Needed Conversations with Ryan and Viktoriya Cole

In this episode, titled "Balancing Act: Strategies For Managing Your Household Well," we explore practical strategies for maintaining harmony in your home. This is in our latest series where we're discussing the 7 habits of an intentional couple. Most people don't realize how pivotal this will be in marriage, but communicating and allocating household responsibilities can be a bi...

In the first episode of our new series, "The Intentional Couple" we are talking about the importance of having a marriage built on a common mission. Do you have a vision for your life? Have you and your spouse written a vision together? Well, we are going to help you to do just that! Throughout this series, we are going to be discussing the intentional habits of healthy couples. From def...

In this episode of our podcast, we continue our series on breaking down the communication barriers in marriage. Today we're dealing with PRIDE! The ultimate goal of communication in marriage is for the couple to get to the place where they are dreaming together. But how do you know the difference between a dream that is from you and a dream that's given to you by God? Well, we're going...

In this captivating discussion, we draw inspiration from the timeless story of Esther to reveal key insights and strategies for navigating the most daunting obstacles in your marriage. Join us as we dive deep into the remarkable narrative of Esther, a courageous queen who faced immense challenges and emerged triumphant. We unpack the wisdom and principles embedded in her approach, exploring how yo...

In this episode, we delve into the biblical concept of women being described as "weaker vessels" and explore its true meaning and significance. Join us as we debunk misconceptions surrounding this phrase and shed light on the inherent value and worth of women in the eyes of God. Also, we will dive into the fascinating realm of gender differences in communication and how men and women pro...

In this episode, we dive deep into the biological and social differences between men and women, and how understanding these differences can help improve communication and emotional connection in your relationship. We share practical tips and insights for developing emotional intelligence and bridging the gap between spouses. Whether you are newlywed or have been married for years, this episode is...

There are certain conversations that are just really challenging to have as married couples. So much so that most people avoid them. In this episode of our podcast, "Needed Conversations," we talk through the 4 most challenging conversations couples can and should have with one another. We give you practical strategies on how to have these hard conversations and talk about how different...

In this episode, we discuss how your posture toward your spouse can affect how well you communicate with your spouse. Learn how approaching your conversations with a friendly mindset, rather than an adversarial one, can transform your marriage and enhance your connection with your partner. Support this podcast by giving to our ministry at https://www.ryancoleempowerment.com/giving Get the marriage...

In this episode of our podcast, we dive into the transformative power of intentional communication in marriage and how sitting down at the table can be a game-changer. We share practical tips and insights on how to create a space in your home where a simple table transforms into an altar for your marriage. The powerful act of sitting and even eating at a table is all throughout scripture from the...

Communication is one of the biggest challenges for married couples. When coaching couples, we find that this is probably the source of all of their issues. In this new series, we're tackling this topic head on and this first episode lays the foundation. If you're going to communicate effectively with your spouse you have to first learn how to pray for and with each other! Understanding the...

We're back with Part 2 of "The Ultimate Marriage Prayers" where we have put together prayers for married couples to pray over each other. Here's the thing: we're not just asking you to sit comfortably and listen. No, we're challenging you to engage in this prayer with us. We want you to pray with and for your spouse, as we lead you through these vital prayer topics. We believe that when couples pr...

Hey there, fellow couples! Ryan and Viktoriya Cole here, and we're excited to invite you to join us in "The Ultimate Marriage Prayers - Part 1." We understand that marriage can be challenging, and sometimes it feels like you're stuck in a rut. That's why we've created this powerful prayer session, designed to help you and your spouse deepen your relationship with God and each other, gain fresh vis...

In this episode of our series "Naked & Unashamed," we discuss the importance of community in marriage and why every couple needs a marriage mentor. We start by sharing our own experiences of how having mentors and being part of a community has impacted our marriage for the better. We then explore the three key components of building a strong support system: marriage mentors, a community of fri...

In this new episode from the series "Naked & Unashamed," we explore practical strategies and biblical insights for couples facing the challenges of distance, stress, and busy schedules. Drawing from the stories of the Song of Solomon, we offer tips and tools for rekindling passion and building a stronger, more intimate relationship. Whether you're in a long-distance relationship, struggling to...

It's a word that often carries negative connotations, but in this episode of "Needed Conversations with Ryan & Viktoriya Cole," we're reclaiming the beauty and power of submission in marriage. Join us as we explore this often-misunderstood principle and learn how it can deepen your intimacy and strengthen your bond with your spouse. Support this podcast by giving to our ministry at https://www...

Welcome to our series, "Naked & Unashamed," where we will be diving into the topic of intimacy in marriage. In this episode, we will explore what intimacy means from a biblical perspective and share practical tips on how to cultivate a deeper, more fulfilling connection with your spouse. Whether you're newlywed or have been married for years, this episode is sure to offer valuable insights and...

In this special episode of the podcast, Ryan prays about our identity in Christ, affirming and reminding us of who God created us to be, and breaking every demonic stronghold that tries to keep us from accessing our purpose in the Kingdom.  Also covered in the prayer is the breaking of soul-ties, generational curses, and more. It's a combination of spiritual warfare prayers, affirmations, and...

On this last episode of our series on identity, we dive into the crucial topic of how to shape your child's identity. Even if you're not a parent yet, this episode is crucial for you to listen to. Discover the must-know strategies for raising confident, secure, and resilient children. This insightful episode explores the parent's role in shaping their child's identity, including practical tips and...

In this episode of "Needed Conversations with Ryan and Viktoriya Cole," we dive into the topic of womanhood from a biblical perspective. We discuss the controversial progressive gender ideologies that have been circulating in society and explore the true essence of being a woman. We delve into the biological and spiritual qualities that define womanhood and look at the divine design of the female...

"Welcome back to our series on identity called, "Image." In today's episode, we will be diving into the topic of manhood and the current crisis facing men in society. We will be discussing the unique struggles and challenges that men face today, and the impact that societal changes and expectations have on men's mental health and well-being. We will also be exploring the potential solutions and wa...

On this episode of 'Needed Conversations,' we explore Psalm 23 - one of the most well-known and beloved Psalms in history. Together we will discover its deep meaning and relevance to our modern lives as it becomes a blueprint for discovering our identity in Christ as believers. Diving into each line of Psalm 23, we will explore the nature of God as a Good Shepherd, a Provider, a Restorer, a Guide,...

Welcome to 2023! We're starting off with a new series on IDENTITY. I believe that this is a pivotal word for this year as we have reached a tipping point in culture when it comes to understanding our identity. 23 is a biblical number that speaks to our identity. Where do we come from? Who am I? These are vital questions that every person asks. We're going to be taking the next several episodes to...

In this final episode in our series on Boundaries, we discuss specific boundaries you should enforce in different seasons of your life. We discuss the concept of freedom and give you tools to communicate your boundaries effectively. Finally, we talk about how embracing limitations can give way to your greatest opportunities, fantastic creativity, and productivity. Hey...you can join the conversati...

Why does it seem like people aren't respecting your boundaries? What is the secret to setting boundaries that work...well the answer may be simpler than you would think. In this week's episode, we're helping you to rethink how you set boundaries!     Hey...you can join the conversation WE NEED YOUR HELP! Click the link below and leave us a voice memo with your marriage questions, sc...

The words "marriage" and "boundaries" are not often used together. We're married so what's mine is ours, right? Well, boundaries are important in every healthy relationship...that includes marriage. In the first episode of this series, we discuss the kind of boundaries you need to have a thriving marriage. We also talk about why boundaries are important in the dating process as well!   Hey......