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Caller Questions & More: Becky talks about National Grief Awareness Day on August 30th. I’m in a wheelchair and can’t get out; how do I get food after leaving prison last week? My verbally abusive husband days he’ll stay married to me, but only if I’ll have sex with him even though it’s painful for me. What do I do if my husband of 28yrs is emotionally disconnected and can’t see what he’...

Caller Questions & More: Dr. Jacqui talks about letting others share their perspective without telling them they are wrong. I haven’t been able to reconnect with God after my mom passed away 8 years ago. Can I ever come back from feeling my marriage is over? My husband acts like a teen boy, and I don’t deal well with boundaries. Why do I let people take advantage of me? Should I go back to my...

Caller Questions & More: Dr. Alice discusses how to transform your anxiety struggles into success by connecting with God and safe people. My wife and I have been separated for 5yrs; any recommendations on us trying to give it a go again? We adopted our great-granddaughter when she was born a meth baby; what can we do now that she is 3 years old and screams and hits me? How do I manage feelings...

Caller Questions & More: JJ discusses three ways you can become part of a healing community by doing and not being. How can I deal with my angry, narcissistic, 34-year-old daughter? I lost my 47-year-old son 9 months ago, and I feel like I just got the news yesterday; is this normal? My husband and I haven’t been intimate for 15 years because he doesn’t want it and he’s alway...

Caller Questions & More: Marc encourages couples to tell the story of their love for one another to rekindle their marriage. How do I move forward if we just had our 35th wedding anniversary, but our divorce is almost final? What should I do if I am extremely anxious over my neighbor cutting down some of our bushes, and the police won’t do anything? How can I balance working full-time an...

Caller Questions & More: Dr. Alice shares how anxiety is like a cold and needs comfort, challenge, and a medical evaluation. Every Man’s Battle was life-changing for my husband, and our intimacy has never been better! Does my 18yo daughter need to know that her father and I were sued by her sexual abuser? She was abused when she was 13yo. Should I get a counselor, do a New Life Online Course,...

Caller Questions & More: Dr. Jill discusses how to set boundaries by stating your preference and if they don’t respect it, get firmer. I am concerned about my 26yo daughter-in-law who is not functioning since she didn’t qualify to graduate from nursing school. My wife’s father molested her, and it is affecting our marriage greatly. I am physically disabled; what do I do now that my...

Caller Questions & More: Dr. Jim discusses how letting go of your need to be right will help your relationships. What do you recommend for my shy 14yo granddaughter who is changing schools and struggles to make friends? How do I handle my brother who lives with my mom and always takes her side? What do I say to a church member who reacted very strongly to me after I addressed her regarding hur...

Caller Questions & More: Chris explains what it means to be a benevolent witness. How do I help my 36-year-old daughter who’s being physically abused by her husband? I lost my savings helping my 54-year-old son who’s homeless and I can’t stop sending him money. There’s no place for my son with special needs to go after he was in a car accident, and he has PTSD. What can I do if my...

Caller Questions & More: Dr. Alice discusses adult children cutting off their parents. How do you get through your mom taking her own life? I was just 12 years old when I lost my mom. Am I wrong to cut off a parent who isn’t a good person to have around my children? How do I handle our two children cutting us off and not even knowing the names of our grandkids? Are my adult stepchildren dishon...

Caller Questions & More: Marc shares how having the right type of emotional tolerance shows maturity. My husband revealed he went online and shared sexual videos of me and him; should I believe him that he hasn’t had an affair? Since I had a disorder in childhood and the doctor told me I wouldn’t live that long, I still struggle with procrastination as an adult. What suggestions can I ma...

Caller Questions & More: Becky announces the new New Life website is launching today! Kissing my wife is like kissing a mannequin because she doesn’t really like it. My son struggles with substance abuse, and I track him by using a phone app; is this the right thing for me to do? What kind of advice can we give my 30 year-old daughter who has high-functioning autism and recently met a man onli...

Caller Questions & More: Dr. Jim shares three simple things that he and his wife did that changed everything in their marriage. I called you in February about my husband kissing another woman and wanted to share about how much you’ve helped me through your intensives! How do I deal with my 25 year-old son who lives with me but won’t clean his room and refuses to leave? I have a lot of resentme...

Caller Questions & More: Chris discusses four steps to focusing on your Internal State. I have bipolar disorder and I depended on my mom who died 2yrs ago; how can I keep working if I try to work but get filled with dread? My son is facing incarceration and wants me to check with his maternal grandparents to see if it would be okay for him to send letters to his 16 year-old son at their addres...

Caller Questions & More: Dr. Alice discusses the importance of boundaries and why it’s okay to stand up for yourself, even if you felt unworthy in childhood. I am 53 year-old and my covert narcissistic mom won’t talk to me because of something my husband said to her. My husband of 12yrs committed suicide, and I wonder what could I have done differently? Should I send a letter to my estra...

Caller Questions & More: Dr. Sheri discusses why someone may try to love bomb you. I’m 48 year-old and am happily married with kids, but my younger sister always holds things against me. I’m married to a younger woman and have given her everything, but she is not affectionate. Is the man I’ve been dating avoidant if he’s cut me off twice? We’ve been enabling our 37 year-old daughter; what do b...

Caller Questions & More: Chris discusses being overwhelmed with information and how being rooted in love will guide us. How do I help my 28 year-old son who lives at home, has depression, and threatens to kill himself? I have nightmares from my betrayal trauma and they’re getting worse; how can I minimize them? My 29 year-old son told me that I am the root of his problems; do I back off from c...

Caller Questions & More: Dr. Jacqui shares Scriptures that talk about calming anxiety through prayer and meditation. How do I deal with feeling guilty when I am successful or experience joy? People around me seem jealous. My son died from fentanyl; how do I improve my relationship with my 9 year-old grandson’s critical mom? My family tells me my retired aunt who lives alone is toxic; how...

Caller Questions & More: Dr. Jill discusses how we’re all called to do something each day to help ourselves or to help others. How can we help my 32yo niece who is a parent and may have mental illness? My mom makes me feel like she doesn’t care; how can I trust her if I’ve been diagnosed with mental illness? I’m 77yo and my adult kids haven’t spoken to me in the 12yrs since my felony convictio...

Caller Questions & More: Marc discusses neuro pathway building which makes learning to use your non-dominant hand possible with practice. How can I coparent my young kids during this transition of getting divorced last month? I have two children with autism, and having a non-verbal 14yo autistic daughter has been very hard. Any tips to stop feeling like my relationship with God is at a zero? D...

Caller Questions & More: Dr. Jim discusses imperfect marriages and “Don’t tackle someone wearing the same jersey.” How do I help my 18yo grandson who is living with me? He got arrested last week, uses marijuana, and he’s staying with me because he has no place to go. I suffer from avoidance behaviors and the most challenging is avoiding going to the doctor. My last kid is lea...

Caller Questions & More: Dr. Jill discusses how our childhood shapes our attitude and our attitude shapes our future; take time to reflect and look inside yourself. I let my dad live with me even though he denied abusing me when I was a child. How do I stop having nightmares after he died? My parents died 20yrs ago; how do I forgive my dad for sexually abusing me and my mom for not believing...

Caller Questions & More: Becky discusses the markers we put in our lives to remind us of the hurts and issues that need fixing. What do you need to go back and repair? How do I deal with my Bible study partner who asks me invasive questions? I’m 65yo and married to a narcissist; how do I live my best life with him? Am I committing adultery by getting remarried? My ex-wife left me and tr...

Caller Questions & More: Chris explains why Philippians 4:13 is the most misunderstood verse in the Bible. How do I honor God and deal with ending the relationship with my borderline and narcissistic mom? Because my parents were dangerous, I haven’t seen them for 20yrs; how do I handle reconnecting again? I’m 66yo and feel embarrassed that I’m stuck; my dad was unreliable, and I still s...

Caller Questions & More: Becky shares how the weekend went at Intimacy in Marriage in Washington, DC. I divorced 20yrs ago, and my ex lives in my basement. I forgave him, but how do I forget? My sister goes to a church where a couple lost two daughters and parents in the Texas flood; what book would be helpful for them? My husband is an agnostic and his brother’s 19yo son committed suic...