On The Howse

Are you recently single? Do you like Julian? Well them send an email to reachonthehowse@gmail.com…kidding! (Unless you really want to)👀. In this episode we discuss life after a breakup😨. There are so many aspects to consider, whether it’s how to navigate friendships with mutual friends, dealing with intertwined finances, the list goes on! But…finding yourself afterwards can be an interesting and...

In this episode, John and Julian discuss various topics, and talk about something they are grateful for. The main topic is money in relationships, which is explored in depth along with the value of experiences versus material possessions. They discuss their personal experiences with spending money, and their thoughts on the importance of it. They also touch on the importance of communication about...

SHENANIGANS!!! Who hurt you 😢? Was it intentional? If so, 🤬 them. If it wasn’t, then maybe it’s time you had a difficult conversation with them. Sometimes people just don’t know what their actions are causing, and it’s up to us to bring it to their attention. We also call out men not taking the hint (stop being 🤬 creeps guys), and how ridiculous they can be. Really fellas…stop that 🤬. We try a...

Are you tired of people giving unsolicited advice on who you choose to date or partner with? Us too! This is such a weird phenomenon, where people feel the need to impose their ignorant, limited world view on others just because they can’t see out of their own 🤬 box. But I digress, here at On The Howse we feel you can’t help who you’re attracted to, and we love love. So cuddle up with your date o...

Get with it or get lost! 🗣️Tips advice for dealing with a relationship you settled to be in🤯. Yup, it’s a hard topic but most of us have done it or are currently in it 👀. We also talk about being in a situationship and how to navigate that(carefully)😅. There’s some dating advice  and shenanigans sprinkled in as well. You’ll be glad you watched this one😜. Don’t forget to like and subscribe! 👍...

In this episode one of us talks about why monogamous relationships aren’t sustainable 🤯. We also discuss intrusive thoughts and how to deal with them🧐. It’s so exhausting to care what people think, right?  Well then stop doing that 🤬…seriously. You’ll feel much better, we promise 😉. *actually feeling better is not guaranteed*. Hear our favorite interaction of the week 👀 and make sure you stay...

Do you wear your ❤️ on your sleeve? Do you know what your 🚩 flags are? Do you like to grow…emotionally🥹? Well pull up a chair, couch, or whatever you got and join us! In this episode we talk about our own red and green flags, and how annoying it is when someone tells you what you deserve 😑. We also talk about times we tried to be romantic and it backfired😬, and discuss our favorite interaction...

STOP People Pleasing & Hiding Your True Self ============================= Show Notes: Are you a people pleaser and feel like you’re finishing last in this race called life? (Spoiler alert…you are). Are you tired of being shamed for being yourself? Do you want motivation mixed with inspiration and a pinch of humor? Then we appreciate you stopping in! In this episode we discuss people pleasers,...

Have you ever met someone and the only reason it didn’t work was because of timing? Do you have healthy communication in your relationship (or wish you did)? Then welcome friends, we’re ecstatic to host you. In this episode we find out Julian went on a date?? John is perfect (at least in his own mind), and discuss a host of other deeply emotional and somewhat hilarious topics. The shenanigans may...

Are you trying to navigate this dating world while having kids or trying to date someone who has kids? Do you hate when someone tries to tell you how to live your life? Then we’re happy you’re here! In this episode we have some serious discussions about relationships and how much more difficult it can be when there are kids involved. We also talk about why you shouldn’t be afraid of failure, and w...

Have you ever been in a toxic relationship? Have you ever gotten ghosted? Do you enjoy being a safe space for someone and/or wish you had someone be a safe space for you? Do you enjoy being held and sometimes being the little spoon? Then you happen to be at the right place at the right time! In this episode we discuss our experiences with toxic relationships, dealing with a narcissist, how great i...

Do you absolutely HATE dating apps? Are you a fan of conspiracy theories? Do you feel like pineapple belonging on pizza is controversial? Then you’re in the right place! In this episode we discuss the pros and cons of dating apps (who are we kidding, it’s mostly cons). Also, we are more than halfway through February so if you haven’t celebrated Black people here’s your chance! If you have, then tu...

Have you ever traveled across the country just to shoot your shot? Do you dislike when someone gives you their number, says they are going to text you, and then neglects to do so…twice? Well then you’re in the right place! Join us as we discuss these topics and more, as well as some stories of our weekend shenanigans interacting with interesting people. Come for the stories and stay for the laughs...

Do you find yourself lacking self-confidence? Are you a people pleaser? Do you consider overthinking to be a personality flaw? Then you're in the right place! In this episode we discuss those topics above, our struggles with them, and how we turn them into strengths. We also talk about the weirdest and worst compliments we ever received. Come for the topics, stay for the laughs, and hopefully...