OhMyGoodens

As much as we advocate about not pouring from an empty cup, we have to practice what we preach and take a hiatus! While we had some Dylan-fiyah loaded in the chamber for Season 5, life has been throwing more slots on our bingo card and we'd be remiss to not shift our bandwidth and energy. Catch up on past episodes in the meantime - this is just a see ya later!

Join us as we open season 5 with a discussion on mortality and grief (literal and metaphorical) - our individual relationships with it, how it's shifted/shaped us, and what we've learned in knowing all this shit eventually ends. Follow us on Instagram ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@ohmygoodens⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ or drop some shit in our inbox ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ohmygoodens@gmail.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and let's discuss this week's epis...

If you ain't growing what you doiiiiiin?! To close out season 4, we wanted to dig beyond just the idea of [GROWTH 🌟🤏] to truly examine what's contributed the most to ours. Have you ever really given thought to the things, experiences and people that have been major seeds for your growth? Follow us on Instagram ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@ohmygoodens⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ or drop some shit in our inbox ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ohmygooden...

Against the backdrop of both of us entering new job chapters, Drew came through with another bangerrrrrr, yall - the concept of control and how we honestly have VERY little of it in the grand scheme of things. If you're like us, the negative self-talk can get pretty loud when life be LIFING, so we sat down to chat about our relationship w/ control or lack thereof - navigating it, managing it,...

Have you ever given thought to how different summers are now from when we were kids?! Drew was reminiscing hard after last episode so he did some Gooogles on why summers of the past were so top-tier and he stumbled upon a pretty dope article . Take a listen while we talk about some of the ways we can bring those old school summer vibes back, adulting and all. #FreeDatInnerChildDisSummer P.S. Yara...

Fresh off a "Black Mirror" binge, we started thinking about how trippy it is existing at the intersection of a past w/ minimal technology to an obvious future fueled by it. Everything from our phones, to gaming and how we get chores and errands done have shifted immensely as we see technology continue to evolve. And don't get us started on A.I - TUH! Follow us on Instagram ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ @ohm...

We're back from vacay!! Scrolling through the interwebs, we stumbled upon a pretty interesting concept developed by Dr. John Gottman -- one which was able to predict stability in relationships with 90% accuracy -- the 5:1 rule. While developed for intimate relationships, we wanted to chat about how this "magic ratio" can be applied as a formula in regulating stability in all the rela...

In another venture into what we clearly didn't talk about when getting into a relationship (cause we were whole ass kids outchea), we discuss MOOLAH..BREAD...COIN...DINERO - thaaaa BAG. From avoiding bank statements to inheriting debt to hiding purchases, we chat about how we've navigated (and are still navigating) the topic of money, our individual relationships with it, and so much more....

Yall could NEVA say we don't love yalllll! Kiddie germs nearly took us out but we STILL back with some fresh hot Gooden fiyaaah. In this episode, we examine our relationship w/ the butterfly effect - where it's shown up in our lives (IYKYK) and to what degree some simple decisions could've affected us even being here today - figuratively, literally, individually, collectively... basica...

In the latest venture into what we clearly didn't talk about before we got into a relationship (and yall prolllllllly aint either!), we examine the baggage we can retrospectively acknowledge carrying in. From people pleasing to level 10 tempers and phone throwing, we chat about our respective luggage, the whys and whether they're still in our carry-on or unpacked in any capacity. We also i...

Drew is mighty morphin' into a boundary gawd, which lead to a conversation about the benefits of disconnecting -- from family, friends, gadgets, settings, etc. We chat about how we know we're nearing a point where we need to disconnect, the ways we honor that need and how important it is to listen to your bawdy & mind. Fun Fact: Tiff ain't answerin' the phone 7.5/10 times and d...

Welcome baaaack! We open season 4 with a chat about body-ody-ody-ody. Life been lifing and parenthood been hood af so we wanted to take a second and make space for an exploration of our respective relationships w/ our bodies - are they an ornament or an instrument?! Which have we allowed to navigate how we see ourselves and how are we balancing grace and discipline while we figure it alll out. Fol...

We cap off season 3 with a conversation on surviving the inevitable shifts and seasons that come and go in relationships - romantic, platonic and all in between. From picking your battles to learning when to let go, we discuss some of the ways our relationships have shifted and how we pivot when life realllly be LIFING. Black Movie Quiz: https://www.sporcle.com/games/AJO/black_movies Follow us on...

As we near a close to season 3, we wanted to chat about what it means to be black and vulnerable - what a paradox huh?! We discuss what vulnerability is, what it most certainly is NOT plus how it's been taught and balanced in our lives. TLDR; vulnerability is strength - you get to be both! Follow us on Instagram @ohmygoodens , send us a voice message at https://anchor.fm/ohmygoodens/message , or d...

They say everyone is toxic to somebody. You believe dat?! We examine the hyper-focus on that word but more importantly dissect a few ways we all may be showing up as an unintentional antagonist - impact OVER intention, yall! RESOURCES : Article on how to recognize the role you might play in creating an unhealthy dynamic Follow us on Instagram @ohmygoodens , send us a voice message at https://ancho...

Following one of our pregggo homies questioning whether guys TRULY feel the pressure of parenthood, we took a deep dive into the current standard/bar set for fathers and how to redefine it - with the amazing input of some of our fam and friends, both realized and via the socials.  P.S. Yara was cheffing it up in the background and her commentary was still LIT! Comparison FB post: https:/...

Fresh off his guys trip to Miami, Drew wanted to revisit last week's topic surrounding alcohol. He drove the boat right into some DEEEP reflection as we discussed alcoholism and the various ways it can affect one's life.  RESOURCES: Treatment for Alcohol Problems: Finding and Getting Help - https://www.niaaa.nih.gov/publications/brochures-and-fact-sheets/treatment-alcohol-problems-finding-and-gett...

Fresh off breastfeeding for 27 months (WE IS FREEEEE!) + the no-alcohol life of TTC before Yara, Tiff wanted to examine drinking culture and all the things that contribute to our collective and individual relationships w/ alcohol. From bottomless brunches to mommy wine culture, have you ever really analyzed how you navigate alcohol - and why? Kendrick Lamar "Swimming Pools (Drank)" - Genius Analys...

Just call us the mythbustaaaas as we chat about our take on some of the most common myths and misconceptions we've heard (and gotten) about marriage. Yall really out here thinking murrrried folks don't live life huh?!  P.S. Yara's commentary was lit too, IJS! Follow us on Instagram @ohmygoodens, send us a voice message at https://anchor.fm/ohmygoodens/message, or drop some shit in our inbox o...

With the ghetto that is Amurrrrrica, we wanted to keep it light this week.  Take a listen while we chat about how we de-stress and protect our energy in spite of the dumpster fire that is this country; from hacking the happiness chemicals in our brains to restore our peace and joy to bubble baths, yoga, love f*cking and all things in between. Follow us on Instagram @ohmygoodens, send us a voi...

With Father's Day around the corner, we sit down to talk about dadding and Drew's experience so far; influences, experiences and the balancing act of it all. It goes without saying that dads are just as influential and essential, so stop with the ties and sock, yall. They might want a bottomless brunch too!! Follow us on Instagram @ohmygoodens, send us a voice message at https://anchor.fm/ohmygood...

Have you ever given thought to whether you were raised on love vs survival? What does that actually look like? Is it possible for the two to have a healthy relationship?! We're joined by Tiff's best friend Al (Jasmyn to yalllll) to discuss which we identify with, why and how it affects us today!  Follow us on Instagram @ohmygoodens, send us a voice message at https://anchor.fm/ohmygoodens/mes...

Seeing Dr Strange 2 got us to thinking -- if you could turn back the hands of time, what would you change? Would you relive, repair or remove some thangs and why? And are your regrets typically about inaction, or making a different choice entirely? Take a list while we discuss and share some of ours. P.S. Yara (aka princess of bg noise) was at it again having a field day with my bag of cotton ball...

Errrbody needs a break every now and again but how would you feel about your partner dipping for alone time for 3 days skraaaaaight with NO contact? We discuss our take, what our ideal sabbatical would look like and examine why people feel like parenthood, marriage, etc means you gotta throw in the towel on your own life, individuality and turn-up. PSA: Yara's sound machine is in the bg, you aint...

Whitley said it best: "a man who's educated, enterprising and ambitious .... That kind of man is never poor."  So, why does the trending dating standards convo always start and end with at least 6 figures regaaaaahdless? Timely enough, Think Like a Man popped up on our television this week (a whole week after last episode on mama's boys). So, we ran it back and wanted to discuss one of Drew's...