Mz Schelioaas (She-Lois) Speaks - Lessons Learned

It can get frustrating when we look at the total picture and we see our limited resources, the limited time that we have in a day, or the limited amount of energy that we have. We might even get frustrated and stuck not even moving forward because we look at what seems overwhelming. It’s time to take on our endeavors one bite at a time.  If we’re consistent, we will make progress and achieve...

Enough is defined as the required amount of something. It means sufficiency. Sometimes our own voice and the voices of others try to convince us that what we have to offer is not enough.  Whatever you have to offer the world, your family, your friends, or just in general, it’s enough .  Ignore the nay sayers and give your offering. Somebody is waiting to receive it. Be blessed!

 Sometimes the plans that other people intend to work against us ends up working in our favor.  So don’t fret about people who seemingly are working against you because it turns out that they are really the ones that are helping to advance you.  Instead thank your enemies for helping to advance you to the place you’re supposed to be.  Stay blessed!

All our well intended planning is still subject to change.  Having a flexible demeanor saves us from disappointment, anger, and bitterness.    Life happens and requires the ability to change when necessary. There is no need to get angry, hurt, or disappointed. If we want to abide in peace and calm, then we must live our life practicing flexibility.  Being flexible is not o...

We can have good memories of the past, but it is unhealthy to think we can repeat or recapture it. Reflection is good, but recapturing it is not realistic.  The past is called the past for a reason. It means i t is gone by in time and no longer exists.  The sooner we come into agreement that we can’t recapture the past, the sooner we can embrace opportunities to level up — be better and...

Distractions can derail us and even destroy us.  Distractions come through people and circumstances.   Bottom line, a distraction is a thief that hinders progression.  Therefore, choose to have a made up mind that the thief, aka, distraction, will not hinder your destiny because you intend to remain razor focused on what's going to propel you rather and impede you.  

In order to avoid regrets, sometimes we just need to remain silent until the emotional storm passes over, until our circumstances change, or until we get a better grip of our emotions.  Silence is a powerful weapon that the enemy does not see coming, so let’s exercise our right to remain silent. Be blessed.

People who betrayed, rejected, dishonored, disrespected, and abandoned us were merely vessels used by Satan (aka the devil).  He is the real enemy of our soul.  The good news is God’s Word encourages us to not fret our real enemy because God will always take care of us.  1 John 4:4 says, greater is He that is within us, then he that is in the world. 

Living in the moment simply means that we thank God for the NOW moment we’re in and appreciate it.  If we’re experiencing bad circumstances, we don’t necessarily thank Him for them, but we thank God that He is with us in the circumstance.  If we wait until we’re out of the circumstance before we pray to God, thank Him, or petition Him, we miss our promise of peace in the moment.  Pr...

After we receive the promise from God there will be a “meantime”.  During our meantime season, God wants to increase our faith level.  Satan will tempt us to quit and get out of position.  Let’s not lose faith because after we have completed our meantime season, we will arrive at our next season that will manifest God’s promise.

At some point we have to have a made up mind to be all in, committed to the task or issue at hand if we want to enjoy success.

Burdens are too heavy for us to carry; therefore, we must give ourselves permission to pass the burdens onto Jesus Who is built to carry them and Who wants to carry them. 

Transformation is cyclical and a good thing, but it requires us to trust the process.  It will be worth the effort.  

Let your heart’s desires be known to God and expect Him to bless you with your desires in due season. 

Everybody isn’t meant to have the same level of access to you.  In order to avoid unnecessary confusion, we must discern what level those we associate with fall under, and then wisely act accordingly.  

Whatever seems to be delayed, don’t be discouraged because delayed does not equate to denied.  Just keep pursuing and expecting. 

If trouble is at your door, be encouraged because there is an expiration date on trouble.  Trouble don’t last always. 

If we expect a reciprocal blessing, it can hurt when it doesn’t happen.  The correct heart condition to have as a person who blesses others is to do so unconditionally.  

Negative chatter can stop you for progressing, don’t let it.

Waiting on God’s best will prove to be worth the wait.

Don’t dwell on what you can’t have, celebrate and pursue what is available to you.

You don’t have to let everyone around you in emotionally.  Use discernment and maintain a safe emotional distance. 

Often times when we’re going through suffering and challenges, God will send us to others to be a blessing to them.

Self-care must become and remain a top priority without apology.

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