Not Your Guru, Just Your Girl

I had a chance to sit down with one of my favorite women to follow on TikTok, Kristen Shelt (@kristen1942). We got to scratch the surface on an amazing conversation about the human experience and dissecting the reality we create around ourselves. Connect with us on Instagram! @misszenya @notyourgurupodcast @kandyhousela

First new episode of 2026! I sit down with Jamaican recording artist Blvk H3ro on his rise to success in the US. We talk about his journey of coming to America with nothing but a dream and how discipline is his current path to creating his latest upcoming album. Connect with us on Instagram! @misszenya @notyourgurupodcast @blvkh3ro @kandyhousela

In this episode, Zenya talks with BB Bad (Bianca Dijkhoffz) (@bb_bad) a powerhouse dancer and DJ from St. Maarten who has performed with Karol G, Sean Paul, and Chris Brown. The two dive into what it means to be a woman navigating the entertainment industry, how Bianca transitioned from professional dancer to full-time DJ headlining her own tour, and the mindset it takes to evolve and stay authent...

In this episode, Zenya sits down with Jason Facey a professional dancer and DJ from Jamaica, to talk about his journey from the Caribbean to Los Angeles. Jason shares his experience building a career in dance and music, being part of the Afrobeats and Dancehall scene, and witnessing how Caribbean influence has shaped mainstream culture over the past decade. Together, they explore the power of pers...

In this episode, Zenya sits down with Trinidadian singer, songwriter, and content creator Rochelle Chedz (@rochellechedz) for a heartfelt conversation about saying yes — yes to your dreams, yes to taking risks, and yes to creating your own opportunities. Rochelle shares her journey as an independent artist navigating the music industry and how trusting herself opened doors she never imagined. Toge...

In this episode of Not Your Guru, Just Your Girl, Zenya sits down with entertainment specialist Simon Baptiste (@islandcane), who brings over 25 years of experience in the music industry. Together, they explore the roots of soca music, its cultural impact in the Caribbean, and the movement to elevate the genre onto the global stage. Simon shares his insights on the journey of soca, its unique iden...

In this episode of Not Your Guru, Just Your Girl, Zenya sits down with recording artist and close friend Rex & The Rhythm (@callhimerex). The two dive into the realities of life as independent artists without the backing of a record label, discussing the challenges, freedoms, and resilience it takes to carve your own path. Together, they reflect on the importance of leaning on community, build...

In this episode of Not Your Guru, Just Your Girl, Zenya is joined by Aleena Gibson (@queenaleenamusic), a hit songwriter and singer from Sweden whose work has reached global audiences. Aleena shares her wisdom on placing value on your craft, understanding your financial worth as an artist, and navigating the business side of music without losing sight of creativity. This conversation is a guide fo...

In this episode of Not Your Guru, Just Your Girl, Zenya sits down with Maya Jupiter (@mayajupiter), a Hip-Hop Artivist who rose to prominence in Australia’s hip-hop scene in the late 90s and early 2000s. Maya shares her journey of finding community and building something meaningful with the resources at hand, not only as a path to self-fulfillment but also as a way to give back and uplift the comm...

In this episode, Zenya sits down with actor and model Gabriella Wisdom (@lil_bit_of_wisdom) to talk about the journey of overcoming a mentally abusive relationship. Gabriella shares her experience with healing through therapy, rebuilding her sense of self-worth, and learning how to step into a healthier, more empowered chapter of life. Along with sharing about red flags to spot early on in an unhe...

In this episode, Zenya sits down with Grammy-nominated songwriter and artist Tish Hyman (@listen2tish) for an honest conversation about overcoming adversity in the music industry. Together, they explore the realities of balancing personal hardships while still showing up to entertain and inspire an audience, and what it truly takes to keep creating when life gets heavy. Connect: Instagram: @missze...

Episode 8 of Not Your Guru, Just Your Girl, Zenya is joined by Mark Mostaed (@theshadowcodeprocess), a relational coach and spiritual programmer. Together, they dive deep into what it takes to break free from trauma patterns and how to create space for healthy, conscious relationships. If you’ve ever felt stuck in cycles that no longer serve you, this episode offers powerful insights on healing, s...

In this episode of Not Your Guru, Just Your Girl, Zenya sits down with Tracy Fowler (@yougotthistracy), a radio host, podcast producer, and fellow dream chaser originally from Barbados. Together, they share what it’s really like to leave behind your home country in pursuit of something bigger. In this case, building a new life and career in Los Angeles. From navigating uncertainty to trusting the...

In this solo episode of Not Your Guru, Just Your Girl, Zenya dives into the transformative practice of "Scripting". A powerful manifestation tool that involves writing your life as if your goals have already come true. She breaks down how this meditative journaling technique can help rewire your mindset, shift your energy, and create real change in just 90 days. Whether you're new to manifestation...

What does it mean to choose your family? And how do we protect those bonds in an industry that doesn’t always feel real? In this heart-centered episode, Zenya sits down with one of her closest friends, singer and songwriter Dessy Di Lauro (@dessydilauro), for a vulnerable and grounded conversation about friendship, loyalty, and navigating the entertainment industry with your heart still intact. Ze...

What does healthy masculinity really look like in today’s world? In this episode, Zenya is joined by Seth Stewart, a former professional dancer for Madonna, Mariah Carey, and more, and an original cast member of the Broadway hit Hamilton. Seth now leads True Kings Academy, a space created to help men heal, evolve, and connect through community. Together, Zenya and Seth dive into the importance of...

When was the last time you said “no”—and really meant it? In this episode, Zenya is joined by friend and kundalini instructor River (@riverxshima) for a soul-deep conversation about energetic alignment, self-protection, and the powerful truth behind the “sacred no” and “expansive yes.” Together, they explore how learning to say no to what doesn’t serve you—and yes to what scares you—can open the d...

In Episode 2 of Not Your Guru, Just Your Girl, Zenya is joined by model, creative, and radiant truth-teller Lo Forgé for a conversation on perception, manipulation, and the blurred lines between business and romance. Together, they unpack a frustrating and all-too-common experience of people who set up fake business meetings as a front for personal interest. The two dive into how women are perceiv...

Welcome to the very first episode of Not Your Guru, Just Your Girl. A new series from KandyHouse hosted by singer, songwriter, and soulful storyteller, Zenya (@misszenya). In this premiere episode, Zenya opens up about her perspective on love, self-worth, and navigating modern relationships. She answers questions submitted by her audience on Instagram — from the biggest red flags and the worst apo...