into bonding with your child? Or are you more focused on the things they "should" be doing? In today's episode, Mark shares the importance of outwardly expressing love to your...

When teens are acting out of hurt or desperation, they may try to cope by deflecting responsibility for poor choices onto anyone but themselves. But eventually, reality is bound to set in. In today's interview with teens, Mark talks to two Heartlight residents who reflect on why they were so angry toward their parents and got involved in toxic outside relationships. Don't miss these insigh...

The social media world where many of our teens spend their time is primarily focused on appearances — not real connections. Kids will do almost anything to feel seen, even if that means who they are online doesn't match who they are in real life. In today's show, Mark Gregston and Wayne Shepherd discuss why teens are missing out on real social interactions and how you can help them navigat...

You are just as much tied to the hardships brought on by your child as they are. As a parent, it’s your job to develop your teen's foolishness into wisdom. In this week’s episode, Mark Gregston offers a wide variety of strategies for communicating effectively, fostering maturity and overcoming conflict. Listen now! Have a question for Mark? Submit it here: markgregston.com Parenting Today'...

As kids mature, their needs evolve, calling for different parenting styles. If you don’t adapt your approach in order to meet your teen where they are, you run the risk of losing them forever. In today’s episode, Mark Gregston and Wayne Shepherd discuss practical and effective changes that you can implement with your coming-of-age teen that will benefit everyone — listen now! For more on how to na...

Our teens walk around all day with access to any information they could possibly want in the palm of their hands. However, they need WISDOM to know what to do with it — and that's where parents come in. In today's devotional episode, Mark discusses why it's crucial to be honest with your teen, listen to them and build a strong relationship in order to pass down the wisdom they so despe...

When you're walking through a season of grief or healing from trauma, being alone can be incredibly hard — and for many teens, numbing their pain with substances seems like the only option left. In today's show, Mark sits down with two Heartlight teens, including a young lady who had lost both of her adoptive parents to a car crash, and several others who were close to her to suicide. She...

The digital world our teens live in continues to change and develop every single day, and while it offers great ways for kids to communicate with their friends, it's also something parents should take very seriously. In this episode, Mark Gregston and Wayne Shepherd discuss why parents need to be watchful and involved in their kids' lives — especially when it comes to the internet — withou...

As children become teenagers, their thinking switches from concrete to abstract. While exploring the world they come to find that it’s not as perfect as they previously thought it was, which stirs up insecurity, anger and confusion. In today’s episode, Mark Gregston advises parents on how to adapt their parenting from teaching mode to training mode in order to raise up people who can function in t...

It’s not IF your teen makes a mistake, but rather a matter of WHEN. How we, as parents, choose to respond in those moments significantly impacts our relationship with our kids. In this episode, Mark Gregston and Wayne Shepherd explore practical ways to effectively discipline and enforce consequences while nurturing your child's character and maintaining their trust and respect. Tune in now! Fo...

Trusting teens is tough — but if you want your child to learn how to make wise decisions on their own, you have to start transferring control to them. They won't do everything perfectly, but that's part of preparing for adulthood. In this devotional, Mark shares an example of how too much parental control can backfire and gives advice for parents who are nervous to start trusting their tee...

If you have a teenager, you're bound to get into arguments with them from time to time — it happens! But when the conflict turns into an ongoing pattern, it puts a strain on everyone involved, and it might be time to seek some outside help. In today's episode, Mark chats with two Heartlight teens who reflect on why they fought with their parents so much. For one young lady, the conflict st...

Teenage dating relationships come with a fair share of ups and downs, but as a parent, it's important for you to know when to step in if things are truly outside the norm. One such case is if your daughter is dating a guy who wants to control her every move. In today's show, Mark Gregston and Wayne Shepherd talk about why some young men want to control their girlfriends, what to do if your...

No man is an island — but what about teens? In this episode, Mark Gregston answers questions from parents who want to know how to go about building bridges that reach their isolated kids. Through developing the skill of listening, learning which questions provoke thoughtful discussions and knowing how to encourage respect, Mark lights the path to connecting with your teen on a deeper level! Have a...

Have you ever found yourself knee-deep in parenting books and podcasts only to have your best efforts fall flat? When it seems like all attempts to train up your teen are failing, what else is there to do? In today’s episode, Mark Gregston and Wayne Shepherd encourage overwhelmed parents to not grow weary in their journey, offering insight ranging from welcoming constructive criticism to knowing w...

Many parents spend their child's younger years telling them everything they're doing right but spend their teen years telling them everything they're doing wrong. This correction may come from the best intentions, but for teens, it may feel like you're asking for unattainable perfection. In today's devotional, Mark recalls some personal stories about how seeking perfection burn...

Some teens arrive at Heartlight feeling prepared and knowing what to expect, while others didn't know they were coming to the boarding school until hours before they arrived. The transition holds its challenges, but many of these teens find value and healing in the experience along the way. Today, Mark chats with two high schoolers who initially had no idea they were coming to the boarding sch...

Life can be full of obligations and packed schedules — we've all been there! But in our busyness, parents can often miss the best opportunities to connect with their kids and make a lasting positive impact. In today's episode, Mark Gregston and Wayne Shepherd chat about why it's important to listen when opportunity knocks ... after all, the values you instill in your teens can affect g...