Pati Kostecka

Not So Obvious with Pati Kostecka

Education EN ↓ 3 episodes

Hi, I’m Pati, and welcome to Not So Obvious — the podcast where I share the lessons I’ve picked up along the way, the ones everyone else seemed to just… know, but somehow never felt obvious to me. These are my reflections on life in all its messy, beautiful, and surprising forms. My hope is that in hearing my stories, you’ll find a little entertainment, a bit of clarity, some peace of mind — or simply the feeling that you’ve got company on your own journey.

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Pati Kostecka

Episodes

Seeing Others With Empathy 26.02.2026 20:24

In today’s episode, I talk about learning to see others with empathy while still protecting your own boundaries. I explore how our past experiences shape the way we judge, trust, and react to people — and why understanding ourselves is the first step to truly understanding others. Book mentioned: The Next Conversation by Jefferson Fisher

Why You Need to Fail More 12.01.2026 19:47

In this episode, I unpack why failure isn’t just okay — it’s necessary, and why your willingness to fail might be the most important skill you’re not practicing. There may or may not also be a Shrek metaphor that somehow ties it all together. Side note: Yes, the camera decided to drift out of focus — which honestly feels pretty on-brand for today’s topic 😂 Books mentioned: The Mountain is You by...

Welcome to Not So Obvious 03.01.2026 0:28

Welcome to Not So Obvious with Pati Kostecka! I’m so glad you’re here. Let’s navigate this complicated thing called life together.