Not Yo Average Aunties Podcast

In this episode of Not Yo Avg Aunties Podcast, we’re sharing our ultimate list of books to read and diving into the stories and authors that shaped our love for reading. From timeless favorites like Standing at the Scratch Line and The Kite Runner to iconic authors like Guy Johnson and Sister Souljah, we’re talking about the titles that left a lasting impression. We’ll also explore how technology...

Pack your bags, mentally, at least! In this episode of Not Yo Avg Aunties Podcast, Kira, Jay, and Jo spill all about their dream vacation destinations. From the cultural wonders of Japan and Egypt to the serene beaches of Hawaii, the aunties break down what makes a getaway unforgettable. Pour a glass of Sauvignon Blanc and join the conversation as they swap travel stories, share their must-visit s...

In this episode of Not Yo Avg Aunties Podcast, we’re talking all about leveling up as you approach your 40s. From figuring out what you truly like and dislike to mastering the art of travel and setting those all-important boundaries, this conversation is packed with gems for self-discovery and personal growth. We also dive into creating your signature look, embracing seasonal traditions, and even...

In this episode of Not Yo Avg Aunties Podcast, we dive headfirst into the spicy world of age-gap relationships. Why is it applauded when men date younger women but side-eyed when women date younger men? We’re breaking down the double standards, sharing our unfiltered takes, and even spilling a few personal stories. From the ‘cougar’ label to the ‘sugar daddy’ dynamic, we’re exploring the cultural...

Talking about money in the family can get awkward, but let’s be real—it’s necessary. In this episode of Not Your Average Aunties, we’re breaking down the importance of being transparent about household expenses. From mortgage to heating bills, we’re calling out the need for open conversations so family members (even the non-contributors) understand what it really takes to keep the lights on. But w...

Welcome to another hilarious yet heartfelt episode of Not Your Average Auntie’s Podcast! This time, we’re diving into the tangled web of relationships, breakups, and those exes who just can’t seem to let go.   Why do some exes cling to your life like old receipts in your purse? Ego, entitlement, and a sprinkle of audacity, that’s why. 😏 We unpack how child support, co-parenting, and shared histor...

In this episode of Not Yo Avg Aunties Podcast, the Aunties dive into the complexities of women balancing masculine energy in their personal and professional lives. With raw honesty and relatable insights, we explore how societal expectations shape the roles women play and how being strong doesn’t mean abandoning femininity. The conversation delves into navigating leadership as Alpha Women in the w...

In this thought-provoking episode, the Aunties explore the delicate balance of supporting Black creators in film and television while holding them accountable for their work. Tackling issues like pay equity, equal pay, and the challenges of representation in Black cinema and Black TV, they emphasize the importance of constructive critique to help creators grow and succeed in the competitive entert...

In this powerful episode of “Not Yo Avg Aunties Podcast,” the Aunties take on the pressing issues of ageism, sexism, and racism, unpacking how these forms of discrimination impact everyday life, from the workplace to the entertainment industry. Sharing personal stories and insightful perspectives, they explore the challenges faced by younger and older generations, women, and people of color in nav...

Join us as we explore the intricate dynamics of marriage, infidelity, and love when faced with unforeseen challenges. We discuss the tough choices that arise when a partner has an affair resulting in a child outside the marriage, offering a candid look at the emotional struggles and varied paths individuals may take. Our conversation includes an analysis of “Reasonable Doubt” and its depiction of...

In this powerful episode of “Not Yo Avg Aunties,” we’re tackling the urgent issues surrounding women’s rights in 2024. With a glass of Pinot Grigio in hand, we dive into the struggles that women face daily—from workplace inequalities to the invisible labor of balancing careers, family, and societal pressures. Join us as we explore the fight for equality, including the recent rollback of Roe v. Wad...

In this Halloween episode of “Not Yo Avg Auntie’s,” we’re stepping back into the 1920s, fully decked out in flapper fashion to dive into dating norms of a century ago. Spoiler alert: we found more similarities to modern dating than we expected! From sneaking out to jazz clubs to challenging traditional relationships, the women of the Roaring Twenties were redefining love, independence, and what it...

In this candid and unfiltered episode, we dive into the complexities and challenges of parenting, addressing the oft-unspoken moments of frustration that every parent faces. While the love for our children is unwavering, we explore the realities of navigating the ups and downs of raising kids. Join us as we discuss the infamous "F*** Them Kids" mentality, not as a lack of love, but as a humorous t...

We explore the intersection of ego, leadership, and submission in relationships. How power dynamics shift between partners and friends, and what role do societal expectations play? The Aunties dig into their own experiences, discussing the balance of trust, communication, and accountability in modern partnerships. We also tackle how past emotional triggers can shape current interactions. This conv...

Ever had a friendship that felt like a “breakup”? In this episode, the Aunties' dive into the hidden heartache of friendship dynamics, sharing personal stories of betrayal and the hard truth about fake friends. While friendships are meant to be uplifting, sometimes they bring more harm than good—and that’s where the conversation begins. The Aunties' discuss how friendships mirror romantic relation...

Get ready for a wild ride as the Aunties dig into the relationship chaos of Reasonable Doubt on Hulu! From cheating scandals to jaw-dropping forgiveness, we’re breaking down the emotional rollercoaster & unconventional relationship between Jax and Louis. Michael Ealy steals the spotlight with his killer acting, and we can’t stop talking about it. Oh, and Diddy..... Yeah, the aunties, talk abou...

Can anyone really have it all? In this episode of Not Your Average Auntie’s, we uncover the real story behind the so-called “work-life balance” that everyone talks about but few seem to achieve. 😅   Are you constantly torn between career ambitions and family life? You’re not alone! Our hosts dive deep into their own experiences of juggling work, home, and everything in between. From battling guil...

  Our hosts share personal stories of navigating the child support system, from understanding their rights to facing the challenges of co-parenting. Whether you’re dealing with a child support case, preparing for a judge’s decision, or just want to know how to make these tough conversations more constructive, this episode has something for you.   We explore the emotional, financial, and legal hurd...

In this episode, we dive deep into the various ways stress impacts our lives and discuss practical methods to manage it. From the humorous to the serious, our hosts share personal anecdotes and strategies that have helped them cope with stress. We explore the benefits of music, cleaning, prayer, and exercise, and how these activities can serve as effective stress relievers. The conversation also t...

Does money really change the balance in relationships? How do couples handle financial stress? Money can be a major factor in relationships, influencing everything from how couples manage their day-to-day expenses to the overall dynamic of the partnership. In this episode, we dive deep into the impact of money on relationships, especially in marriage and cohabitation. We explore how different coup...

Get ready for a deeply personal episode of ‘Not Your Average Aunties’ Pod as Ki, Jay, and Jo dive into the pivotal moments that define us and the lingering regrets from missed opportunities. This week, we’re talking about the power of finding your voice, taking risks, and embracing personal growth. From unfulfilled dreams to the courage to speak up, this raw and relatable conversation is packed wi...

How does your childhood shape your adult relationships? In this episode, we dive into how your upbringing and past traumas affect everything—from splitting bills to setting boundaries. We share real stories and practical tips to help you protect your peace, avoid being taken advantage of, and build healthier connections. Tune in for a deep, relatable chat on why self-awareness and self-esteem are...

Join us in this enlightening episode as we dive into the deeply personal and transformative journeys of going natural. Our hosts share their experiences with transitioning from relaxed hair, lovingly dubbed "creamy crack," to embracing their natural textures. Discover the challenges and triumphs of maintaining natural hair, dealing with societal beauty standards, and the empowering decision to dit...

In this episode, we dive into the challenges of getting older and how it impacts our daily lives. From the struggle of losing weight to the aches and pains that come with age, we share our personal experiences and the importance of staying active. We also explore the social pressures to maintain a youthful appearance and how cosmetic procedures are becoming more common. Our conversation touches on...

In this episode, we dive into the importance of being ready for the things we desire and the work it takes to prepare ourselves for those opportunities. We discuss the challenges of overcoming fear and self-doubt, especially when striving to break free from societal expectations and judgments. We explore the significance of setting attainable goals and the power of celebrating small victories alon...