Not Another Marriage Podcast

We talked about a bunch of different topics, and we laughed a good bit. Today is a little bit of this, a little bit of that, and a dumb quiz from marriage.com. Oh, and we had an unfortunately long conversation about exploding birds.

Creating, promoting and protecting the peace in your marriage, family, and your home is oh-so important. But how?? Well, lets talk about it!! Side note-I can admit when I'm petty, and I am feeling pretty petty today- and it shows! Place your bets, good people. Did he fall asleep without his mask, or want to watch a movie, but fell asleep instead? Or, BOTH? -LC

Conflict doesn't sound fun- and frankly, it usually isn't. BUT it can be constructive. Embrace the conflict and GROW! Also, this episode starts with a little diddy from Ben! Who knew he had such talent!

How is your health in your marriage? We often focus on our mental and spiritual health, but it gets a little taboo when it comes to physical health (as in, Ben will never tell me I can't eat a Little Debbie, even though he probably should). Is physical health important in your marriage? Let's talk about it!

At some point in your marriage, you are going to encounter something that cannot be fixed. Whether it is a betrayal, a health crisis, a financial issue, or any myriad of issues that might come up- you have to stop and think "is this even fixable?". And sometimes, the answer is NO. So what's next?

I can admit that I've felt stuck in my marriage. Actually, for the first time, on this podcast...I admitted it. So where do you go from there? Can you unstick yourself? If so, HOW?? How do you get from I'm stuck to "you and me baby, we're stuck like glue". BONUS- chatting about aliens, a visit from Bigfoot. NEED YOUR HELP- We realized we don't have a 'thing'. We n...

We had to take a little time off to spend the last few days with my dad as he transitioned to eternal life. And as hopeful as it sounds to state it that way- it really, really sucks. Here, we discuss how you can support your spouse in their time of grief- and we unpack a little bit of my own grief. Forever a daddy's girl, Leah

We all have baggage of some sort, don't we? It's not about the bags, its about how we deal with our baggage. What baggage did you bring into your marriage? What baggage are you trying to hide? Are you comparing those bags? Let's talk about it.

Are you looking for a sure-fire way to sabotage your marriage? Go ahead and think of some expectations, and DON'T communicate them. Better yet, make sure they're unrealistic! For real, though, expectations can kill any relationship quick - they're premeditated resentments. And...tune in for my true confession (it's me, Leah! I'm confessing to...)

Prioritizing your marriage sounds great- until you throw kids in the mix. Then, prioritizing your marriage sounds controversial at worst, and counter intuitive at best. But, you gotta do it! Listen up as we chat about it.

Sometimes, the advice you get is soooo bad it's good! https://www.marriage.com/advice/relationship/worst-marriage-advice/ and turtles having sex, as promised- https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7rE_FG2xauA

Forgiveness is vital in life, and in your marriage. Whether it is for a major infraction such as infidelity or one of the million little interactions gone awry, forgiveness in your marriage is important. Listen in as we set out to discuss and manage to work through a few of our own areas of bitterness. Buckle up- this one is a long one!

How exciting that we're talking sex on the big one - OOOOHHHHH! If you've been married and around the church a minute, you've heard "the marriage bed is undefiled". What does that mean other than some christian-ese brag about a night full o' fun? What does defile the marriage bed? Is there a sex act that is a big no? Let's talk about it! Oh, and here's a little Ha...

I found a great article with funny marriage advice- check it out! We'll discuss these little nuggets and what we think you should keep and what you should chuck. What would you keep? https://www.marriage.com/advice/relationship/funny-marriage-advice-finding-humor-in-commitment/

Today we're talking about communication- Had a great chat with a friend and listener about her journey to learning how to effectively communicate in their marriage. If you are married, you are in a constant process of learning how to communicate effectively with your spouse. We bumped our heads a bunch in these 17+ years, but this week, I think we're doing pretty okay with communication. N...

We finished off the not-so-great week with a "Date Night" at our church where we got to hear from Marriage Pros Dave & Ashley Willis! Check them out- https://www.daveandashleywillis.com/podcasts They're legit the cutest! Let's discuss what we learned!

Can these 36 questions lead you to love? Join us as we play around with the questions guaranteed to lead to love. I found it funny that after 17 years of marriage- we're having a hard time answering all the questions! p.s., my hand is okay. Check it out here: https://www.womenshealthmag.com/relationships/a40273625/questions-to-fall-in-love/

Who your friends are not only shapes us as individuals, but it will shape your marriage, if you allow it. Join us as we discuss our friendships over our 17+ years of marriage. Learn the friends to keep and the ones to send packing.

What role should your parents have in your marriage?   But first, let's talk about a boyfriend on a Performance Improvement Plan...

Leah's fantasy is apparently hot guys doing dishes, laundry, or vacuuming.  And there's that time she wanted to smack her husband for sleeping.  How was your Valentine's day?  Oh, and toilet paper.

Who are we exactly?  Listen in to find out a little about us! Leah & Ben