Alvin Lim

Not Your Old Uncle

Education EN ↓ 7 episodes

Welcome to the "Not Your Old Uncle!" podcast, where we redefine what it means to be an adult after 40. We bring you honest conversations and relatable stories from everyday individuals, proving that midlife is just the beginning of a new adventure. Get ready for a good laugh, some insightful wisdom, and a reminder that you're not alone on this journey.歡迎來到「我不是老Uncle！」播客！我們一起探索40歲後的人生，重新定義成年人的意義。在這裡，我們分享來自普通人的真實故事，不講大道理，只談生活中的酸甜苦辣。準備好一起笑，一起成長，一起發現人生中的無限可能。--Hosting provided by SoundOn

Author

Alvin Lim

Episodes

(3/3) 33岁患癌、9个月没吃饭：他如何活出不设限的人生？| ft. 抗癌勇士/ RainBodhi 创办人 Kyle Neo 09.02.2026 26:21

33岁那年，你会做什么？对于凯（Kyle Neo）来说，那是他确诊癌症第3期的那一年。嘉宾 Guest: Kyle Neo, RainBodhi 创办人、设计师、抗癌勇士面对生命中突如其来的巨变，凯选择不带伤悲给人，而是用幽默和佛学智慧去应对。从12年前的化疗到如今因后遗症导致9个月无法进食、必须依靠胃造瘘管（PEG tube）维持生命，他依然能笑着说：“化疗掉毛让我省下脱毛费！” 本集精彩重点： - 33岁确诊癌症第3期：从自我怜悯到“担心也无用”的转...

(2/3) 佛教反对同性恋吗？区分文化与信仰的误区 | ft. RainBodhi 创办人 Kyle Neo 07.02.2026 21:14

佛教真的排斥 LGBTQ+ 群体吗？还是这只是传统文化的误解？在本期节目中，我们邀请了 RainBodhi 创办人 Kyle Neo，分享他如何从一名迷茫的少年，经历好友背叛、短期出家，最终在佛法中找到与自己身份和解的答案。嘉宾：Kyle Neo, RainBodhi 创办人 | 作家本集精彩重点： - 走出背叛：当好友伤害你时，如何运用佛法转念？ - 达赖喇嘛的启发：一段奇妙的印度之旅如何改变人生。 - 区分文化与信仰：佛教经典里真的有其实同性恋吗？ -...

(1/3) 被指责“同性恋是前世因果不好”？一位佛教徒的真实反击 | ft. Rainbodhi Kyle Neo 27.12.2025 24:12

这是一集关于接纳、和解与勇气的深度对话。身为新加坡 LGBTQ 佛教组织 Rainbodhi 的创办人，Kyle Neo (凯尔) 的人生剧本并不容易。从小因为气质阴柔在学校遭受霸凌，到成年后在寻求宗教出版时被指责“同性恋是前世因果不好”，他一路走来面对了无数的误解与歧视。现年 45 岁且从未谈过恋爱的他，是如何在孤独中找到内心的平静？当宗教教义被用来作为攻击的武器时，他又是如何用“佛性”来化解对立？本集《Not Your Old Uncle》，我们...

(4/4) Sexual Grooming & Self-Harm: An NIE Counsellor’s Perspective | ft. Bernard Mackenzie 26.11.2025 23:23

Sexual grooming is often an ambiguous space that starts with attention, "love-like" relationships, or even a professional massage that feels just a little "off". But for parents, spotting the difference between a caring coach and a predator is incredibly difficult. In this episode, we are joined by Bernard Mackenzie, Manager at the NIE Wellness Centre, to discuss the uncomfortable realities of chi...

(3/4) Spotting Child Abuse: What To Do (and Who to Call) in Singapore | ft. NIE Bernard Mackenzie 26.11.2025 26:55

In this critical episode of Not Your Old Uncle, we tackle the difficult subject of child abuse in Singapore. When you suspect a child is a victim, it's hard to know what to do. As a neighbour, friend, or community member, what is your role? And who can you call for help? 🎙️ Guest: Bernard Mackenzie, Manager at NIE Wellness Centre Singapore, joins Alvin for a clear and vital conversation on: - The...

(2/4) Parenting Through Bullying: How to Support Your Child & Break the Cycle | ft. NIE Bernard Mackenzie 26.11.2025 24:40

In this follow-up episode of Not Your Old Uncle, we turn the spotlight on parents of bullying victims — exploring the emotional impact, long-term consequences, and how to guide your child toward healing. 🎙️ Guest: Bernard Mackenzie, Manager at NIE Wellness Centre Singapore, joins Alvin for an open and practical conversation on: - How to spot hidden signs your child is being bullied - Building trus...

(1/4) Is My Child a Bully or a Victim? Expert Advice for Parents | ft. NIE Bernard Mackenzie 15.08.2025 18:52

Welcome to the "Not Your Old Uncle!" podcast, where we redefine what it means to be an adult after 40. In this debut episode, we dive into a tough but necessary conversation: bullying. 🎙️ Guest: Bernard Mackenzie, Manager at NIE Wellness Centre Singapore, joins your host Alvin for an honest discussion on: Why bullying was once seen as a “rite of passage” The psychological toll on victims How bulli...