Not Saving It For Later - Guiding Women Through Divorce & Beyond

Season 2 Episode 9: Money & Mindset: Starting Over After Divorce What if the biggest thing standing between you and financial freedom isn't money at all? What if it's the story you've been telling yourself about money? In this conversation, Hannah sits down with entrepreneur, financial planning expert, Strategic Coach mentor, and single mom turned self-made success story, Colleen Bowler. After...

Season 2 Episode 8: The Dangerous Side of Selflessness For years, Kimber Hardick did everything she thought she was supposed to do. She was a wife. A mother. A helper. A caretaker. The person everyone could count on. From the outside, her life looked successful. Inside, she was disappearing. In this deeply honest conversation, Hannah sits down with author, speaker, and educator Kimber Hardick to t...

Season 2 Episode 7: The Secret To Making A Blended Family Work Everyone wants the blended family to feel like a family immediately. But that's not how real life works. In this deeply personal episode, Hannah sits down with her husband, Drew Bell, to talk honestly about what happened after the engagement, the wedding, and the excitement wore off. How do you actually blend a family after divorce...

Season 2 Episode 6 : How to Spot a Narcissist What if the problem wasn’t that you were too sensitive… …but that you were being taught to doubt your own reality? In this episode of Not Saving It For Later, Hannah sits down with retired clinical psychologist Dr. Kerry McAvoy to unpack one of the most misunderstood and overused words in modern relationships: narcissist. Because not every difficult pa...

Season 2 Episode 5: Are Your Kids Being Used as Weapons in Your Divorce? High Conflict Divorce Explained What happens when divorce stops being about resolution… and starts becoming about control? In this  episode of Not Saving It For Later, Hannah sits down with psychologist Dr. Mary Alvarez to unpack the painful reality of high conflict divorce and custody cases — and the devastating impact confl...

Season 2 Episode 4: What If the Good Stuff Scares You Too? You expected divorce to feel hard. What you didn't expect is that the good stuff on the other side might feel scarier. Tah Whitty is back for season two — nurse, healer, men's work guide, and one of Hannah's most trusted people. In their first season conversation he pulled a thread that wouldn't let her go: the part of her,...

Season 2 Episode 3: The Invisible Prison Most Married Women Don't See. If you've ever felt vaguely exhausted in your marriage but couldn't quite name why — walking on eggshells, repeating the same arguments, somehow still the one carrying it all — this conversation is going to put words on it. Abby Eckel is one of Hannah's favorite follows online. She talks about domestic labor, th...

Season 2 Episode 2: People Pleasing Is the Highest Form of Lying. If "I'll just do it" is your default — at home, with the kids, at work, in your marriage — this is the conversation that's going to wreck you in the best way. Marla Mattenson is Hannah's longtime coach, friend, and one of the most quietly brilliant people she's ever worked with. Former math teacher, doula, body worker, executive coa...

Season 2 Episode 1: I Had to Lose Two Marriages To Learn How To Love Myself If you've ever walked out of one relationship straight into the next and wondered why it started to feel familiar — this conversation is for you. Amy Edwards is the host of "Anything But Mid" and "The Amy Edwards Show", an author, and a musician who looks nothing like the version of "in her 50s" most of us were sold. She's...

Ep. 12 Love After Divorce: Blending Families, Choosing Again, and Not Saving Life for Later (Featuring Drew Bell) In this deeply personal episode, Hannah Hembree Bell sits down with her husband, Drew Bell, for an honest conversation about love after divorce, building a relationship inside a ready-made family, and what it really means to choose each other—again and again—after everything has fallen...

Ep 11. What No One Tells You Before Filing For Divorce (featuring Christopher Anderson) In this grounded conversation, Hannah sits down with one of her closest advisors and longtime family law attorney, Christopher Anderson, a man who has spent decades inside the systems most people only encounter on the worst days of their lives. Christopher has prosecuted domestic violence and sex crimes in the...

Ep.10 When It’s Not Abuse… But It’s Still Not Right ( Featuring Kole Whitty) What if the most dangerous place to stay is the one that looks “fine”? In this episode of  Not Saving It for Later , Hannah sits down with Kole Whitty for a conversation about divorce, identity, desire, and the moment a woman realizes she can’t keep betraying herself to keep the peace. This episode is for the woman who is...

Ep. 9 Do You Want Justice… or Do You Want Peace? (Featuring Sam Colletti) Hannah sits down with Austin family law attorney and mediator  Sam Colletti , a trusted colleague and longtime friend, for a ground-level conversation about  what mediation actually is , what it isn’t, and why so many people misunderstand their options during divorce. This episode pulls back the curtain on the divorce proces...

(featuring Steven Bradley, “The Tech Cowboy”) Hannah sits down with former FBI investigator and certified “Tech Cowboy” Steven Bradley — a digital safety expert who has seen every trick, trap, and tech-enabled manipulation used in divorces and abusive relationships. If you’re anywhere near divorce — contemplating it, in the thick of separation, or rebuilding after — this episode is a wake-up call...

Episode 7. Dishonesty Is Killing You: How to Stop Abandoning Yourself(featuring Tah Whitty) In this raw conversation, Hannah sits down with one of the most singular humans she’s ever met:  Tah Whitty  — former trauma nurse, impossibility alchemist, and the man people go to when they’re finally done lying to themselves. Tah has worked in emergency rooms, with elite performers, with couples on the b...

Episode 6. The Truth About Men, Money & Moving On (featuring Holly J. Moore) In this honest, no-fluff conversation, Hannah sits down with powerhouse California divorce attorney Holly J. Moore — the woman who has seen  everything  from celebrity splits to the emotional landmines women walk into without even knowing it. Holly represents high-net-worth clients, professional athletes, and a whole...

Episode 5: Becoming the Woman You Were Always Afraid to Be (featuring Lily Shepard) In this powerful conversation, Hannah sits down with somatic executive coach Lily Shepard to talk about identity, the body, divorce, desire, and what it really means to become the woman you were meant to be. Lily shares her own traumatic divorce experience, how identity collapses when the “wife” role disappears, an...

Episode 4. The Money Talk Women Were Never Given: Why Divorce Blindsides Even the Smartest Women (featuring Sara Glakas) In this practical conversation, Hannah sits down with financial educator and advisor  Sara Glakas  — founder of Black Barn Financial and the Austin Women’s Investing Group. She is a long-time advocate for helping women build confidence around money. If you're navigating divorce,...

Episode 3. Your Triggers Aren't The Problem... You Are (featuring Casey Shipp) In this no-filter, no-bullshit conversation, Hannah sits down with her mentor, coach, and full-blown spiritual defibrillator,  Casey Shipp  — the woman Hannah calls her  string bikini shaman  and one of the biggest influences in her own evolution. If you are in the middle of a divorce, thinking about leaving, or sta...

Episode 2: Losing Yourself Trying To Be The Perfect Wife: How Good Women Get Lost In The Wrong Roles “You’re not broken. You’re beginning.” — Hannah Hembree Bell In this unfiltered conversation, Hannah sits down with her longtime friend and former client Amanda Diehl — a mom of two, twice divorced, and proof that sometimes the life you want is on the other side of the one that broke you. Together...

“You are worthy because you exist. Later is a lie.” — Hannah Hembree Bell This first episode of  Not Saving It For Later  sets the tone for everything to come. It’s for women who are  thinking about divorce ,  in the middle of it ,  on the other side , or simply  stuck in the “medium suck” of life —tired of pretending everything’s fine and ready to start again. Hannah shares why she started the sh...

I’m Hannah Hembree Bell — divorce lawyer, divorced mom, and woman who rebuilt from the wreckage. This is  Not Saving It For Later , the podcast guiding women through divorce and beyond. Launching November 18th — because later is a lie.