OUR TAKE on Dating Over 40

Show Notes: Trust after 40 isn’t something you give freely—it’s something you build, observe, and allow. In this episode, we explore the shift from blind trust to conscious trust, where self-trust becomes your foundation and discernment replaces guardedness. We talk about how real safety comes from no longer abandoning yourself—learning to listen to your intuition, honor your body, and trust your...

📌 Show Notes Our Take on Dating Over 40 dives into the messy, thrilling, and transformative world of dating, sex, and relationships after divorce In this episode, we unpack what happened when we asked single moms over 40 if they would ever live with a man again — and why so many said no. Through lived experience, nervous system science, and real relational dynamics, we explore: Why emotional labo...

📌 SHOW NOTES You’re Not Crazy — You’re Dysregulated Most women who get called “crazy” in dating aren’t crazy at all. They’re overwhelmed. Activated. Dysregulated. In this episode, we unpack: What men actually mean when they say “crazy” The difference between emotional expression and emotional flooding How resentment builds when women hyper-function and suppress Why dysregulation collapses polarit...

🎙 Past Love, Present Boundaries Dating Over 40 & Staying Friends With an Ex In this episode, we unpack one of the most emotionally charged questions in dating over 40: Can you be friends with your ex and still build a secure new relationship? This isn’t about control. It’s about relational safety, emotional loyalty, and feeling chosen. Inside This Episode: Why relational safety is the foundati...

Dating over 40 requires more than chemistry—it requires DISCERNMENT. In this episode, we break down how to vett potential partners on dating apps with intention, focusing on safety, emotional maturity, and long-term alignment. This conversation is for anyone dating with the goal of finding a *future partner*—not wasting time, energy, or compromising their standards. Vetting isn’t about being guard...

Where Are Singles Over 40 Actually Meeting in 2026? A Global Dating Reality Check Dating over 40 is changing and instead of making assumptions, we’re getting curious. In this episode of Dating Over 40, we’re opening up an honest, intelligent, and heartfelt conversation about what dating really looks like right now, for singles over 40 across the globe. Are people still meeting in bars? Are dating...

Dating over 40 isn’t about guessing anymore—it’s about clarity. In this episode of Our Take on Dating Over 40 , we introduce The Dating Rating Scale , a simple yet powerful tool to help you assess whether the man you’re dating is actually showing up in the ways that build trust, safety, and long-term connection. We walk you through the five non-negotiables every healthy relationship requires; Comm...

The New Way to Date in 2026 is here — and it’s not about him ladies. It’s about YOU. In this episode, Darlene and Michael dive into dating with intention and integrity, revealing how to step out of old patterns, release hardened energy from past relationships, and return to your feminine embodiment . Discover how somatic practices, breathwork, and presence can make you magnetic, aligned, and ready...

Tonight we have a fun topic for all of you out in the dating world. Tonight we are discussing the INSTANT TURN OFF's that both men and women do in dating. You do not want to miss this one! Ladies stop trying so hard in dating and instead start BEING the energy that attracts. Join my private FB community WILD FEMME; https://www.facebook.com/groups/thewildfemme/ Learn about your dating style and wha...

Hi friends! Welcome to our humble corner of the podcast world. Tonight we are having a light conversation on the GOOD the BAD and the UGLY with flirting! See you inside. Ladies stop trying so hard in dating and instead start BEING the energy that attracts. Join my private FB community WILD FEMME; https://www.facebook.com/groups/thewildfemme/ Learn about your dating style and what is standing betwe...

Hi everyone! Welcome to OURTAKE! Tonight we are sharing a listener's "Dating Dilemma", and it is JUICY! We are diving into the secret world of affairs and giving honest insight into this unique love triangle situation. We would love to hear your take on this situation as well. Write to us at ourtakethepodcast@gmail.com and let us know your take on it or tell us about your dating dilemma. See you i...

Hi everyone! Welcome to OURTAKE! Tonight we’re covering a topic for THE GUYS… Michael is putting Darlene on the spot with off-the-cuff questions about what women really want. Guys—this one’s for you. Ladies, stop trying so hard in dating and start being the energy that attracts. If you want deeper conversations, real talk, and updates on when new episodes drop (plus opportunities to join us live),...

Hi everyone! Dating after divorce is not easy. The truth is that relationships are not easy either and most people never stop to consider what they are even really looking for. Healthy relationship can offer the fertile ground for healing and growth. If your goal is to have a healthy relationship that is deeply connected and wildly passionate this episode is for you! Ladies stop trying so hard in...

Hi Everyone! This is a quick episode to fill you all in on where we. have been for 2 months and the lessons we have learned. We are so glad to be back! Ladies stop trying so hard in dating and instead start BEING the energy that attracts. Join my private FB community WILD FEMME; https://www.facebook.com/groups/thewildfemme/ Learn about your dating style and what is standing between you and finally...

Hey friends! Welcome to our little corner of podcast universe! If you are over 40 and trying to get it right in love, dating and relationships you are in the right place. Tonight we are discussing the stages of dating. If you are dating someone now and wondering "where things are going" & if she/he is "the one" this episode is for you!.... Ladies stop trying so hard in dating and instead start...

Hey friends! Welcome to our little corner of podcast universe! If you are over 40 and trying to get it right in love, dating and relationships you are in the right place. Tonight we are diving into what it really means to be HIGH VALUE in dating. Join us for this unfiltered conversation and learn exactly what you need to do to attract a high value partner into your love life. Learn about your dati...

Join our unfiltered after-dark conversation about SEX ON THE 1ST DATE & SHOULD SHE TEXT HIM FOR A 2ND DATE. If you are considering getting intimate on the first date, listen in to why you may want to wait it out. Then we dive into who should LEAD the planning and timing of the 2nd date. Join in for "Ourtake" on both situations and write into us to share your take to ourtakethepodcast@gmail.com...

Today, we are diving into the hidden truth to your arguments and the opportunity for healing in relationships. Get ready to peel the layers back and understand the dark corners and depths of your psyche. Learn about your dating style and what is standing between you and finally finding “the one” meant for you. Take our dating quiz and let love chase you!. https://datingandrelatonshipadvice.com/dat...

Tonight, we are replying to audience dating dilemmas on the topics of what to do if the guy you are dating keeps bringing up his X girlfriend and what to do if your man is following half naked women on social media. If you are not being respected and honored in your relationship, this episode is for you! Learn about your dating style and what is standing between you and finally finding “the one” m...

Tonight we are diving into GHOSTING. Why people ghost and what to do if you get ghosted. If you have ever been ghosted this episode is for you! Learn about your dating style and what is standing between you and finally finding “the one” meant for you. Take our dating quiz and let love chase you!. https://datingandrelatonshipadvice.com/dating-quiz Did you know that we offer one off coaching session...

Tonight we are diving into FEMININE MAGIC. Ladies learn the ancient secrets to having LOVE CHASE YOU! Did you know that we offer one off coaching sessions to help you navigate your dating situation? If you are dating someone and need an outside perspective and advice, we would love to meet you! Click here to sign up for a Dating Dilemma coaching session.  https://thedatingplaybook.com/bac Take our...

Tonight we are diving into the way MEN THINK and discussing what men actually want. - If you are divorced and now dating and wondering what men are looking for, this episode is for you! Tonight we pick Michael's brain to help our ladies learn what men REALLY want- and don't want. Did you know that we offer one off coaching sessions to help you navigate your dating situation? If you are dating some...

We are continuing our POLARITY series- the last episode we discussed the number one attraction killer- so if you did not catch that make sure you go back and listen after today's episode. Tonight- We are brining you a very special episode - for the guys on HOW to be more attractive. The tips in this episode will 10x your attraction. WARNING- ONLY LISTEN IF YOU WANT TO BECOME MORE ATTRACTIVE TO THE...

THE NUMBER ONE ATTRACTION KILLER  Hey Friends! Today we are kicking off our POLARITY SERIES! If you are wondering why the passion fizzles out, and want to understand the KEY to long term attraction and relationship success, today's episode is for you! Did you know that we offer one off coaching sessions to help you navigate your dating situation? If you are dating someone and need an outside persp...

In today's episode we cover how you can STOP CHASING and START ATTRACTING. The real conversation is how to be HIGH VALUE in dating so you can attract high value partners. If you are out there dating and still have not found "the one" this episode is for YOU! Join us for this "off the cuff" conversation! if you would like our support with attracting high value partners click here to sign up for a p...