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Caller Questions & Discussion: Dr. Sheri explains how co-regulation is experienced as we share our story or become a safe place for others to share. When we share what’s really going on, we regulate our nervous system, reduce isolation, build emotional intimacy, and discover our feelings. I’ve struggled with anxiety and fear for six years after I started having intense dreams. When I tri...

Caller Questions & Discussion: Dr. Jill discusses how a bench she had was worn down by water dripping over time. Unfortunately, her dad sat on it and fell. She asks, “What pours into your life? What’s the constant drip in the back of your mind? Are they negative thoughts?” I’ve suffered with depression for 14 years and have tried to commit suicide 11 times. What can we do to help my 11-year-ol...

Caller Questions & Discussion: Dr. Jim discusses a conversation he had with Dr. Neil Clark Warren, founder of eHarmony, who said that if he could give one gift to every couple on their wedding day, he’d give them the gift of “adaptability” because you have to adapt to your spouse’s differences. Ask yourself if the difference really matters. Should I step back and ignore...

Caller Questions & Discussion: Chris discusses how fear can drive us in the wrong direction. It moves us away from facing the reality of the uncomfortable life we experience here on earth. Suffering is one way God uses to form us. My 6-year-old grandson might have ADHD; yesterday, he threw a brick at the dog. What should my daughter and son-in-law do? Our 18-year-old son was brought up as a Ch...

Caller Questions & Discussion: Dr. Lee Warren, a neurosurgeon, shares how he served in the Iraq War, came home with PTSD, and lost his 19-year-old son to a crime that was never solved. He later saw a live brain scan of a woman who was asked to think different things, and he could see her brain react. He was able to make a shift in his own thoughts to heal his brain from trauma. What’s th...

Caller Questions & Discussion: Marc shares some things that couples can do to make a simple shift to transform their marriage. For every negative, you need at least five positive comments or interactions to balance it out. Pray every night, even if it’s a simple prayer. How can I represent Christ well as a female business owner? I run a business out of my home, and I always practice evangelism...

Caller Questions & Discussion: Dr. John Townsend discusses the three programs at Townsend Institute for Leadership and Counseling, which are designed for people who work full time. My 12-step group has been studying Boundaries for 6 years; what is the best book for our next group study? Last night my 18-year-old son confessed that he’s addicted to porn and contacted a prostitute and I do...

Caller Questions & Discussion: Becky shares that many of us aren’t truly free, but there are steps we can take to declare our independence and move toward freedom spiritually, emotionally, and mentally. How can I help my adult children reconcile with each other? My daughter told my daughter-in-law every hurt she’d ever caused, and my daughter-in-law called me and yelled at me. I’m in min...

Caller Questions & Discussion: Dr. Jill shares the story of a wedding she went to over the weekend of a couple who had wandered away from their faith and families. If you’re a parent, remember that God is still at work in your child’s life. What can I do if I have a hard time making medical and dental appointments? Feelings from my past sexual assault keep coming up. My husband went on a train...

Caller Questions & Discussion: Dr. Alice shares three effective ways parents can help children develop self-control, especially with technology. “My 34-year-old son is a Christian, but he is in a relationship with a girl who is Jewish and is not a believer.” “I just had a baby and we’ve started setting healthier boundaries with my husband’s parents. We told them n...

Caller Questions & Discussion: Dr. Jim discusses relationships that derail because of conflict. The conflict dance starts with tension, and can spiral downward with defensiveness, or it can be positive by going to “we” and leading to connection. Do you think it would be helpful if callers asking for advice would start with repentance? My brother is a bully and I set boundaries at a...

Caller Questions & Discussion: Dr. Jim talks about creating a media-safe home. Is technology use, especially social media, bringing your family closer together or farther apart? I have two estranged adult kids. I set some boundaries and now I can’t see my grandkids. Should I try to make amends with them? My fiancée’s brother is a drug and alcohol abuser, he is in and out of rehab and won’t get...

Caller Questions & Discussion: Dr. Jacqui encourages us that it’s not too late to start over again when you’re older. Some of the teachings in our new church make me uneasy and anxious; my 20-year-old daughter is dating the pastor’s son. Is my issue with the church or with me letting go of my daughter? How does one move from shame and guilt over past mistakes? How do I accept...

Caller Questions & Discussion: Dr. John discusses the three programs at Townsend Institute for Leadership and Counseling. A 19-year-old boy from my youth group has lived with me for four years, along with other kids. He is extremely traumatized and shut down after witnessing his grandfather murdered by his dad; how can I break through to him? My wife has invited some of her family to live with...

Caller Questions & Discussion: Marc shares about Father’s Day and estranged children. Ask yourself, “Can I accept who the other person is and not who I would like them to be, and can I make that first move towards peace?” I was estranged from my 22-year-old son for over 2 years, and now we’re reconciled. Don’t give up–pray! I moved back to help my elderly dad who has cancer. I haven’t spoken t...

Caller Questions & Discussion: Dr. Sheri shares that her mother recently got an infection after surgery, and a nurse recognized her and shared that she had been listening to New Life for 30 years! It was an answer to prayer for God to send someone to take care of her mom. Should I give my friend more time to reconcile with her daughter? She set boundaries in their relationship because she felt...

Caller Questions & Discussion: Dr. Jill discusses the book of Habakkuk and trusting God’s timing. God often takes longer than we expect, but He is never late. My 28-year-old daughter and husband have both been diagnosed with depression and anxiety. They spend so much time on their screens. How do I know when their mental health struggles are legitimate concerns versus excuses for excessi...

Caller Questions & Discussion: Becky discusses how she just went to the optometrist for a new prescription, and it reminded her of change. The optometrist said not to switch back to old glasses. If you’re not seeing things clearly, it’s worth doing things you might not feel comfortable with to get to the other side. Why do I feel guilty to divorce my husband of 8 years who has a newborn baby w...

Caller Questions & Discussion: Dr. Alice discusses a new term, digital dementia , which shows how excessive screen time can negatively affect the brain, even in young people. What can we do? She shares 3 ways parents can teach their children self-control and healthy screen habits. How do we help restore the relationship between my 24-year-old stepdaughter and my husband? He wasn’t able to help...

Caller Questions & Discussion: Dr. Alice discusses a time when her husband was younger and took psychedelics and experienced demonic activity, then she shares more about her newest book, 100 Days of Biblical Family Engagement . I’ve struggled with anxiety my whole life, and it’s getting worse; how can I become free so I don’t pass my anxiety onto my kids? There are times when...

Caller Questions & Discussion: Becky talks about how to move out of the state of denial. When we stay in denial, we discount what God has done and what He is going to do. Lamentations 3:22-23 is a great truth to hold on to. I have had depression since childhood because my mom committed suicide when I was 12. Even though I see a counselor, I don’t have any relief because I look around and see p...

Caller Questions & Discussion: In today’s world, with so many voices, Becky asks: who are we believing? Let’s go to God’s Word first and believe what we read. My dad gets angry with my mom when she doesn’t spend time with him during our trips to Europe to visit my mom’s family. Is there anything I can do? Should I confront my husband if he lied to my 21-year-old daughter after she asked him if...

Caller Questions & Discussion: Dr. Alice shares about her newest book 100 Days of Biblical Family Engagement and the power of reading the Bible together as a family—how it can draw us closer to God and strengthen relationships at home. How do I navigate heavy emotions while struggling with infertility? My husband had an affair during our separation, and we both acted out sexually. Now we’re tr...

Caller Questions & Discussion: JJ shares that when you “delight yourself in the Lord, He will give you the desires of your heart” (Psalm 37:4). God places His desires within you and brings them to fruition in His timing. I just attended Every Man’s Battle, and my biggest takeaway is that I need to connect with God, myself, and other people. One practical way I’m doing that is through journalin...

Caller Questions & Discussion: Becky shares that June is Men’s Health Month, highlighting how many common myths can prevent men from seeking help for mental health challenges, emotional health struggles, and relational issues that deeply impact families. My friend told me that my husband might be a narcissist. He likes to be left alone, doesn’t do much with the kids, and likes to keep stuff ev...