Our Relationship Pod w/ Emmy and Ify

Hey there mess hall! A quick update to let you know we're alive! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Anica Cihla (@anica_cihla) joins Emmy and Ify on an impromptu panel for PAX East that was perfectly timed because they didn't record an episode today. We dive into matching hobbies with your partner, dealing with a cheater who hates magic, and wondering if a friend is addicted to a vtuber they watch in secret. The energy of this pod is amazing and Ify wants to apologize a second time to the family...

We are back on the couch with our friend Stanzi Potenza (@stanzipotenza) this time, and wouldn't you believe it? More people are bad and weird. We have a situation with a trucker that is so bad I don't even want to put into words and risk having this podcast banned, a husband's weird habits, and even more wild behavior on the subreddit that gives this podcast life! Thanks for listening! Socials: @...

Our good friend Jon Gabrus (@Gabrrus) plopped on the couch with us to chat about kissin' the homies, trying out kink, and even more silliness. You gotta jump into this one because it's filled with laughs! Thanks for listening! Socials: @ourrelationshippod on IG, Ify is @ifynwadiwe on Twitter and IG, Emmy is @ohmyemilylouise on IG  Patreon: https://patreon.com/IfyAndEmmyWorld Email: ourrapodca...

Kira Noir (@thekiranoirgram) sits down with Emmy and Ify to discuss polyamory discomfort with visiting metas from an email, then they hop into Reddit and dive into truly toxic relationship cycles, a partner who might lack joy, and dealing with someone talking bad about you to your friend group. Lots of bad boyfriends and closing out on dealing interpersonal drama. As always, there's a huge tangent...

Super producer, director, and friend Matt Moynihan sits down with us to dive into this mess! A listener has questions about moving in with a partner and on Reddit a foot guy tries to hard, a BYU student is setting his future child up for failure, someone dealing with their partner blowing up, and a man with a fake supervisor. We have a lot of fun dissecting these questions, but the deep dive into...

Listeners win this week as I was swamped yet again and am uploading this on Wednesday. Like Emmy said, new episodes Tuesday or Wednesday! We're joined by our friends Witch (@witchy.brew) and Danielle DeNicola (@danielledenicola) to dive into the mess of the week and they're such a treat. We talk about relationship escalation with a listener, and then go to Reddit to talk about the fallout of a bab...

Our friend Biqtchpuddin (@biqtchpuddin) is joining us for todays mess and boy is it messy! [Sorry for the delay this week! My car was broken into this weekend and I had to get myself together to remember all my responsibilities. As a reminder, this episode an the next have high reverb, but after that it'll be fixed!] We tackle a listener with questions about a LDR, a redditor looking for loyalty w...

Happy Mess Day y'all! Feels good to be consistent with the episodes. We jump into another email and a bunch of Reddit posts with the amazing comedian Chris Grace (@chrisgracecomedy). We got people asking about kink, dads afraid of the gay, and more! As a reminder we have a few more episodes with this weird high reverb audio and then we'll have it fixed! Thank you for bearing with us. I'll do a bet...

We are back with SEASON TWO of Our Relationship Pod that's filled with the juice and also we have video yet again! We're joined by comedian Chris Mejia (@chrismejiacomedy) and and porn royalty, content creator, and activist Siri Dahl (@thesiridahlagain)! Very juicy intro segment on our first episode back and the mess doesn't begin until we 23:23, but you wanna hear what we have to say up top! Lots...

Back from Australia and back into your ears! It's time for more mess! We're hopping into: Email about a heart that still wants. I (28f) commented on a post of my boyfriend (29m) on a "are we dating the same guy" page and he found out. What are my next steps? My (37f) Husband (38m) was fired for sexual harassment Boyfriend (29M) keeps accidentally hurting me (28F) and I’m scared it will happen agai...

Mixing things up this week and answering questions that were asked on our IG! We're hopping into our own mess and sharing advice on some questions asked by the Mess Hall! Thanks for listening! Socials: @ourrelationshippod on IG, Ify is @ifynwadiwe on Twitter and IG, Emmy is @ohmyemilylouise on IG  Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/OurRelationshipPodcastwithIfyandEmily Email: ourrapodcast@gmail...

Whaddup Mess Hall! We're back with another episode filled with the internet's mess! We're hopping into: I (28F) went through my boyfriends’s (31M) phone and can’t unsee what I saw. 37M with 38F for 4-5 years. Not sure how I should feel... Confused by mixed signals from an 18F need perspective,i 20M. Me (40M) and my wife (40F) tried a threesome, and now I feel insecure. How do I talk to her about i...

Friend of the pod BJ hops in with some advice for Jayne in Cleveland and we jump into some spicy questions on Reddit. Lots of weird behavior, catching the ick, and stressed out partners. It's like they say, "we are so back". We're hopping into: My (f26) ex-bf (m27) said he was gonna propose for the last 4 years. When I finally found the courage to break it off, he did. I don’t know if I should giv...

We just got back from Atlanta and we're ramblin', tangentin', and taking pregnant ass pauses to think about the things that we asked this week. The emails are POPPIN', so we have to take the time to sit through em and chop it up with the mess hall. We're hopping into: Thoughts on the Age Gap Nice words from Jayde Shame around D/S relationships First sex party tips Thanks for listening! Socials: @o...

Lil update for the Mess Hall while we're out and about! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

While Ify washes his clothes for a big trip, they answer two emails from listeners and head to reddit to close things out! Come hang and laugh with your messy friends who will give it to you straight. We're hopping into: Age Gap Relationships The Return of Jayde I (F25) struggle to have sex with my husband (M28) Thanks for listening! Ify's Australia Shows: https://www.century.com.au/ify-nwadiwe-li...

We're coming at y'all like from the Big Cut! That's Connecticut for all the folks who haven't adopted my weird slang for this New England treasure. We're in the harbor side cabin talking a whole buncha mess while Em's nephews and niece have fun downstairs! We're hopping into: An Email Requested Reddit Post A hello from a long time listener Someone's GF might secretly be unhoused BF at all the jala...

Took us a while, but we're officially back! We are deep in our e-mail backlog and we are so happy to talk to everyone again! Someone even made Ify cry!!! We're talkin' bout: Dealing with a tough break up. How to flirt. Some words of praise. Asking out a coworker. Thanks for listening! Socials: @ourrelationshippod on IG, Ify is @ifynwadiwe on Twitter and IG, Emmy is @ohmyemilylouise on IG  Pat...

We're back and so is my voice! We bust through some emails and have a deep chat about mental health and what's going on with our brains. A few updates and some questions about being a good friend to a new parent and transitioning into friends after dating. Thanks for listening! Socials: @ourrelationshippod on IG, Ify is @ifynwadiwe on Twitter and IG, Emmy is @ohmyemilylouise on IG  Patreon: h...

In our mad dash to prep for Neo we didn't get a chance to record an episode, so we're throwing it back with a bonus episode form Patreon around this time last year (4/17/24)! See you cuties next week! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

We're back! After a quick aside to chat about tackling the big thoughts on the previous episode, we jump into some listener emails and get into some reddit threads. We're tackling body image issues, caring for our kink daddies, and talking about old people's outdated child care tricks. It's all fun and goofs this episode! Thanks for listening! Socials: @ourrelationshippod on IG, Ify is @ifynwadiwe...

Very explosive episode this week! Wow! So much love from the mess hall and probably our messiest email yet! We talk about a lot of great topics like where you stand in queerness, loneliness, sex while parenting, and some fun updates from the mess hall. Then, we close it out with a silly Reddit thread. Lots to dig into this week! Thanks for listening! Socials: @ourrelationshippod on IG, Ify is @ify...

We're diving into more emails this week and we even throw in a bonus Reddit post! Lots of love in the mess hall community, some friends not digging partners, and diabolical miscommunication amongst swingers! Lots to dig into this week! Buckle up! Thanks for listening! Socials: @ourrelationshippod on IG, Ify is @ifynwadiwe on Twitter and IG, Emmy is @ohmyemilylouise on IG  Patreon: https://www...

We're back home and we got tons of mess for you this week! We answer some follow up emails and jump into two reddit threads! I totally forgot what I said I would link in the notes, but will run back here to post it when I remember* *Listen to it or am reminded by a listener Thanks for listening! Socials: @ourrelationshippod on IG, Ify is @ifynwadiwe on Twitter and IG, Emmy is @ohmyemilylouise on I...