Not So Sexy

We are back with Season 4 of Not So Sexy! We hope over this very long break you've been falling in love, getting your back blown out, and having messy breakups. Everything that means you're alive.    This week we spoke with Amy Taylor, a high end sex worker. She talked with us about working for billionaires, what she would do if she could change the laws for sex work, how she manages to stay safe,...

This week we interview Angela, a sex therapist.  She talks to us about how to have the best sex, what it means to be in an abusive relationship, and shares with us details about her divorce. Even an expert in relationships can sometimes get it wrong. It's always good to remember that.  As always if you have questions, comments, etc - email us at NotSoSexyPodcast@gmail.com  Tweet at us @WeKnowItsGr...

How many of you think sex workers are "Ladies of the Night" or have only experienced them through movies and TV? If you're like "Yup, that pretty much sums it up for me" then you and I are on the same page. This week we talked to Rose Love who is a sex worker. She tells us about her dating life, how she interacts with clients, she gives us insight into the profession (and it is a profession) and s...

What would a sexually liberated, zero shame, totally sexy group of people look like? Think leather, tons of leather. This week Not So Sexy goes on location to a premier erotic art show - Naughti Gras. We touched soap that looked like a dick, got spanked, and talked to people about all things sex.   As always email us at NotSoSexyPodcast@gmail.com  Tweet at us @WeKnowItsGross and check us out on In...

How much hair is too much hair? How often should you shave or is going full Brazilian too far? This week on Not So Sexy we explore these questions and more. Also, our host Alex now has to go get a Brazilian wax which he may or may not live stream ;).   As always email us at NotSoSexyPodcast@gmail.com  Tweet at us @WeKnowItsGross and check us out on Instagram at NotSoSexyPodcast

Power - that is a big word in our lives. On this episode of Not So Sexy we explore what power means in relation to sex. How it affects how we couple, how it affects our interactions with other people, how it even affects our bodies. What does power mean for you? Do you feel powerful in your life, relationship, during sex? As always you can reach out to us on NotSoSexyPodcast@gmail.com  Tweet at us...

Do you ever struggle asking for what you want? What about when you're in front of the person you're about to have sex with? Asking for what you want during sex can be really tough. It can be uncomfortable 😳😳😳. But you can't get what you want when you're not asking for what you need 🥰. This week's Not So Sexy Episode "As you like it: Asking for what you want before, during, and after sex". It's...

Herpes can be a scary thing but it's surprisingly common. Yet, it's not talked about except in hushed whispers and angry texts like "DID I GET THIS FROM YOU". But herpes shouldn't be so scary. You can get it without an outbreak or from having penetrative sex. Instead of making fun of it and not talking about it our guest, Emily, decided to dive deep and discuss her life after she found out she had...

Dave Nadelberg, the creator of the Mortified show and podcast, talked to us about current projects, his past masterbation techniques, and his loves - past, present, and future.   

This week we bring on the zen master Andy to talk about when to say that huge four letter word L.O.V.E. It's, like most things, layered and complex.  We struggle to find an analogy, we show how much Alex really needs to calm down, and we talk about spears.  Also check out LELO our sponsor. They make incredible and beautiful sex toys. For weeks we've been trying them out. https://www.lelo.com/  

Guys, this week for Not So Sexy we brought on the most wonderful human being (and dating novice), Megan. Kit, Megan and I talk about putting yourself out there, and the pain of flirty first impressions.

How much do you know about BDSM? Do you think it's the dark world of sex that only the brave and masochistic dare to go? Well this week on Not So Sexy™ our guests give us the break down of BDSM. We find that it's a community of people that deeply care about consent and communication.         

Breakups are hard, Katie makes them easier.   

Do blue balls exist? Can HIV get through condoms, are married couples having less sex? All these questions and more we answer this week on our Sex Myths  episode.    Thanks to everyone who send us their myths.    Check us out via these social media feeds  Email -   NotSoSexyPodcast@gmail.com Twitter - @WeKnowItsGross Facebook -  https://www.facebook.com/NotSoSexyPodcast/ Make a donation to Not So...

This week Not So Sexy brings on Joyce to talk about her experience being pregnant and being into porn.    Check us out via these social media feeds  Email -   NotSoSexyPodcast@gmail.com Twitter - @WeKnowItsGross Facebook -  https://www.facebook.com/NotSoSexyPodcast/ Make a donation to Not So Sexy - PayPal.me/notsosexy  

There are SO  many ways to stay safe before, during, and after sex and we talk about all of it! This week we bring on the lovely Kate Rose to talk about her experiences using the pill and contraceptives.    Email -   NotSoSexyPodcast@gmail.com Twitter - @WeKnowItsGross Facebook -  https://www.facebook.com/NotSoSexyPodcast/ Make a donation to Not So Sexy - PayPal.me/notsosexy    

WE. ARE. BACK! Season two mofos! We brought Charles into the studio to talk about Red Flags. These are the things we should take notice of from the people we're dating, like being SUPER IN LOVE WITH Vin Diesel.    Check us out on Twitter @Weknowitsgross Check us out on Instagram at NotSoSexyPodcast You can make a donation to the show at Paypal.me/NotSoSexy  

Have you been caught? This is our final episode of season one of Not So Sexy. We talked about that very human activity,  masturbation,  with Bernard. He's a really great human and has touched himself, a lot.  Get in touch Facebook - We love when you message us your stories.  Twitter - Tweet at us @weknowitsgross Gmail - notsosexypodcast@gmail.com    

Have you ever done something gross during sex? So gross that it shut it down? Well you're not alone. We brought Sid into the studio to tell us his gross and poignant story about love, acceptance, and vomit. Warning: This episode is kinda gross and heartwarming all at the same time.    Don't forget to rate us on itunes! We need those sweet sweet likes. 

Did you ever walk in on your parents having sex? So did we!  This week we bring in Carlo to talk about being a parent and the struggles of finding time to get nasty when you have children running around opening doors all willy nilly.  As always you can connect with us on  Facebook , email us at  NotSoSexyPodcast@gmail.com , or tweet at us @WeKnowItsGross.  Don't forget to rate us on itunes! We nee...

Oh man. Sex Ed, what a time to be in school. Seeing the inside of your parts, seeing the inside of other people's parts. Learning about how your body changes and why it's going to be even grosser.  We brought on Daria, Duria, Dilza? And Rob to talk about their sex experiences. We also recorded this the week before the election so our political commentary might be a little dated.  As always you can...

Shame, hoohah, what is it good for? Absolutely nothing. Get it! Like the song... Whatever, you get it. This week we bring on Jodi and Brandon and talk about the shame and embarrassment we felt around sex, our bodies (of course), and everything else.  As always you can connect with us on  Facebook , email us at  NotSoSexyPodcast@gmail.com , or tweet at us @WeKnowItsGross.  Don't forget to rate us o...

Who is the winner when it comes to a breakup? (Hint, not us). This is a special episode. Kit and I sat down with each other and talked about some significant breakups in our lives and how they've affected us. We also talk about that classic idea that there are winners and losers at breakups.    As always you can connect with us on  Facebook , email us at  NotSoSexyPodcast@gmail.com , or tweet at u...

What did you wish you had known before you had sex?  We bring in Logan and Darian this week and probably like you, were totally unequipped with before we started having sex. So many emotions, so many fluids. Who knew! We didn't...   As always you can connect with us on  Facebook , email us at  NotSoSexyPodcast@gmail.com , or tweet at us @WeKnowItsGross.  Don't forget to rate us on itunes! We need...

This week we brought on Ainslie and Ken to discuss when they feel sexy. Ainslie has some experience in that arena as she was a former stripper and Ken, well he's a fuck machine (his words, not ours...ok ours).  Feeling sexy is how we look at ourselves and how we're treated by others. Shocker? Probably not.  As always you can connect with us on  Facebook , email us at  NotSoSexyPodcast@gmail.com ,...