Not Yo Average Aunties Podcast

Court is in session—and this one gets heated. The Aunties break down a viral road rage incident that sparks a bigger question: Was this about bad driving… or bruised egos? From lane-switching and speeding to refusing to move over, the hosts debate: Who actually caused the accident Whether road rage is really about control and intimidation The difference between driving fast and driving emotional W...

In this episode, the Aunties unpack a truth a lot of people feel but don’t always say out loud—nothing feels permanent anymore. From careers that change every few years to relationships that end without closure, the conversation dives into what it means to live in a world where stability feels optional and everything seems temporary. The hosts get real about: Why job loyalty is disappearing How re...

In this Auntie’s Court segment, we react to a viral clip where a woman approaches someone on the street to help — but the situation quickly escalates, leaving people divided. Was it genuine care… or a lack of awareness? We break down what went wrong and get into the bigger conversation: consent, safety, and the reality of interacting with people experiencing homelessness. Because good intentions d...

On this episode of Not Your Average Aunties, we get into a conversation a lot of people avoid — the difference between love and control. Why is independence labeled as “difficult”? And at what point does “caring” cross the line into manipulation? We break down how control shows up in real life — from arguments that turn into power plays, to subtle behaviors like location-sharing, over-helping, and...

From Love Is Blind to those wild pop-the-balloon clips, the hosts unpack how looks, conversation, and chemistry shape modern dating. They get into whether routines ruin romance, if a strong mental connection can outlast physical attraction, and why some people confuse peace with boredom. Then it gets real: friendship drama, anniversary expectations, shady comments, gift pressure, jealousy, and the...

Walking into a room and instantly knowing the vibe is a skill, and  the Aunties are breaking it down. In this episode of Not Yo Average Aunties, Ki, Jay, and Jo talk about how to they read the room, spot the real leaders, catch the posturing, and move with confidence in social settings, meetings, and networking spaces. This one is for the women who want a sharper social compass without overthinkin...

We’re taught that perfection is the goal — but nobody talks about what it costs. In this episode, we unpack the emotional weight of always needing to get it right, how perfection becomes a coping mechanism, and why letting it go can feel like losing a part of yourself. From burnout and overthinking to identity and control, this conversation gets real about what happens when you finally choose peac...

In this episode of Auntie’s Court, We tackle a controversial topic that’s been stirring up real conversations—money in the church. From pastors asking for tax returns to public call-outs during service, we break down where faith ends and pressure begins. Is tithing about obedience… or has it become expectation and control? We share personal experiences, question church practices, and discuss the d...

Ki, Jay, and Jo take a deeper look at what Black excellence really means — beyond the slogan. From resilience and high achievement to the role of personal accountability, the Aunties explore how ambition, choices, and systemic barriers all shape our outcomes. Then in Auntie’s Court, disinformation faces the jury. The hosts examine how foreign actors manipulate Black women online and why critical t...

An 18-year-old gets 25 years… and the Aunties are asking deeper questions. In this episode, the Aunties step into “court” to break down an aggravated robbery case that raises big conversations about accountability, punishment, and what happens when teenagers make adult mistakes. Yes, the victim’s trauma matters. But so does what it means to give someone a sentence that could define their entire ad...

Are you the same person at work, at home, and in these streets? Or are you clocking into different personalities like it’s a 9–5? This week, the Aunties are unpacking code-switching and asking the real question: who actually gets the real you? On this episode of Not Yo Average Aunties, Key, Jay, and Joe get honest about the messy, personal realities of code-switching  especially in women’s lifesty...

Black women don’t just participate in culture — we build it. From music and fashion to viral moments and billion-dollar trends, this episode explores how Black women shape what the world consumes… and why we’re often the last to profit from it. The Aunties unpack cultural appropriation, ownership, brand exits, and what it really means to sell a Black-owned business without selling out the communit...

You prayed for success. You worked for success. But nobody warned you about the invoice that comes with it.  This week, the Aunties unpack the real weight behind “making it”: from financial expectations to emotional labor and why success can sometimes feel like a group project you didn’t sign up for. Hosts Ki Jay, and Jo dive into the concept of the Black tax and how it uniquely impacts a person's...

America’s Next Top Model gave us iconic moments, but did it also cross the line? The Aunties step into Auntie’s Court to break down the Netflix documentary revisiting the 15-year legacy of ANTM and the controversies fans can’t stop debating. From emotional breakdowns to “tough love” critiques that now feel a little… questionable, the Aunties ask the big question: Did ANTM empower aspiring models o...

At 69 years old, Clifton Powell says he just figured out love. After decades of living as a self-described womanizer, he now says he understands monogamy and emotional commitment. Auntie has questions. Welcome back to Aunties’ Court — we bring viral moments under review. We’re not judges, attorney's,  we’re Aunties unpacking accountability, generational patterns, and what growth looks like. In thi...

The soft life looks good online but real life still requires discipline. In this episode of Not Yo Average Aunties, Jo, Jay, and Ki unpack what “soft life” actually means beyond social media and how women can build more ease without losing structure, consistency, or accountability. The Aunties explore the balance between rest and responsibility, softness and discipline, and how routines can suppor...

A viral BAFTA moment stopped the internet in its tracks and had everybody arguing in the comments. Disability, accountability, race, intent… whew. The timeline was in shambles. Welcome to Aunties’ Court —  where we bring viral moments under review. We’re not lawyers, judges, or jury… we’re Aunties unpacking the layers, the impact, and the institutional mess with clarity, culture, and multiple pers...

What would really happen if social media vanished tomorrow? No Instagram. No Threads. No TikTok. NO Facebook. No scrolling at 1AM. Be honest… would you feel free or panicked? In this Women’s lifestyle conversation, your favorite Aunties get real about social media’s grip on our daily routines — from addiction and FOMO to personal branding, creator culture, and the pressure to stay visible. When pl...

Feeling overstimulated, overworked, and one notification away from losing it? Same. In this episode, your favorite Aunties are breaking down how to find calm in chaos using something powerful (and low-key life-changing) called glimmers. Ki, Jay, and Jo keep it real about the everyday triggers that throw women off balance — from stress spirals to emotional overload — and how small, intentional mome...

Are we actually the best version of ourselves… or just the latest version? In this episode, the Aunties talk about growth, aging, and the pressure to have it all figured out. From unlearning old patterns to pushing our bodies, our minds, and our boundaries, we get honest about what it really means to keep evolving. We touch on parenting, trauma, self-care, discipline, and the courage it takes to o...

Why does every generation at work feel like they’re the only ones who get it right? In this episode of Not Yo Average Aunties, Jay, Jo, and Ke unpack why the multigenerational workplace feels so tense and what really happens when five generations with different values, communication styles, and priorities are expected to work together. From “pay your dues” mindsets to boundary-setting, mental heal...

Are you paying for a bunch of subscriptions you don’t even use? Same. In this episode, the Aunties get real about money habits in 2026, the TikTok stuff we bought and regret, the things we swear were “worth it,” and the subscriptions quietly draining our accounts every month. We talk no-spend months, impulse buying, decluttering, and how to actually decide what deserves your money and what doesn’t...

In this episode of Not Your Average Auntie, the conversation goes deeper than titles and labels and lands squarely on the power of being alone on purpose. The Aunties talk about solo trips, solo dates, quiet time, and why choosing yourself isn’t selfish — it’s necessary. They unpack how intentional solitude strengthens relationships, sharpens boundaries, and creates space for reflection, healing,...

In this episode of Not Your Average Auntie, the hosts get real about friendship, support, and what it actually looks like when you step out and try something new. They unpack the different forms of support: emotional, financial, promotional, spiritual and why unmet expectations can lead to disappointment, resentment, and distance. The conversation dives into outgrowing friendships, setting boundar...

In this episode of Not Your Average Aunties, the hosts break down how they’re really preparing for 2026 no manifestation cosplay, just intention, boundaries, and execution. The Aunties talk vision boards (physical vs. digital), reviewing the wins and unfinished business from the past year, habits that have to go, and why chosen relationships matter more than ever. They get honest about protecting...