(Not Quite) Losing It Podcast

Y’all, we made Brynn draw! This summer, we’re releasing a mini-episode each week. Each will be 20-30 minutes, with a creative challenge and a little bit of chit-chat. If you want to join in on the creative activity, grab a pencil and print out this worksheet . (Or, just draw 12 circles on a piece of paper) The first couple of exercises this summer are inspired by the New York Times 2025 creative c...

We did it! We made an entire season of Not Quite Losing It. A pretty impressive accomplishment considering 6 months ago we had no idea how to make a podcast. In this Season 1 finale of Not Quite Losing It, we revisit the goals we set for ourselves back in Episode 4, recorded a thousand years ago. We talk about the challenges of balancing projects with everyday life and the significance of small wi...

This episode’s a fun one, especially if you’re a sucker for a little nostalgia. Listen for mentions of Ann M. Martin, Louis Sachar, and the great Kate Baer (who is one of our creative-mom heroes), alongside our reminiscing about puff paint, severed hand props, and dads diving head first into the baptistry. We all can think of dozens of artists, writers, teachers, musicians who helped shape the kin...

Y’all, starting this week we have video! (Skip to 38 seconds if you want to see our smiling faces after the intro graphics!) This week, we’re talking about creative failures, and man… do we have some to share. Sometimes you have to laugh or cry, and this episode, we may have done a little of both as each of us revisited some of our most notable creative failures, from empty journals, to very earne...

Isn’t it wild how lonely you can feel, even when you’re never actually alone? Parenting can be so isolating. All three of us have gotten relief from that loneliness through different creative communities we’ve found (or created for ourselves): writing critique groups, pottery classes, twitter sub-cultures, text threads, and collaborating on this podcast. This week, our Good Fight Spotlight feature...

Many creatives use social media as their primary way to connect with inspiration and to find an audience. But… how can we make our phones creative tools instead of the place where all our discretionary time goes to die? The short answer? Just be more intentional and less impulsive. Easy, right? 😅 We definitely don’t have it all figured out, but we’ve got some good ideas worth trying. This week’s...

We definitely don’t want to be like those parenting books that tell you what you’re doing wrong (which you already knew), but don’t offer any practical advice on how to actually make changes. In this episode, we compile a bunch of actual road-tested strategies to squeeze creativity into the nooks and crannies of our busy lives. We hope some of what we share will be helpful to you, and we would lov...

Wrapping your entire identity in motherhood isn't good for you or your kids. So why do we still feel so bad when we make time to be our own person? Here’s a little excerpt from our discussion: Melissa: What does it mean to be a woman? To be an ambitious woman? To have hopes and dreams and goals in addition to loving being a mom? Brynn: Just being a mom does not fully satisfy me. I want to do thing...

Our expectations for ourselves need to take into account to the real constraints of our current season of life. At the same time, if we wait until “things calm down” to start prioritizing our creative selves… it might never happen. So where does that leave us? Basically, we argue that it’s going to look different at different stages of life, but no matter how busy you are, you can find ways to aff...

In this episode, we decide that tying success to external outcomes like wealth or fame is a recipe for unhappiness. We discuss what our goals should look like in general, what kind of guidelines we should set for ourselves, and discuss our own specific goals. The homework for this week is to think about and write down specific, attainable goals for your own creative endeavors. Good-Fight Spotlight...

In this episode, we discuss the idea that while most folks can run, at least a little bit, not everyone considers themselves a runner. How does this compare to creativity? Do you have to be “successful” at some kind of art form to consider yourself an artist or a Creative (with a capital C)? Homework: Make a list of ways you’ve used your smart brain to make things better. Consider how you’ve alrea...

Brynn brings us an article that examines the important role of creativity in mental health: https://www.theatlantic.com/ideas/archive/2024/06/tchaikovsky-cure-anxiety-creativity/678786/ The three of us definitely agree with the importance of having those creative outlets, but lament how hard it is to prioritize that when there are so many other demands on our time. Homework: Reconnect with your cr...

Get to know your hosts! Hear a little about the wild weeks we had leading up to our first recording, then around 14 minutes, we jump into what brought us together and what we hope to accomplish. This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit notquitelosingit.substack.com