Nigerian In My 20s

Heavy stuff. Yes, that’s all. It comes in 3 parts because I kept adding to the episode. Also, I sniffed a lot because it’s morning & I have asthma mahn…clogged airways. Please help me to manage🙏🏾

Warning ⚠️ My eyes got blurry with tears while preparing for this & my heart broke over & over as I recognized some things. I’m doing this for those of us who are confused as to why we act the way we do. Doing this for acceptance, love & healing. Childhood trauma, impact & ways to heal. Cheers xx

Hey there! Got my 2nd dose of the vaccine about a week ago & I documented my reactions to it. Plus, spilled a little tea about being a great friend and person in general. ⚠️⚠️ I WENT THROUGH VARIOUS EMOTIONS IN THIS EPISODE. It’s like the weirdest thing ever😂✨✨

So you’re in your 20s yeah? Okay, so here’s 5 relatable dilemmas we all have faced at one point or the other & the “dark” choices we may have to make.

Aka Weray dey Disguise! Hey You, did you miss me? No? Ugh, never mind that. I’m here again with something that affects all of us regardless of gender. People that like you & pretend to be your friend instead of coming out straight. Listen, talk let’s know what exactly you want because pretending won’t get anywhere except earn you disdain & distrust from the person🤷🏾‍♀️

On today’s episode, my friend Dayo takes over the reins of my podcast & I become the interviewee😂 I’d like to maintain that I SAID WHAT I SAID & that’s on P for Period❤️🗣

Yup...you read right. This is an episode about mangoes & the role genotype plays in relationships but yeah Mango🥭

“Sugarbaby”, “Sugardaddy”, “Gigolo”, “Old Cargo”, “Gold Digger” etc are a part of the many words used to describe people in relationships with older or younger people. Should Age really matter in affairs of the heart? Does a huge age difference play a major role in relationships? Are the concerns of family & society grounded in some unspoken rule? Many questions I try to unpack in this episode...

This is me checking in & testing the mic I abandoned months ago.

Everyone has things they look out for in a partner before getting into a relationship but how about you shelve those & open yourself to other people in the dating pool?

Ever heard of the phrase “Love Language”??? Well, this is a beginners guide to this interesting concept & the important role it plays in relationships🙂

Pained? Heartbroken? Sad? Crying? Tired of the flashbacks? Don’t let the pain push you into becoming a bully on the internet. It may seem like a good idea but it is not. It takes you back on your healing journey, makes you look extremely foolish & incapable of emotional control.

I called some of my friends to borrow me N50,000 ($129) & I died from their reactions😂

Just before you sign up to be taken fi idiat & cruise, here’s what you should think about *eyes wide open

That tweet you saw that annoyed you, do you need to react? Is it necessary to react?? Ask yourself. Why don’t you feel the need to protect your peace on social media? There are the “block” & “mute” buttons to sanitize your TL, so use them instead of engaging in meaningless word war with strangers! Also, forgive me for the mouth sounds😖 but the meat was giving me life, hence the inspiration to rec...

18 mins of catching up & jokes🥴😁 (NETWORK WAS ACTING UP & IS RESPONSIBLE FOR THE LAPSES YOU MAY HEAR)

We are tired of living in fear. We are tired of being objectified. We are tired of being told that we could have prevented it. Not SLUTS. Not OBJECTS. Not PROPERTIES. Just WOMEN. #justiceforUwa #justiceforBarakat #justiceforJennifer #justiceforTina

It’s okay to opt out of a relationship that you no longer excites you. It’s NOT okay to remain in one that you want out of & continue to inflict pain on the other party. In this episode, I’m for the Men who have been hurt by the ladies (they loved) who couldn’t be honest with them.

In this episode, I try to unpack the impact of lies in relationships (keyword: TRY😁🙋🏾‍♀️

A few instances where they lied and they were caught!

just a sad Corona reality rant

Is Marriage the scariest institution right now or are people just getting the fundamentals wrong from the beginning??

Amidst turning a new age, adulting right and finding a purpose for myself, I’m forced to face harsh truths about being Young, fresh out of Uni and being Nigerian.

From an abnormal growth to going under the knife... Here’s an experience I would NEVER forget.

A brief summary of why I had to take time off to regain my cheerful spirit after camp and the one thing I learned from the entire experience.