Once Upon a Real Life

As I learn to structure my mind, I have found a way to discuss all the things I love in one place! Mondays - Manifesting Tuesdays - Tarot Wednesday - Why, where's, what's of life Thursday - Thoughts Friday - Feelings!

Where'd the line between protecting your peace and pushing people away? In this episode, we unpack the difference between healthy boundaries and emotional brick walls - those defence mechanisms we build to survive but sometimes forget to soften. If you've ever wondered whether you're honouring your needs or hiding behind fear, this one's for you

Let me set the scene...as I became steadfast in myboundaries, after a lifetime of being walked all over I felt like the people I stood up to would appreciate constructive criticism (or at least it was in my eyes) but what came with putting myself first, was losing lots of people who I had tolerated conditional relationships with, for too long!

For years, I have heard people say, "Life begins atforty," and "You care less about what everyone thinks when you turn40!" But no one said, involuntarily setting boundaries is theenergetic dress code, and that can leave you lonely and with a huge addition toyour already insufferable self-worth issues! Join me as this mini-series explores the ups and downs ofhitting the big 4-0!

I'm turning forty and I couldn't be more excited...new chapter pending!

This is a poem I wrote 4 years after experiencing the cruel hand of grief when we, as a family lost 4 close family members. I still don't understand how to deal with grief, but this poem helped me in someway and I hope it can help someone else Bx

In this episode I go through the things that have help manifest and also the things that slow us down

I promised that if the Universe could manifest something seemingly impossible for me I would never doubt it's magical power again! Instead I would traipse through my life and work out where and what slowed my manifesting down and what sped it up to help others.

A Year after my last episode and I'm stepping into well, the known actually...if it ain't broke don't fix it. Life Rants, Poetry, Tarot Card pulls, Manifesting tips and tricks and other ramblings. Me finally accepting me, as I am....

How are you doing in the final few days before Christmas??

Another month another load of life changes I’m processing!

In this episode we discuss the next character in my book and the final internal character!

Inner child healing is something I am incredibly passionate about, it’s one of my favourite areas to work in and this is a great tip to give your inner child some love as the festive period rolls around

Another poem, this one I wrote in the wee early hours of the morning when EVERYTHING was keeping me awake!

These characters are a huge part of my past present and no doubt future self. The two sides within one mind that contradict one another with either positive or negative narration of everything you do!

“Whenever I think my body’s failing, I’ll say it could be worse”

I just had to share the “download” from a recent meditation I got!

Another chat about life, tiredness, negative and positive voices and manifesting

Another little rhyme of mine

In todays episode we explore the Genie and the Lamp from my book Once Upon A Real Life

Another poem I wrote and wanted to share

Just another week of drama and surrender and mum guilt and nostalgia…I’m not crying, you are

A poem I wrote when my mind was in a complete state of confusion whilst feeling in a total sense of clarity…iykyk

A poem I wrote when I was processing past relationship trauma

Continuing to explore the characters from my debut book ‘Once Upon A Real Life’ in this episode we delve into Pan and Shadow