Not Getting Dressed

Send us Fan Mail As we stand here on the cusp of summer, which feels like we've already been in  for a year, aka 3 weeks, we toy with what option would be better. Would life be better if we could fully unplug like our 90s childhood or is it better to track our teen locations and their macros? We talk, how to bait Katie out of a depression, how thin will always haunt us, 90s or not, the bush i...

Send us Fan Mail Back from a two month hiatus, buzzing from a psilocybin mircodose patch and an actual vacation, Katie and Jamie talk about being the Executrix of life, the tease of Alberta spring, asking for help, a few fabulous birthdays and a honouring a beautiful life lived.  Side note: Katie still likes City and Oatmeal, Jamie still likes to talk about orgasms.   https://www.instagram.com/not...

Send us Fan Mail In our first official episode of Seasons 2 of Not Getting Dressed, in the dark dredges that are the end of January in Alberta, we are tucking into cheap red wine, our unmanicured fingernails, New Year's resolutions, birth stories and the tricky business that is motherhood and gay hockey TV shows.  There is a smash or pass for all of us in this episode; enjoy and welcome to Se...

Send us Fan Mail Slathered in goat cheese, dripped in honey, layered in black mesh and with a complete set of the most outrageous nails, join KK and J for a fire side old fashioned mid-November catch up. Tonite we are using everything we have in our tool kit to prepare for, survive and actually enjoy the end of 2025.  We cover our fall fashion must-have's, gift giving and have a look at how w...

Send us Fan Mail Back at Katie's Diner this morning to debrief on recent birthdays, the teachers strike, how the world feels like it's on fire these days and money. We're here talking about what are your non-negotiable things when you need to stretch a buck? What are the things you can leave behind and the things you need to keep going. For J it's butter, coffee dates, cheap Tu...

Send us Fan Mail From babies to babes. We had our second guest last night to record Episode 12. It’s a ‘Coaches Corner’, if you will. There’s a bff competition (bit grim), some discussion around mental health and dissecting a few stigmas, how to spot an online dating red flag from a mile away, and finally, a little moment for our Oilers. Coach McCrea, you were a delight. https://www.instagram.com/...

Send us Fan Mail Join us as KK voraciously kills fruit flies hovering around LadyJ's pitcher of Long Island Iced Tea, in the heated end of summer. Where we wrap up some of our highs and lows, including encounters with Moose, skunks, and mice, matching power striped outfits. An honourable mention to KK's very own 'Cheers', aka Superstore. In closing, we have high schoolers now a...

Send us Fan Mail Just two gals. Catching up on the highs and lower highs of summer 25. Making an Aperol Spritz live for you. Sharing our big highs, Jamie’s 14 day nun-hood and unpacking the art of being bored. We are learning the way, inspired mostly by renaissance women laying with at least one tit out and being fed grapes. Let’s master this art.  https://www.instagram.com/notgettingdressed?utm_s...

Send us Fan Mail While it seems impossible to have rage on the eve of Game 2 of the Stanley Cup Finals in Edmonton, rage still becomes her in this episode. KK says "yes ma'am" to Ekholm, she's done her research and she unequivocally agrees, he would indeed pull your hair. We discuss the sting of ex-husbands not communicating when they get engaged, rage about lives and experienc...

Send us Fan Mail After a month hiatus full of lifes ups and downs, we're back. In this episode we recap our very different holidays, if that hockey player would pull your hair, and if you can name 10 diets you've been on. We share on how with age, it gets more difficult to drop the pounds, harder to find a fuck to give, but a little easier to love yourself. https://www.instagram.com/notg...

Send us Fan Mail K and J cozy up fireside (dog included—consider yourself warned) with mocktails to tackle "faking it." They explore people-pleasing autopilot mode that sacrifices oneself to keep everyone else happy. Plus: kissing 101, their recent dopamine purchases, binge-worthy shows, and life-changing tip of the week for when friends are up against it: "Just drop off the bagels...

Send us Fan Mail Here we are. Another Sunday morning, checking in from Jamie's kitchen. Today we host our first guest who's now (as of this week) very close friends to both of us. Queen Em is here from the UK, with loads of insight on relationships, a 3 step practical sex life, the lukewarm Canadian sports scene and how if they ever divorce, it will be due to their dogs. It's light...

Send us Fan Mail In this episode, we rip the covers off "Dr." Jamie's not-so-guilty favourite topic. We know it, you know it, no shame here, it's sex. Katie has test anxiety from failing the 11 types of orgasms quiz. Plus, we're unpacking those sexual shame landmines planted in your childhood that still explode at the worst moments.  We talk everything from choreplay, tant...

Send us Fan Mail February's finale is here, and after a day of hardcore adulting, K and J are spilling all the tea. From their post-therapy wind-down rituals to eye-rolling at the audacity of men, these two don't hold back! They're diving deep into how they're finally dressing exactly how their younger selves always dreamed (hello, revenge fashion) and the delicious journey of...

Send us Fan Mail In this quieter kitchen bar conversation, we double down on the realities of grief and losing a parent, pour one out for our fallen leaderboard champion (sleep tight, sweet Zaddy), and learn why bombarding one of your single best friends with romantic charcuterie thirst traps is definitely not the move this Valentine's. https://www.instagram.com/notgettingdressed?utm_source=i...

Send us Fan Mail This week, we’re diving into the realities of dating in your 40s – the highs, the lows, and everything in between. We talk about the challenges of the local dating pool, the lessons we've learned, and how we keep moving forward. If you're in the same boat, consider this your reminder to keep swiping, take a pause when needed, and always honor the girl code. Plus, a littl...

Send us Fan Mail Coming from -20 degrees on a Saturday night in our robes from Jamie's kitchen, in this episode we go through our wins of the week, but more importantly we dig deep into what a win is and finding the wins in what a societal norm might view as a loss. For a dose of fun we unpack a terrible date and discuss if we will ever share a bedroom with anyone other than our dogs again.  ...

Send us Fan Mail In this first episode of Not Getting Dressed, you will hear about how we met. We cover everything from kinder mom PTSD, far too many years that we lived apart, and you will experience first hand the authenticity and humour that make us up. Trigger warning: Jamie's hound throws up near the end. It's a bit rough around edges, but ready to go, just like us.  https://www.ins...