Outsmart Overeating

If you've ever tried to lose weight for a special occasion, you are not alone. The question is: is this a good idea? Or not? This is the topic co-coach, Eileen Trujillo, and I dive into this week on the Fat Murder Podcast. Think of all the things you've done in the past that may have made you think you needed to lose weight for: Your wedding or a friend's wedding Having a special outfit you wanted...

On this week's episode of the Fat Murder Podcast, co-coach, Steph Miramontes joins me to discuss how NOT to turn Hunger Directed Eating into another weight-focused diet.   As I tell my clients, these are not rules. This is how you take care of yourself in a loving way. They are "If love could speak to you about food" guidelines. They are designed to teach you how to love yourself with food. As die...

Have you ever noticed that you can go to bed at night feeling one way about your body, only to wake up the next morning and feel completely different? This is something to get curious about because the size of our bodies doesn't change in this period of time, but how we FEEL about our bodies does. If our body isn't different, then what's really going on? In this episode of the Fat Murder Podcast,...

In this episode, I had the pleasure of interviewing former Friends With Benefits client turned Team Leader, Laura Kalirai. One and a half year ago, Laura graduated from my group coaching program and today, I invited her onto the podcast to share her experience in the program and how she's been doing without the structure and accountability since graduating. Prior to joining FWB, Laura struggled wi...

On this week's episode of the Fat Murder Podcast, Rog Law, and I are talking all things beliefs. Everything you have in your life is a result of your belief in yourself and the belief that it's possible. There are four important steps to learning how to believe in yourself. Practice them and you'll be amazed at the results: Believe it's possible. Believe that you can do it regardless of what anyon...

Join Rog Law and myself as we discuss the biggest reason why you haven't lost the weight. If you are struggling with weight loss, I would bet that it's probably due to one of these three reasons: 1️⃣ You think there is a magical diet out there that will be fast, easy and permanent. And you just haven't found it yet. So you are on a perpetual search. 2️⃣ You are convinced that when you find this ma...

In this episode, co-coach, Eileen Trujillo, and I talk about the wild-eyed 'all-or-nothing' beast and the many ways that it rears its ugly head in the pursuit of our goals.   Join us as we explain how to turn your fear of failure into a super power that unlocks achievement in areas of your life where you typically self-sabotage.   Topics discussed:   ▪️The myth of perfection and why striving to re...

In this week's episode of the Fat Murder Podcast, co-coach, Eileen Trujillo, and I take a deep dive into the 3 primary reasons why you can't stop eating (and what to do about it). Simply put, dieters mostly focus on WHAT to eat and not their inner psychology in HOW they eat.  In this episode, we get nerdy about the way the brain is wired and WHY stopping is the hardest part of eating. Hint: it com...

How much of your day do you spend thinking about eating? ▪️What you will eat next? ▪️What you wish you could eat? ▪️What you wish you hadn't eaten? What about your body? ▪️I want to fit into the clothes I wore pre-pregnancy. ▪️I hate the cellulite on my legs. ▪️I wish my arms didn't jiggle so I could wear sleeveless shirts. How much of your day do you spend feeling guilty for what you ate, for wha...

Have you ever noticed that you can go to bed at night feeling one way about your body, only to wake up the next morning and feel completely different? This is something to get curious about because the size of our bodies doesn't change in this period of time, but how we FEEL about our bodies does. If our body isn't different, then what's really going on? Few people are immune from having "bad body...

Why is it so much easier to keep promises we make to other people, but struggle to do this with ourselves? You make a date to meet a friend for lunch. Maybe when it's time to leave the house to meet this friend, you no longer feel like going. There's no real reason why, but you just don't want to go. Although, it's too late. She's already on her way there, so you have a decision to make. Do you ju...

The "naturally thin" behave in mysterious ways. We all know those people who have that magical superpower where they can just have a bite or two of a cookie, put it down, and never think about it again. WHAT PLANET DO THESE PEOPLE COME FROM!? The truth is, these people aren't born special with a special superpower nor do they have more willpower or a faster metabolism than you. The difference is i...

If you're avoiding the work that goes into improving your body image, because you think it will take care of itself once the weight is gone, think again. Body image is an inside job, and external work isn't the answer. Join Steph Miramontes and me as we have a conversation with former client, Miriam Blyth, to discuss how the body image work was the necessary step in helping her recover from an emo...

Last week on the Fat Murder Podcast, my OG co-host, Rog Law, returned to celebrate our 100th episode. This week, we continue with Part 2 of 'Ask Us Anything' by responding to the questions you submitted on air. Topics discussed: ▪️the power of fear setting instead of goal setting ▪️how to stop snacking ▪️navigating social eating when you're not physically hungry ▪️managing alcohol for weight loss...

E P I S O D E   # 1 0 0   This week on the Fat Murder Podcast, my OG co-host, Rog Law, is back to help me celebrate our 100th episode.   In this episode, we hosted an 'Ask Me Anything', where listeners were encouraged to write in with their questions so we could answer them on the air.   Topics discussed:   ▪️ thoughts on Sunday meal prep ▪️ how to break a plateau ▪️ how to increase your willpower...

Decades of research into the psychology of eating behaviors have shown us that the more we attempt to rigidly control our eating the more likely we are to lose that control when faced with unpleasant thoughts and feelings, especially when these feelings arise due to perceived "diet failure." Why would eating a spoonful of ice cream drive you to eat the whole pint? It's a defense mechanism. By eati...

It's fascinating how we're born with this really cool system within our bodies that communicates when to eat (hunger!) and when to stop (fullness!). Yet so many of us are caught up in following restrictive meal plans and obsessive calorie counting that we're not even noticing these physical cues. On this week's episode of the Fat Murder Podcast, join co-coach, Eileen Trujillo, and me as we discuss...

Is there anything more frustrating than knowing EXACTLY HOW TO LOSE WEIGHT, but not be able to do it? You've read the books, you've listened to the podcasts, you've purchased the gym membership, and you've bought the program, but yet you STILL can't do it. WHY does this happen? It's maddening! For starters, it has nothing to do with collecting more information. In today's podcast episode, I've inv...

Most often people get confused about what boundaries are and what they are not. In this episode, I invited co-coach, Steph Miramontes, to help set the record straight by looking at the differences between this amazing tool for creating intimacy and simply setting expectations for other people. Boundaries are never easy to establish, but avoiding them is doing you and your relationships a disservic...

In this week's episode of the Fat Murder Podcast, co-coach, Eileen Trujillo and I discuss why telling yourself no isn't always a form of restriction. In fact, in many instances, telling ourselves no is a form of self-respect, self-love, or self-care. Consider a vegan, like our own Coach Steph Miramontes, who has chosen this lifestyle for ethical reasons. Not eating meat and other animal products i...

When it comes to how we look, how strong we are, how fast we're progressing and everything in between, our emotions can push our rational minds out of the driver's seat, take the wheel, and drive us straight towards Crazyville.   Like sticking a fork into an electrical socket, comparing ourselves to others is more often than not a horrible idea that no good can come from.   In this episode, co-coa...

In last week's episode, I interviewed client, Abi Smith, on how she was able to transition from a food-obsessed chronic dieter to someone who feels completely in control in any dining scenario while effortlessly maintaining her weight through the power of habit. This week, I'm excited to share the interview of Friends With Benefits client, Jaymie, on her unique experience in my coaching program. A...

This week I'm super excited to share another client interview with Abi Smith in the UK. In this episode, Abi shares her experience within the program a lifelong dieter who struggled with labeling foods "bad" and chronic yo-yo dieting. After decades of traveling down dead-end roads that left her more frustrated than before, she joined my coaching program not only lose weight but to learn how to dro...

This week's episode of the Fat Murder Podcast is all about optimizing your success through being coachable.   A person who is coachable is not only receptive to receiving feedback, but they actually go the extra mile to seek out constructive criticism in an effort to improve their performance. The world's most successful people view the input of others as a valuable tool in their arsenal and thriv...

On today's episode of the Fat Murder Podcast, Rog Law, joins me as we discuss: Are you focusing on what's going well or what's going wrong?   As humans, we're guilty of focusing on what's wrong in our lives. It's natural. You can blame this nifty little habit on your reptilian brain whose sole purpose is to protect you and help you survive.   Naturally, this reptilian brain it's going to bring to...