Okay Housewife

In this episode, we dive into the little things we do that often go completely unnoticed - and why we keep doing them anyway.  We unpack the emotional tug-of-war between wanting appreciation. From there, we shift into impulse buying - the thrill of the quick purchase, the dopamine rush of the "add to cart," and the not-so-fun realization later.  We talk honestly about being an impulse buyer to a f...

In this episode, we break down what it really takes for moms to survive Snowmageddon—when the weather forecast says “a few inches” and moms hear apocalyptic survival event. We talk about the pre-storm scramble to stock all the snacks (because no one can be snowed in without chips, chocolate, and something “just in case”), the strategic meal planning, and the silent panic of empty shelves. We also...

In this episode, Karissa and Dacia dive into the topic of goals-what they are, why we set them, and how the process of goal-setting often evolves as we get more honest with ourselves.  They reflect on past goals they chased simply because they felt expected or socially encouraged, only to realize these goals didn't truly align with what they wanted or needed in that season of life. The conversatio...

In this episode, we wrap up the holidays and everything that comes with them - the exhaustion, the chaos, and the mental gymnastics of remembering what you bought, where you hid it, and whether you accidentally panic-bought. The conversation shifts to one of the moments that makes all the stress worth it: when your husband swoops in with a surprise gift and absolutely wins Christmas.  We talk abou...

In this episode, we kick things off by recapping our Thanksgiving celebrations - the family moments, the cozy chaos, and how our experiences were compared to last year.  We dive into Black Friday mayhem and talk about what was on our wish lists.  Dacia shares a hilarious moment about a vacuum she had planned to buy, but changed her mind and ended up buying the wrong one.   We wrap up the episode b...

In this episode, we unwrap our favorite holiday traditions-the little rituals that made our childhoods feel magical and continue to ground us as adults.  We swap stories about the moments that defined our family celebrations and how those same traditions now bring a sense of comfort and continuity in a fast-moving world. We also acknowledge the bittersweet side of the season.  The holidays can be...

In this episode, we chat about the curious world of the new AI app Endless Summer - a platform that lets users virtually "exist" anywhere they want.  From tropical beaches to chic European cafes, people are using this app to post AI-generated content that makes it look like they're actually living their dream lives.  Some users treat it as a fun escape, while others see it as a manifestation tool...

In this episode, we sit down for an honest conversation about marriage, money, and teamwork.  We open up about how our financial habits have evolved from the early years of marriage to now, sharing what has worked and what hasn't along the way. The heart of the discussion centers around communication, shared goals, and accountability-the key ingredients (we believe) that keep both the household an...

In this episode, we dive into the growing issue of phubbing- the act of snubbing someone in favor of your phone-and how its quietly impacting relationships everywhere.  We start by discussing a 2024 study revealing that phubbing was actually listed as a contributing factor in divorce cases, a sign how digital distractions are reshaping connection and communication. Dacia and I (Karissa) get real a...

In this nostalgic episode, we take a fun trip back to the 1990s --when the music hit differently, and every song felt like an anthem.  We reminisce about the unforgettable tracks that shaped our teenage years, from the bold lyrics of Salt-N-Pepa to the girl-power energy that defined the decade. Somewhere along the way, we get delightfully sidetracked chatting about Taylor Swift's new album and how...

In this solo pod, Karissa takes on the topic of Parental Estrangement.  You’ve probably seen it online — stories of adult children going ‘no contact’ with their parents, or posts celebrating cutting off family as a form of healing. But I want to slow that conversation down and look a little deeper. Why is this happening so much right now? What’s really behind it? And more importantly, what can we...

In this episode, we discuss the modern redefinition of the “trophy wife” in her 40s. Today’s version isn’t just about appearances—it often includes cultivating hobbies, exploring passions, and sometimes even working part-time by choice. We also unpack how influencers are poking fun at the stereotypical “entitled housewife,” and how this satire has ironically fueled a cultural shift that gives wome...

This episode explores the concept of friendship camps and why they’ve become so popular. While these programs provide structured ways to meet new people, you can create the same results in your daily life. We break down the steps to building lasting friendships: improving self-confidence, starting conversations, listening with intention, finding shared interests, and nurturing new bonds over time....

In this episode, we kick things off with lighthearted reflections on our favorite summer activities and the small joys that make the season memorable.  Although we hate to see summer go, we are welcoming fall with all the traditions. From there, our conversation takes a more serious turn to discuss overall health and specifically breast cancer.  Being an advocate for your own health can have its o...

Parenting boys and girls can feel like living in two different worlds-one filled with noise, energy, and nonstop action, and the other often marked by tears, big feelings, and emotional ups and downs.  In this episode, we dive into the differences many parents notice when raising sons versus daughters.  We also explore the importance of play, the power of one-on-one time, and how intentional conne...

Trigger warning: this episode discusses infidelity and may not be suitable for all listeners. In this eye-opening episode, we pull back the curtain on one of the most taboo topics: workplace affairs.  From whispered rumors to full on scandals that shake entire companies, we explore how and why (we think) some of these entanglements happen - and just how common they really are. We dive into the sta...

This week we continue part two of our interview with Hannah Sutter, owner of Hannah Sutter Interiors in Oklahoma City.  We discuss what kind of client Hannah usually works with, how she manages her household, what some of her favorite projects are, trends that are on their way out (i.e. things at Target), and current trends that give Hannah the "ick".   Join us for an enlightening episode and don'...

Join us as we interview Hannah Sutter of Hannah Sutter Interiors.  We discuss what brought her into the world of interior design, the impact of color, and gain insight on a good "high-low".     -Dacia and Karissa     

This is a new segment where we ask each other two random questions to get our own take on each subject.  Its a fun way to cover a gamut of topics-and who knows, maybe even learn something in the process.  What is Dacia's drink of the summer?  Can you imagine dating in this day/time?  Join us as we discuss!   -Dacia and Karissa

Season 2!!!  Here we go!  We realized after season one that we did not share our definition of an "Okay Housewife."  Per usual, we address that but chat many other things including being triggered by our kids reactions.  -Dacia and Karissa

One of your friends is coming over in 15 minutes, what do you clean? Dacia and Karissa discuss cleaning and organizing responsibilities that come with keeping up a household.

How much protein we eat per day is such a big topic right now-so Dacia and Karissa discuss their favorite high protein recipes, what their kids will eat, and the current protein trends.

Dacia and Karissa discuss just how badly they are addicted to their phones and the data supporting the epidemic in society. They also have suggestions on ways to improve and possibly change the behavior.

Dacia and Karissa discuss the stats and dynamics of relationships and friendships in adulthood.

Dacia and Karissa continue their conversation with Kayla Jones of Jones Counseling located in Edmond, Oklahoma. Kayla is a Licensed Professional Counselor (LPC) and Certified Sex Therapist (CST). In part two, the sexual side of intimacy is discussed and how the 90s/early 2000s Christian culture contributed to many different sexual viewpoints in marriage. **Please note, this episode is for mature a...