Our Relationship Pod w/ Emmy and Ify

Just Ify and Emmy on this one and this feels like another classic! A 19 year old man wonders if he should be spending less time in Applebees and more time in some DMs, another person deep in a relationship finally decides to speak up about not wanting kids, and a freaky zaddy is leaving one poster feeling used! Listen in for our takes on these and what tangents we go one. Spoiler alert: we take a...

This week our friend BJ Colangelo dropped in to drop some banger takes. We really have some fun with this one. Stinky boyfriends, annoying parents, and weird viral hits. Here's what we jumped into: I ( 31m ) just found out my partner (29f) went viral for something in 2020 but she won't tell me why, should I try find out? https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/1dh5aab/i_31m_just_foun...

Jarvis Johnson joins us on today's episode to talk through girlfriends who don't want you looking at ANYONE, mouthy boyfriends, and anti-friend couple behavior. This week we're jumping into these threads: My (19M) girlfriend (22F) made me walk out of the circus last night because of the female dancers; What should I do? https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/1d8oc7p/my_19m_girlfrien...

The second end of that "mega-sode" we talked about on this week's Candy Dinner. Matt Apodcaca sits down to discuss his own high school lore, not lasting long enough, and hyperbole. Good discussions are had and we get deep! Here's what we're jumping into this week: How long do I (28f) stay with my bf (29m) if he constantly cums quick and I never do? https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comm...

We have guests again!!! Emmy and Ify are joined by Alison Haslip as they sit down and discuss all the hits. Potentially weird fantasies, infidelity, and people buying drinks for your hot wife. I (27F) am one of twins, and just discovered that my BF (31M) enjoys watching videos of twins on adult websites. What steps do I need to take here? https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/1cwdk...

We are late, but are we? Today we're jumping into: My ( 24F ) dad (62M) is currently going out with a girl younger than I am ( 23F ). I have no idea how to deal with this situation - what can I do?  https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/1cwfe1k/my_24f_dad_62m_is_currently_going_out_with_a_girl/ Caught my bf (31M) in a bizarre situation and I ( 27F ) don't know if and how to ta...

More chaos from the subreddit this week! We take a second up top to discuss hard conversations and talking about relationship needs no matter the type of relationship you're in, then we got more sex questions, some gamer behavior, and a question that reminded me of that episode of Full House where she fell off that horse. (ISN'T IT IRONIC!? SHOUT OUT TO ALANIS!) We're hopping in these threads: My...

A sandwich of fun episodes and some good conversations. We have some discussion of back door activities, a roller coaster of a story, some issue dealing with depression and anxiety, and people ducking visits to down town. We got into it and really dove into our freaky selves. We're hopping in these threads: My (38M) wife (40F) gives me mixed signals when it comes to anal. What is the best way to a...

This week we dive into our stuff a bunch, which kinda makes the "enough of our mess" part funny to say, but you better believe when we jump into the internet's mess it get's wild! Fist ball or life type beat, keeping up with the Jessica's, and male insecurity are all on display this week! We're hopping in these threads: My (37f) husband (36m), put martial arts training ahead of helping me get emer...

This week is a peek into madness because the subreddit was POPPIN'! Dead bedrooms, child choices, boyfriends that should be arrested, and cousin on cousin fighting! Wife never wants to have sex. Tried everything but Im fed up with the answer of “do things her way”. When do my needs come first? 37m 33f. Married 7 years https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/1c5hnr2/wife_never_wants_t...

This week opens with a deep conversation about our actualy relationship and communication styles. Then we dive into this mess: [UPDATE] I ( 31F ) booked a trip with my two friends ( 31F & 26M) only for them to tell me after that they’ve been dating for months. Now I’m expected to third wheel this trip and don’t know what to do? https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/1bylg7u/upda...

We're back with quite a few spicy questions that run the gamut! We're talking birth, friendship, and religion. Buckle up! We're hopping in these threads: My (34F) husband (30M) has been secretly donating sperm on Facebook. Is there any way back from this? https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/1bu1211/my_34f_husband_30m_has_been_secretly_donating/ I (29F) refused to let my MIL (63F)...

This is the sweepy episode. We're hopping in these threads: I (28M) broke up with my partner (26F) a few years ago, I'm very close with her parents, but recently learned she is now getting married and she's asked can I not contact them anymore? https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/1bcp5g3/i_28m_broke_up_with_my_partner_26f_a_few_years/ My [22f] best friend [23f] forgot my birthday...

Lots of wedding talk in this one! Some weddings that should happen and one that shouldn't! We're hopping in these threads: My Fiance (45M) is infatuated on knowing if ex wife (42F) is dating. Is this serious? How do I approach him with this info so he will feel open to express himself & not attacked? I(26F) have very few people to invite to wedding, fiance (M32) has huge potential invite list....

Sometimes you brainwash yourself into not wanting to sleep with your wife. You know, normal marriage things. We're hopping in these threads: Am I wrong for "Friend Zoning" my wife? My husband (32m) and I (34f) have been married for 8 years, and he made a callous remark in bed. What do you guys make of it? Is it weird to invite a male classmate at home for assignment? Me 28F BF 34M I (25f) am being...

Did you notice that I forgot to remove add a [Fun anecdote] last week and just left it in there because I was in a rush to upload the latest episode? Anyway we go through it all in this one. Friends getting scammed potentially, what information should be upfront when dating, poop alerts, and baby delivery woes. Come for the relationship advice and stay for the poop jokes! We're hopping in these th...

[Fun anecdote] We're hopping in these threads: I (F19) accidentally implied that my boyfriend (M19) is a loser. How can I fix this? Is my (28F) boyfriend (28M) addicted to porn? My (26f) best friend (23f) might be in love with my husband (26m). Where do I go from here? I (30F) discovered through therapy that I’m gay, how do I tell my fiancé (38M)? Socials: @ourrelationshippod on IG, Ify is @ifynwa...

I promise to stop complaining about our cats one day. We're hopping in these threads: I’m (F27) starting to think my “best friend” (F27) doesn’t like me very much. https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/1auzxip/im_f27_starting_to_think_j_my_best_friend_f27/ How do I (20F) build healthy communication with my partner (21M) and stop shutting down? https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_...

Happy Valentine's Day, we go deep in the episode and there's an interesting Dad theme. We're hopping in these threads: https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/1agdb71/my_23f_boyfriend_25m_thinks_my_dads_59m_gifts_are/ https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/1agee6r/my_36f_husband_47m_says_its_inappropriate_to_wear/ https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/1...

Hey everyone! Just giving y'all an update on things. Mother Nature took out my Rodecaster Pro II's power adapter, and now I'm waiting for a replacement. Going to upload those videos for previous episode to give you something to look at while we fix things. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Good sweet all around cutie, Damian Haas joins us for today's episode. It runs the whole gamut! Grieving crushes, exes crawling back to you, terrible talk about your partner, and incels! How can I (F20) get over him (M21) (we never even dated) Months ago, my gf (36F) broke up with me (37M) after 14 years together, seemingly for someone else. Now, she's hinting at reuniting. How do I approach her a...

This week we are joined by relationship coach, pro intimacy coordinator, and all around awesome human Arielle Zadok! We get real insightful as we delve deep into some more relationship mess! We're hopping in these threads: How can I (27F) make my husband (31M) not feel uncomfortable initiating sex? My wife (f49) just told me (m49) she slept with her massage therapist  Boyfriend (M30) of 6 yea...

What a fun episode with our first guest, Ethan Nestor aka Crankgameplays! We're getting really wild with this one talking about eating, emotional cheating, and racist meetings. We're hopping in these threads: I (21f) just found out my parents (43f and 46m) are related to one another. My (29 f) racist parent's (60 m) want to see me after they disowned me 10 year's ago. Need advice. I (28M) saw my G...

Happy New Year! After a week hiatus we are back into mess in the new year. Lots of fun light ones this episode. Child birth, intrusive thoughts, weird politics, and potential butt slapping? Hop into the conversation and if your new years resolution is to support your favorite people, sign up for the patreon! We're hopping in these threads: My (30M) wife (28F) has said she wants her mother with her...

Merry Chrystler and Happy Honda Days! We're back with another episode to help you dissociate from a trip that you are now realizing might be a day or two too long, or maybe you actually like your family! Either way, this one is fun! We have video! Since it's post Christmas and we have family in town, that's probably going up tomorrow (12/27) but we'll blast the news on socials when it's up! We're...