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Caller Questions: How can we help our 15yo niece who is cutting?  I take care of people for a living but struggle with overeating.  Is it better for me to stay away from my verbally and physically abusive birth mom? Should I continue with my Zoom Sustained Victory Group after Every Man’s Battle or do an in-person group? I want to get out of my isolation and reach out to others.  How should I...

Caller Questions: Can you help me? I had gastric bypass 16yrs ago, have gained some of the weight back, and have anxiety and depression.  How does bipolar disorder and borderline personality disorder connect with spiritual warfare? A family member has been diagnosed with them. 

Caller Questions: How do I help my 8yo daughter who has started worrying about dying?  I worry that people at my work are talking about me; what should I do?  I attended Every Man’s Battle and have made a huge turnaround!  We don’t allow our 12yo son to do sleep overs, but he wants to go to school camp. How do we process our decision? 

Caller Questions: Dr. Henry Cloud talks about his new book Trust.  How do I overcome my trust issues in my relationship with my mother whom I am a caregiver for, as well as dating relationships?  I have trust issues with myself because of my bad choices; how do I develop trust in myself so I can learn to trust other people? 

Caller Questions: Dr. Henry Cloud talks about his new book Trust  How can I trust God if I question my salvation? I have bad thoughts, anxiety, depression, and health problems.  My adult son died from drug abuse, and we gave my adult daughter an eviction notice because she’s using drugs; how do I get that trust back? 

Caller Questions: Dr. Henry Cloud talks about his new book Trust .  Am I ruining my life because I don’t want to trust again? When I was married, I tried to be everything my husband wanted me to be, not what I wanted.  I’m separated from my wife because I’ve done stuff online and she has accused me of looking at her daughter the wrong way; how do I deal with her trust issues? 

Caller Questions: Dr. Henry Cloud talks about his new book Trust   Why do some people trust too much and get repeatedly hurt and in trouble?  When I have family members who have let me down or hurt me, how do I determine if I can trust them again? 

Lysa TerKeurst , author of You’re Going to Make It: 50 Morning and Evening Devotions

Caller Questions: What can help me endure my hypnic headaches that interrupt my sleep and the emotional pain from it?  How do I move forward to love my adult son who says he’s gay?  My late wife blamed me for our problems, but our psychologist said she was a narcissist and blamed her.  What can I do to help my 23yo daughter dating a man who hasn’t had a steady job in 3yrs? She doesn’t...

Caller Questions: My wife doesn’t want to be intimate, and I’ve turned to looking at porn. What do I do with my sexual desire?  How should I move forward in a biblical way with my 32yo daughter who is going to work at Planned Parenthood?  My wife of 51yrs passed away 4yrs ago, and I still miss her terribly.  How can I help my daughter-in-law who lives with us? My son passed away from c...

Caller Questions: My 39yr old son lost his money in crypto and is living in a campground in Mexico. Should I lend him money for a computer? Should I keep giving money to my youngest daughter and her husband? I don’t want to enable them.  How can I help my 32yo daughter who married a man who won’t pray, read the Bible, or go to therapy? Also, his family are hoarders.  My wife divorced m...

Caller Questions: How can I keep from losing myself as my husband is in recovery for a porn addiction and can’t stop glancing at women?  My adopted dad passed away; how do I deal with him being gay and not be traumatized by it?  I don’t want to be in my marriage because my husband of 9yrs is clueless about how to handle a Christian marriage and says the disconnection is my fault. 

Caller Questions: What do I tell my almost 18yo son who has been sending sexual text messages to his girlfriend?  I am a people pleaser; can you help me when I run into issues with strong individuals?  How can I get my wife to go out and do fun things with me despite our illnesses? She has fibromyalgia and I have COPD.  I struggle with people pleasing and tremble when I get into a hard discussion...

Caller Questions: Is there a long-term facility that my 34yo son can go to for schizo-affective disorder? It’s like living with Dr. Jekyll and Mr. Hyde.  How much space do I give my 23yo son who won’t speak to me? My 20yo daughter uses marijuana.  After 18yrs of a dysfunctional marriage, my husband is leaving me. I used to be addicted to pain pills, and I’m having a hard time.  I love...

Caller Questions: How do we have a relationship with my entitled stepdaughter that doesn’t involve money? She has been estranged for 15mos.  What should I do if I don’t condone my sister marrying her girlfriend, but she asked me to stand up for her?  As a single mother, how do I talk to my 14yo son about sex? 

Caller Questions: Julie Sharber, New Life Health Coach, talks about why someone should get help for their health.  I’m mentoring a woman whose 12yo daughter is cutting herself; how can I help her?  My husband has been a sex addict for 20yrs and in recovery. I found out he was unfaithful again; is there hope?  How do I deal with rage toward my roommate who has a drug problem? My stepbrother j...

Caller Questions: My stepbrother has created problems in the family since my mom passed; does God want us to go ahead with executing her will?  After retiring from the military, my faith is tearing our family apart. How do I get closer to my sons?  Is there something I can do for my son whose wife says she no longer loves him?  I am distraught seeing my wife in constant physical pain; what more ca...

Caller Questions: My husband died from cancer 6yrs ago, and he never told me about watching porn which I learned about from my brother. How do I forgive him? Should I be worried about a loved one getting into heaven?  What resources do you have for affordable Christian counseling? 

Caller Questions: What can I do if my husband of 11yrs punches the wall above me and I have to walk on eggshells around him?  How do I have a conversation with my husband about his emotional affairs, not continuing in counseling, and not showing any remorse?  How can I take care of myself without enabling my angry husband? I am disabled and in a wheelchair.  Am I disappointing God by respecting my...

Caller Questions: How do we respond to my son-in-law who wrote a book berating our whole family?  The last 5yrs when I travel with family, I have to be the one driving. What can I do about it?  Why would my 20yo granddaughter with ADD accuse her boyfriend of abusing and cheating on her? Is it for attention?  How can I help my depressed boyfriend who lost his job and is home all day?  My ex-husband...

Caller Questions: Does the Lose It for Life intensive look at underlying issues to eating?  My son has challenges with his rebellious 13yo daughter who lives with her grandmother.  How do I trust my husband who continues to enable my bipolar daughter against my wishes?  My 18yo daughter lost her life to cystic fibrosis, and I don’t know if she was saved; is she in heaven?  What can we do to help m...

Caller Questions: My son is trying to walk away from the Christian Faith. What do I do?  My dad is getting married to a woman I don’t want around my kids. How do I still have a good relationship with my dad?  How do have a better relationship with my distant older brothers?

Caller Questions: When my daughter’s lesbian partner died, she moved back home. Now she is in a new relationship and is hardly home; what should my husband and I do?  My 86yo mother has a caregiver, but my sister takes over every time she visits. How can we handle her?  How can I honor my aging parents who have been horrible parents my whole life?  I’ve had claustrophobia for most of m...

From the New Life Live! archives, this Flashback Friday show originally aired on March 7, 2008 Caller Questions: I’m in recovery for past abuse; how do I manage my physical signs of stress?  I recently found out my dad is not my biological dad; what should I say to him?  What is the best way to heal from condemnation from others for my past sin?  After multiple miscarriages, I can’t fa...

Caller Questions: My husband of 19yrs confessed he had an affair with a man and won’t stop.  Where do I go from here if my adult daughter is dying and I can’t go see her because of a court order?  How do I stop checking my husband’s phone after he had an emotional affair with a coworker?  Before my grandkids went to college, I drew up a contract for them that funds would stop if they were involved...