Nigerian In My 20s

May ends and I am sat with a semi buzzed Aisha to discuss the life, men, books and life as a Nigerian youth in Nigeria now. Do not forget to connect: IG - @withloveoj Tiktok - @withloveoj Happy listening! ❤️

April stole from me & I want to scream!!! But I won’t…here ********* Hey my pookies!🌚 Do you like it or I should kai?😅 Anyways, April in May ending…I know but when you listen, you will understand. Thank you for always sticking with me, I promise to be better as I navigate through this difficult phase❤️

31st March 2025 : The first episode of the year and Shame wear me two-piece😭 But like I said, I’ve been choosing peace and living life one day at a time lest I crase🧍🏾‍♀️

A cool Saturday night, Pink Gin, Lemonade and Tonic Water and my favorite girl! She gives an update on Lagos dating and Nysc camp while I add semi drunk comments. Nothing serious just two tipsy best friends and a mic…🤣🤣🤭

September episode in October, who else can?✨✨ I sat with You in this episode to discuss a few observations I’ve made about us and I’ve come to the conclusion that people-ing might not be my strongest attribute! I don’t know about you sha unless you tell me in the comments😂🤭 ✨Connect with me ✨ IG : https://www.instagram.com/kymahthis?igsh=cHhmMnV0eXQxM2c5&utm_source=qr TikTok : https://www.ti...

Hey guys! Aisha sat with me to give an update to her last episode here. This update was very necessary for all my single girlies who listen to the #DIL series. It highlights her growth and realizing that dating is challenging and maybe taking a back seat while your Eleda/ Chi works it out is not a bad idea.😉😉 Enjoy! Connect with me. IG: https://www.instagram.com/kymahthis?igsh=cHhmMnV0eXQxM2c5&u...

Hi my beautiful babes! This is dedicated to every one of you who listens to me. I hope you learn a thing or two, love yourself more & learn to see people for who they are. I’m not perfect but circumstances have made me learn about humans earlier than the average Nigerian girl. That being said, stay safe & I love you. xoxo babes🫶🏾🤍✨

April & I sat with my childhood friend to bring you some tea, laughs, little trauma and hot swear for who?!? Lagos men! Get ready, it’s a rollercoaster!😂😂 connect with me on IG & TikTok @kymahthis❤️

Hey hey! I know it’s March but I can explain😅😅 My Shege of the year came early and I had to unplug literally from everything. I’m back though & BETTER! Your gyal is a warrior👸🏾. Connect with me: @kymahthis on IG & TikTok✨✨

I dislike how we have no control over what happens to us as children because those experiences form the core of who we are as adults. It’s hard to unlearn these behaviors & learn healthier habits. However, if we choose to remain the same person, to what end?

This is life lately & a bit of why I have been absent on here. Anyways, cheers to a better mood & a wonderful year ahead! All of us looking for love, may we find & may it be secure, warm & wonderful!🤝🏾🫶🏾 IG & TikTok:@kymahthis PS: I like TikTok now😂😂, original content platform!

Yup, you read right! Skincare abi you hate yourself? I think the funniest people are those who believe beauty is fair or light skin. Please educate yourselves & follow @theskinpriest & @iameniolao, they are doing the job of educating people on how to care for themselves properly. A word is enough for a smart human. Ire o❤️

“Felizzz na dee dad! Panpan! Felixxxx na dee dad! Tantan! Prosperous wonder Felixx see dad” Jingu bell greetings my lovessss! As you can tell, this is a Christmas episode. I’m sharing tips to surviving Christmas & Black Friday because if you spend all your money in Dec, Jan is 31 days long! Don’t over swipe or do “savings or current”. And you better have segtual activities responsibly, I don’t kno...

The year is winding up & what better way to end it than me b*tching about how terrible adulthood & family is? Enjoy✨💕

“When we marry, our kids will be smart” said a man that I just met last week. Sir, disappear in my front! Nobody is desperate for marriage here plis🙏🏾 Shine your eye dears, love bombing is a manipulative tactic to push you into a toxic relationship. Dira!!!

Hey! Been long you saw me but na Lagos cause am. I’m not describing much here, just know that the dating pool is nonsense. Doings from there should not shock you🌚…btw, I just remembered the white toad I saw is called Tadpole😂😂. Anyway, listen & be blessed😁😁

Update ooo…shine your eye! Dating a Lagos person is not for the weak my love😩 There are sooo many concepts & what what that they’ll try to use & chop you or your money. My love, SHINE YA EYEEEE🫂🥲

Healing is not a straight path & I just realized it. Vulnerability is not a weakness. Admitting that you’re slipping & asking for support from friends is not weakness. Healing is messy & by all means, take your sweet time Baby❤️ BTW, Love you Precious💕…thank you for love letter😁🥺❤️

Hi guys! First off, I used my mic wrongly and all the sounds are so loud. I’m so sorry🥲😭 Plus, send me love msgs so I can add to the beginning of episodes naaa🥺🥺🥺 Anyway, did you guys get the update??? Bambiala is now a personality trait. Material gurlllllll…purrrrr isonuuuu😅 Who needs to work when you can be billing men on the internet? Abi?? Anyway, please share your audacity plugs with me...

Chitchat about my small wakawaka in Lagos & where I’ve been😅

In a society where we are conditioned & groomed to be mothers & wives, choose to be more! Explore, travel, live independently, date for the fun of it, go on unplanned weekend trips, girl trips etc before choosing to share your life with another person. You’re young only once…enjoy each year! Make money & spend it too! Save! Just be independent & happy Baby because marriage comes with responsibilit...

First episode + where I’ve been🤷🏾‍♀️ Woh, I’ve been in the city, doing omoluabi tings ni…no vex❤️ Also, new soundtrack, who dis?! HAPPY NEW YEAR LOVES✨✨🎉

Selected four things running through my mind to share with you❤️

A total but somewhat entertaining mess. An attempt at playing music & talking…sorry, A FAILED ATTEMPT.

Answering the epic questions “why are men so emotionally laidback & insensitive?” & “why are women so dramatic & sensitive?”, I give you an insight into why we seem so different despite being human beings with almost the same organs😂😂…enjoy xx❤️