Negotiations Ninja Podcast

The 2020 negotiations with China, prompted by tariffs levied by the United States, is a public demonstration from which all of us can learn. Both parties have distinct approaches to negotiation that inform how they have positioned themselves and neither party wants to lose face on the world stage. It's not only a clash of world powers who have very different goals, in many ways, it is a clash of c...

Terrorists are one of the most violent and unpredictable groups in the world, and nobody can speak to the devastating consequences of failed negotiations with them better than Cal Chrustie. Likewise, there's no one better to teach us how to make the most out of those failures.  Cal served for 34 years with the Royal Canadian Mounted Police and has also served as a Negotiations Mediator for the Uni...

My guest on this episode learned effective negotiation in the trenches, working as a hostage and crisis negotiator. But don't let the fact that his negotiations often happened in life and death situations convince you that his experience is worlds apart from whatever it is that you do. It's not. What he learned in that high-pressure environment transfers across the board to every discipline. You c...

Negotiation Lessons From The Field, with Gary Noesner, Ep #119 Many times the hardest negotiation lessons to learn are hard because they are painful. Those learned in real-life failed negotiations can be among the most valuable. The Waco Siege of 1993 stands out as one of the most tragic and mishandled negotiations in American history. Many observations have been made about what happened there, bu...

Negotiation is one of the most overlooked things in the lives of entrepreneurs. There are many reasons for this, which we'll get into in this episode, but suffice it to say that when entrepreneurs don't learn how to negotiate well, lots of money is left on the table. To discuss this issue I asked my business coach, Marty Park to give us an overview of the issue. Marty has built businesses from the...

2019 was brimming with excitement at  Negotiations Ninja . Fantastic discussions on the podcast, exciting content on the blog, and exceptional experiences training and coaching have made it a big year. We're looking forward to integrating everything we've learned through these incredible experiences and moving forward into 2020.

The end of each year brings an opportunity to reflect on our achievements before beginning new adventures. 2019 has been amazing: The Negotiations Ninja podcast made the number one negotiation podcast in the world. First-rate guests have been essential to the podcast's success.

Business negotiation, whether carried out by small, medium, or large business personnel, is a skill that must be developed. But small and medium business approaches to negotiation need to be better informed if they are to succeed when competing against the larger companies. My guest on this episode, James Orsini, brings a wealth of insight to us through his experience as an agency leader and from...

One of the most plentiful commodities available to anyone who wants to learn is the wisdom of others in our field. As negotiators, we need to avail ourselves of this amazing resource every chance we get. This episode is filled with pearls of negotiation wisdom from my friend, the one and only Marty Latz. You're going to hear Marty's personal and career negotiating successes as well as some situati...

Nobody would assume that crisis negotiation is easy, but few of us truly know just how hard it is. My guest on this episode, Mark Lowther, is one of those who know the reality first-hand. Mark's diverse catalog of experiences ranges from serving in the United States Marines to two Metro SWAT teams where he was involved in and all levels of negotiations, including the first known hostage negotiatio...

For procurement and other contract-related roles, there has never been any kind of contract playbook that new people to the profession can look to for guidance. The wait is over. This episode of Negotiations Ninja features co-authors Jeanette Nyden and Lawrence Kane who have quite literally just written the book on the subject. "The Contract Professional's Playbook" is now available on Amazon and...

Negotiation has been happening since the beginning of time and every one of us negotiates with others all day, every day. Those who are masters at negotiation have learned from all those years of experience, they apply the old school techniques to their current situation. Ed Brodow, the guest on this episode, has been negotiating and teaching negotiation skills for over 32 years. His old school ap...

Wouldn't it be great if you could receive a personal guide to negotiation from an experienced, wise negotiator who is proven to be successful? That's what you'll get when you listen to this episode.  David Meltzer is a philosopher, business coach, entrepreneur, and so much more, including an amazing negotiator. He grew up poor and thought money would bring him happiness, so he pursued sports (he w...

As we are all aware, every conversation, not to mention every negotiation, has much more going on under the surface than is easily seen by observers. Detecting deception, both manipulative and unconscious is part of what makes great negotiators outstanding. Dr. David Matsumoto specializes in understanding facial expression and trains negotiators, sales professionals, and leaders of all stripes how...

One of the reasons I'm happy to have someone like Stephen Kozicki on the podcast is because he brings an entirely different perspective to the process of negotiation through his approach to creating and discovering value. Stephen takes a very data-based, provable approach that serves incredibly well because it removes egos from the process and demonstrates tangible outcomes that offers of lower pr...

  Procurement chains become increasingly complex the larger an organization becomes, which means that many gaps occur that cost the organization money rather than saving it. Valuable, cost-saving data is missed or lost, processes are elongated, and inefficiencies grow. A.I. and Machine Learning are tools that can be used to address these issues and many others. It's up to us as the procurement pro...

The negotiations process can seem mysterious and difficult to those looking on from the outside, but Mike Caro says that it's made up of the same principles and psychological dynamics that everyday life situations contain. Interestingly enough, Mike has developed that belief as one of the world's foremost authorities on the game of Poker. It's a tremendous offer to be able to present this conversa...

Everyone involved in sales, procurement, or negotiations of any type needs to develop the influencing skills that make them effective. We are all influencers in one way or another (for bad or good) and intentional focus on making those innate skills work for us can have great results. Shane Martin reached out to me because he has found that the same influencing skills he uses in his sales career a...

If you haven't heard Molly Bloom's story you're missing an incredible lesson in overcoming adversity. You could say she made her own bed—and she'd agree with you. The legal trouble she got into bears it out as well. What did she get into hot water over? She was involved in organizing and managing high-stakes poker games for high-profile and high net worth individuals and she stepped over a legal l...

Stan Garber and Alex Yakubovich have sought venture capital financing more than once and each time they've done it, the stakes have been higher. Their most recent round of investment for Scout RFP has drawn the attention of companies like Workday and Salesforce. That's not only a huge boost of confidence for them but also a good sign of how effectively these two guys are at building the relationsh...

There are few people I know who are as competent and smart about how the negotiation questions we use impact the way the conversation goes than Dan Oblinger. Dan's experience as a hostage negotiator coupled with his drive to understand the impact of deep listening is at the root of this superpower. He's a fount of nuanced knowledge and he shares it so generously during this conversation. We talk a...

  It's an extreme pleasure to speak with a person as thoughtful and well-versed in topics pertinent to negotiation as Robert Greene. He's a prolific author who's penned works that inform and highlight the timeless principles behind great leadership, power, and influence. In this conversation, we discuss why power is not always built on bad motives, why using misdirection and masked intentions can...

The skills required to be a great negotiator are also powerful tools in the arsenal when it comes to getting the meeting with the decision-makers on your list of prospects. Both require savvy, knowledge, and people skills that go beyond the ordinary tactics most salespeople and negotiators are willing to employ. Stu Heinecke explains how those who are willing to go outside the normal channels and...

When you hear the term "social hacking" you might think of a covert, manipulative way of prying into someone's life. That's not at all what we're talking about when we apply the term to negotiation. Social hacking is an approach to information gathering that comes from the discipline known as "Social Engineering." That's a field that my guest, Chris Hadnagy has become known for. Chris is the CEO,...

The science of influence is fascinating. It's one of the ways those of us in procurement or involved in negotiations can learn to be better at our craft. This episode features author and speaker, Roger Dooley who I asked to teach us what science teaches about influence, and how we can use it to get better deals in our negotiations. Roger explains how to practically apply neuroscience, behavior tec...