Not Cha Momma Pod

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Jay is the Founder of Childfree Wealth, a life and financial planning firm dedicated to helping Childfree and Permanently Childless people.  He is the author of the book “Portraits of Childfree Wealth,” and his work with Childfree financial planning has been featured in The Wall Street Journal, MarketWatch, Business Insider, Kitces.com, and more. Find more online - https://childfreewealth.com

This is the ULTIMATE catch up episode where NCMP chat and laugh.  What could be better for the first episode of 2023?  As we reflect, we also point out on how we've grown and deserve to find happiness in our lives.  Here's to 2023.  Thank you for a second year in your ear holes.  We are honored to be here. 

The NCMP team catches up after a break from recording.  They provide updates on their mental and physical health.  

Melissa is the host of The Cycle. Endometriosis Podcast and has helped Endo Warriors share their experiences for years.  Kailey even joined her pod back in September of 2021 to share her journey.  Episode can be found here, https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-cycle-endometriosis-podcast/id1448598831?i=1000535648940.  Melissa has provided such a platform for community and the Not Cha Momma po...

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Aimee is one of the NCMP pod's Infertile Myrtles.  She is the most kind and caring human with a always needed splash of humor.  Aimee was kind enough to join the pod to share her endo and infertility journey.  We love her so very much and are honored to have her on the show.  Trigger warning, Aimee talks about depression and  the feeling of not wanting to continue living.  If this episode is trigg...

Lj joins the NCMP to discuss her Endometriosis journey and her career as an endo coach. Like, share, and follow us on IG @notchamommapod and tag us in the movement challenge with the hashtag #movementmedicine. DM any gentle corrections or email us at notchamommapod@gmail.com. Anchor listeners - leave us voice messages at https://anchor.fm/notchamommapod/message.

The NCMP pod discusses how worth and purpose is redefined during infertility.  We are left questioning and at times, advocating on what our legacy will be. Like, share, and follow us on IG @notchamommapod and tag us in the movement challenge with the hashtag #movementmedicine. DM any gentle corrections or email us at notchamommapod@gmail.com. Anchor listeners - leave us voice messages at https://a...

Meet Natalie! A kween with a smile that makes you remember happiness should be given in this life. Natalie was kind enough to join the NCMP from across the pound (twice!) to talk infertility and illness. We hope you enjoy this unique episode as much as we do. Thank you for sharing your raw and powerful truth Natalie! Like, share, and follow us on IG @notchamommapod and tag us in the movement chall...

Zada, @zmoney_fit on IG, joins the NCMP to share her endo journey and help us further discuss painful sex for endo warriors.  Trigger warning, the content within this episode is heavy and discusses religion, sexual abuse, stigmas, and depression  Thank you for being so candid and open with our family Zada.  We are honored and appreciate your honesty and truly believe by doing so, you are helping o...

Painful sex is a common side effect for Endo Warriors, but it is not solely tied to Endometriosis.  Actually, there is a diagnosis for 'painful sex' called dyspareunia.  In this episode the NCMP cast discusses our understanding of why painful sex may occur and their discuss our personal experiences.  Look out for part 2 in two weeks where Zada shares her story and experiences with p...

The NCMP reunited and it felt so goood!!! In this episode we gain an update on Betsy’s health and Kailey talks about her trip for excision, the surgery day, and her recovery. Follow the excision journey on IG @journeytofixmyladyparts. Excision guide coming soon! Like, share, and follow us on IG @notchamommapod and tag us in the movement challenge with the hashtag #movementmedicine. DM any gentle c...

Pre surgery date Kailey and Betsy discuss the journey to get a surgery date and what feelings are arising! Follow the excision journey on IG @journeytofixmyladyparts. Excision guide coming soon! Like, share, and follow us on IG @notchamommapod and tag us in the movement challenge with the hashtag #movementmedicine. DM any gentle corrections or email us at notchamommapod@gmail.com. Anchor listeners...

The NCMP and Andrew discuss how THC can help chronic illness and potentially impact mental illnesses for people. If you’ve been curious about cannabis, this is the episode for you! Listen to Andrew’s podcast, Seed and Stems, on all steaming platforms and follow along on his IG @seedandstems_kc. Like, share, and follow us on IG @notchamommapod and tag us in the movement challenge with the hashtag #...

@missconception coach posted a powerful question recently, ‘what do you wish people wouldn’t assume about infertility trauma & loss?’ We invited her on the pod to discuss this campaign and the NCMP shares their wishes with you. Follow and join the campaign on IG @missconception . Like, share, and follow us on IG @notchamommapod and tag us in the movement challenge with the hashtag #movementmedicin...

Kimberly is known on IG and YouTube for her CHILDFREE content. She was kind enough to join the NCMP fam to further discuss the spectrum of some non parenting adults. She is an absolute gem and is one of our favorites at educating the masses while making you laugh. Thank you so much for joining us. Follow Kimberly @kimberlyfisher.cf and on YouTube - https://m.youtube.com/c/ChildfreeKimberly. Like,...

The first weekend of June of 2022 was a big deal for the NCMP. We packed up and flew to Myrtle Beach to enjoy our first Kidfree Women’s Trip! Today we share our interviews of the women that made it and share how this experience was so impactful to our lives. 🐢 Follow her on IG @ourstoryunfolding. Like, share, and follow us on IG @notchamommapod and tag us in the movement challenge with the hashta...

Nick is a fellow Endo and Adeno warrior. She has survived infertility and is now embracing life post a hysterectomy. Most importantly, she a part of the Infertile Myrtles and has became a close friend to the pod. Follow her on IG @ourstoryunfolding. Like, share, and follow us on IG @notchamommapod and tag us in the movement challenge with the hashtag #movementmedicine. DM any gentle corrections or...

The first of the Infertile Myrtle Series!  Anya was kind enough to join us to speak about her journey with infertility, her beliefs, and her future goals to have a nonprofit. The NCMP pod was honored to hear her story and we look forward to the first of many kidfree retreats coming in June of 2022. ⚠️trigger warning ⚠️ Anya’s story includes items like infertility, miscarriages, sadness, and s...

Nikki joins the NCMP pod to discuss her journey as a birth mom and adoption. Thank you for graciously educating us on the spectrum of the adoption world. We hope you enjoy. Follow Nikki @Nikkinowknows. Like, share, and follow us on IG @notchamommapod and tag us in the movement challenge with the hashtag #movementmedicine. DM any gentle corrections or email us at notchamommapod@gmail.com. Anchor li...

The NCMP record in person for the first time and share the benefits their relationship has provided them. They also discuss the need for friends that understand your life with infertility and/or chronic illness. Like, share, and follow us on IG @notchamommapod and tag us in the movement challenge with the hashtag #movementmedicine. DM any gentle corrections or email us at notchamommapod@gmail.com....

NCMP talks the spectrum of Kidless and Kidfree and why it matters.  As always, we're raw with our experiences, our beliefs, and how we've been supported to gain more awareness.  Like, share, and follow us on IG @notchamommapod and tag us in the movement challenge with the hashtag #movementmedicine. DM any gentle corrections or email us at notchamommapod@gmail.com. Anchor listeners - leave us voice...

Jim is Kidfree by Circumstance. He is also the amazing husband to our very own, Betsy. Ying to her yang- these two not only have amazing chemistry that will keep you laughing, they’re also able to be real with their struggles of not being able to have kids and finding kidfree happiness. Big thanks for being on the pod Jim! Like, share, and follow us on IG @notchamommapod and tag us in the movement...

Crystal Chen, @goddessfitogy, is a holistic life coach for Baddies. She was kind enough to join the NCMP to discuss EFT Tapping. Emotional Freedom Technique is an alternative acupressure therapy treatment used to restore balance to your disrupted energy. We do a live mini session on air to address our emotional pain from infertility. Please join us at the 21:07 minute mark. We’ve also posted a sma...