Not Your Average Gay

Have you ever wondered what it’s like to move 1200 miles away from everything and everyone you’ve ever known? Connor fills in his experience with moving from South Louisiana to St Paul, Minnesota. There’s many ups and downs that come with the experience, but he walks through the process and gives his honest advice on whether it’s worth it.

Its been months since Connor James has been seated in front of a microphone talking to you guys. Welcome, if you're new here this is the perfect time to join the party. I update the world on where I have been the last 8-9 months, as well as updating you guys on a few elephants in the room, or should I say not in the room? I also talk about the things that I am looking forward to the rest of th...

It’s finally here!! Cece joins the show as a full time co-host. In this episode we discuss our friendship history, and how we made friends, we made enemies and trauma bonded. We also discuss the new layout of the show as well as giving some insight to our “unique” friendship. We hope you enjoy this episode.

This episode is the end of an era, the final episode with just me Connor as your solo host. As we close this chapter I wanted to discuss the things that have made this ride special and what I’ve learned through the new therapy that I have gotten. And how the secret to the art of moving the f**k on with your life is moving like water. It’s great to be back, I hope you enjoy this listen. -C

This episode describes the emotional hells-cape that I have been in since the start of 2023. In a year where I asked to have things worked out, the universe has certainly dealt me a hand that would challenge all of my skills that I’ve learned come with adulthood.

In this episode I get candid about how I feel the powers that be in our nation are handling the gun epidemic in our country. Gun violence is now the leading cause of death among children that beats out fatal diseases AND car accidents. Something must change, and I discuss some ways that you can become that change. Every wave has to start with some ripple right? Please excuse my absence, I hope thi...

This episode is a nice mellow start to 2023 well in the most NYAG way. We start with discussing SZA’s new album and my obsession with it. We also discuss what’s happening in Congress right now as well as what happened two years ago on this day in that same building. I also discuss the CFP semi finals and upcoming National Championship game between TCU and Georgia. I also talk about putting your he...

I get a lot off of my chest including regrets, obsessions and crushes... the time of sitting on our feelings and staying silent has passed.

The title is kind of self explanatory, I felt the need to come be real with y’all for a bit. Just a reminder to never settle for less than what you deserve and remember the moment your dream life starts is the moment you go out and grab it.

Hey guys sorry that title is kind of a lot I just saw the rise in anti Semitic hate crimes so I felt like it was my duty as a proud Jewish American to speak out and tell my story. I completely take aim at Kanye and his atrocious statements that he still continues to make as well. And I also talk about why spreading hate towards any community needs to stop.

Sooo this episode was supposed to drop yesterday morning before the college football Saturday got kicked off, but here is this episode any way, I still stand by most of what I said even though some things were wrong lol. Hopefully I’ll have this upcoming week preview out by Friday. Yesterday was certainly a college football Saturday I’ll never forget.

I’m back with a little life dump for y’all. Sorry I’ve been gone I’ve just been completely reconstructing my life anyways I’m back and I’m so happy and grateful to be here with you. Also go see Bros in theaters now!

In the Season 3 premiere change is in the air for me and I explain the odd ending to Season 2. But truth be told sometimes things just end, without warning and it knocks everything in life off course, what I’ve learned in my absence is that’s okay. As long as you know who you are and you can stand on that, who cares. I’m a Phoenix y’all, no matter what situation I get myself into I’m okay with bur...

Have you ever gotten drunk and talked about the met gala with one of your best friends? Really, well you should. Anyway Ella joins us again as we discuss this years met gala and the theme of the exhibit which was, “America: An Anthology of Fashion” the fashion itself however took the “Gilded Glamour” theme. The important thing here is everyone looked absolutely beautiful, this is just all in good...

This episode discusses the unfortunate event that took place on May 24 in Uvalde, Texas at Robb Elementary School. Our hearts are with the people of Uvalde as well as families all over the country who have to bury their children due to gun violence. It’s a stark reminder of events like Virginia Tech, Sandy Hook, and Marjory Stoneman Douglas to name just a few of these categorically American traged...

Happy Pride month everyone. I know I kind of told my story last year, but this is a more non rushed story that describes the emotions that came with coming to terms with my sexuality. I read a letter that I wrote 16 year old me and I also talk about how things have changed since I came out. It’s just important that you know if you are struggling with figuring things out, you are loved and you aren...

After recent events I couldn’t help but do some self reflection. We all have to do better if we want to see better and that starts with us simply being kind to one another. Take it as a challenge to go out of your way to be kind to someone you don’t know, it’s much easier to be mean. I also go off on a couple of other tangents that may lead somewhere, who knows.

Hi everyone Happy Easter weekend! On today’s episode of NYAG Connor discusses what is left in Season 2 to look forward to, while also teasing what is coming in Season 3. I take a deep dive into what’s going on in softball including what makes this year’s Oklahoma team possibly the greatest ever. And Tennessee baseball we see you, keep killing it. Have a great holiday weekend you guys!

In this episode I expose some things.. I expose a plan I have had for a long time called Not Your Average Gay: On Campus where I go to the best college campuses in the country and take in the vibes and experience what their students would in a day, or at a tailgate. I also tell a story about “Cayden” and “Laurel” two friends of mine and how I stupidly got caught up in an entanglement. We also disc...

Oh lord this boy has a crush again.... But for real, Connor takes you through the final weekend of college basketball and gives his analysis while also discussing the 64th annual GRAMMY Awards and the winners while also discussing the looks of the evening.

Happy Last Day of March Madness!!! In this episode we talk about my YouTube channel and when I will be posting again. We also talk about what to expect from the future of my YouTube channel (lots of vlogging). A discussion about Justice Clarence Thomas’ wife is had and let’s just say she’s a shady person, but we’ll tell you why. We also discuss what her husband did that was so bad, and why you sho...

This episode starts with me giving an update on my mental health and kind of what I was going through earlier this week. And I also can’t express how much all of the support you guys have given me has meant, life is really crazy and scary right now and I don’t I have to doubt my support and I’m pretty lucky. We also break down my March Madness brackets for both men’s and women’s and where I went w...

I’m at a crossroads in my life. I can chose to do better, to be a better person, or I can continue down the same path I’m on. After a life changing experience in Austin I come clean about some stuff that has been eating me alive from the inside for a while. Don’t worry about me though, it’s a new energetic year, so my feelings are just super intense and all over the place. Things are about to chan...

This episode is kind of all over the place. We talk about meditation habits, you get to see me talk about my trip to Austin for SXSW before and a little bit after. Basically I’m at a crossroads in my life where every thing is about to change. Keep your eyes peeled there’s a part 2 to this episode.

In this episode we discuss some serious sh*t. We talk about more ways you can help the people of Ukraine. We also discuss 2x Olympic Gold Medalist Brittney Griner being detained in Russia by officials for over three weeks before it was announced publicly. We also talk about the cowardly “Don’t Say Gay Bill” in Florida by Governor Death-Santis and why it’s harmful to a whole new generation of child...