Open the Wound Bible Based Podcast

Self-defeating speech that keeps you from moving forward also has a lot to do with playing the role of a victim. It's the speech about what they said against you, it hurt my spirit, I am the blacksheep of the family, I am always being put down, they don't love me, look at how they always treat me. I get it, but how long will we allow what other people say and do affect what we perceive of ourselve...

How do you defeat the enemy that lurks within your circle?  You know the one who, with their lips, says they love you, but their actions are those of evil. The one in your presence gives compliments and flattery while hiding a knife behind their back, waiting for you to be caught off guard. These are the same people who always want to be around you, keeping an eye on what you are doing, what you a...

When you feel like what you experienced in life was not actually reality, and its basis was based on a misperception, where did it come from? Did it come from a movie that you played in your head, and it formed into a reality? Did it come from something dark that you desired but never spoke out loud, or did it come from a repressed memory of something even darker? Something that gave you nightmare...

What are belief systems?  They are beliefs about religion, world views, economical views, based off what has been experienced in life, while be raised as a child, and could be developed by harsh treatments well into adulthood. Some beliefs that I've heard are about races of people, it is stated that some groups of people are lazy and just want to be taken care of. While other groups of people work...

I pray that today finds you in good spirits, I pray that you have overcome wounds that you never thought you could or would overcome and heal from. Today, we will talk about wounds from words spoken in your life. Many people have said that sticks and stones may break my bones, but words will never hurt us. That is not true.  According to Proverbs 18:21 Amplified states: Death and Life are in the p...

Good day everyone! I pray that you all have been doing well and that the Lord has truly been dealing with you all in different areas of your lives. I pray that all is well with your spirits, your mental health, and your financial health as well. Today, I want to talk to you about the topic of Soul ties. I'm almost positive that at some point in your christian life or journey, you have heard the te...

I believe all of us in times have dealt with someone who exhibits stubborn behaviors and we either ignore them or we address them with truth. We have probably gotten cursed out, because people don't want to deal with the truth of their behaviors. Well, the word of the Lord gives us correction, and sometimes we get upset when we read his word, so we begin to overlook different scriptures dealing wi...

STOP don't fall for the normal tricks, you know the one that got you hurt the last time, and the time before. You know the pattern that you always tend to fall for, either in intimate relationships or in friendships. What is wrong with you? Why do you keep setting yourself up for failure, and then fall into a depressed state? Do you have " use me" written across your forehead, or, are you putting...

Do you know what's in your heart, and where the root of your troubles come from? Do you wonder or ask yourself why you feel sadness? Why do you get angry about different situations more than others? Are you upset about how you handle situations? Do you question your thoughts or the opinions of others, because you feel uneasy or uncertain about life, and or the general direction your life is going?...

Are you holding on to relationships, because you are afraid of being alone? Are you settling for the mistreatment, disrespect, abusive language because they tell you they love you? Are you holding on to that abuser who hits you because, you didn't get dinner cooked on time, or you didn't give them money to go shopping, or to buy drugs or alcohol.  I have one question. Why? Do you devalue yourself...

I know it hurts, but you have to give it a chance. Don't allow the enemy to steal or rob you of what could be a gift from the Lord. You'll always wonder if you let it pass you by. What am I talking about? I'm talking about the opportunity to love, to have a real love, something that is so wonderful it makes you feel like that little giddy school girl or boy with their first crush. I'm talking abou...

Do you still have insecurities about failed relationships, feelings of worthlessness, feeling neglected or unloved? Sometimes we feel that things are going good, and it takes one thing to send us in a downward spiral or emotional unrest.  I believe that we go through different levels or phases in our spiritual growth to mature us and to help us gain wisdom and understanding on how we should examin...

Today, I want to briefly discuss with you the topic of body image and shaming. The reason for this topic today is due to a conversation that took place with a relative of mine a few days ago. Someone that they had deep feelings for in the past made contact with them, and one of the things that they asked, was, are you still fat? How dare you ask that question, was my thought.  So I decided to dedi...

Have you ever made choices or decisions in haste, anger, while confused, or while intoxicated, and at the time you thought they were the right decisions, but found out it was in fact a mistake? Now your're trying to find your way forward, but the mistake has you bound to that choice you made. It could have been 30 years ago, 2 years ago, or it could be something as recent as last month. Now, your...

Is peace truly attainable?  Having peace is something that everyone should strive to have. After the storms of life, peace should come right? The concept of peace is primarily, wholeness, total health, total welfare. It covers the person as a whole. The mind, spirit, body and soul of a person.  When I was going through my struggles in life, I had no peace, no emotional peace, physical peace, no me...

How many of you have experienced relationships that ended badly? How many times did your significant other blame everything on you, your faults, your mistakes, and made you feel like the lowest person on the totem pole? I mean truly made you feel like you were the scum of the earth.  We make mistakes in relationships, we have flaws, and yes sometimes we can make people feel bad, none of us are per...

In life what do you follow, your heart or your mind? When you make important decisions, what do you follow your heart or your mind?  The reason for these questions is to point out a few things that I really didn't know until I read the bible. One thing that I learned is that, if we have wounds, past hurts, bitterness, anger, unresolved or repressed issues, we tend to make decisions based on our he...

Why is it so hard to believe that you are a jewel in the eye's of the Lord? Is it because, you don't feel worthy? The enemy of our souls will make us believe that we've done so much wrong that the Lord doesn't have the capacity to forgive us, and we begin to believe the lies.  Lies that we're not worthy, we're not loveable, we're not forgiven, we're doomed to hell, we're doomed to fail, and we're...

Good day everyone, I hope and pray that you all had a beautiful weekend. I just celebrated my 53rd birthday, and am so excited to see what's next on my adventure called life. I am so thankful to everyone of you who have subscribed to my podcast. I truly appreciate you all, as I do this for you and prayerfully it is helping you deal with some of your past hurts, and even learn how to deal with pres...

Lets talk about fear for a moment. I recall hearing Joyce Meyers talking about fear and she stated that it's simply false evidence appearing real. I always remembered her saying that, and I really had to learn how to put that into use for fears that I had in my own life. As a child one of my uncle's chased me with a lizard, so needless to say I have a fear of lizards. Well, today, I made up in my...

How many times have we tried to work a situation out, you know the relationship issues, workplace drama, confusion at the church,, different relationship dynamics, only to find out that it was misperceived notions. You lost valuable time nursing a wound that was perceived in error. You chose to remain silent and the enemy had you believing something that was made up in your mind. The enemy has a w...

One of the most important things to do in order to love again, is to forgive the person, yourself, and learn from past mistakes. We all have an idea of what love should be like, but if we were wounded from childhood, and never received counsel, or never got over the pain from it. We tend to base love on false reality, the reality that love may sometime hurt and be abusive, it may cheat on you, and...

Today we will discuss: What Do I Have to Offer? I recall some years ago while in my mid-twenties, I asked myself; what do I have to offer? Of course this was after several disappointments in relationships that failed. I thought the relationships were actually going somewhere, but I found out that they were very toxic to my mental health and well-being.  Sometimes we find ourselves in this mental s...