My Wife My Ex-Wife and ME!

A threesome that was supposed to be a “spice things up” moment turns into a full-blown emotional reckoning, and that’s only one of the relationship letters we tackle with Brittany and Kenny stepping in while Jams is away. We keep it funny, but we don’t dodge the hard parts: what happens when novelty feels stronger than commitment, when texting becomes secrecy, and when you suddenly realize you wan...

You know that moment when summer is almost here and you realize you planned exactly nothing? That’s where we start, with the school countdown, the yearly promise to “do more,” and the very real problem of trying to create family memories without turning your time off into a second job. We get practical about summer planning and family vacation ideas that actually fit real life: pick a short bucket...

You can tell a lot about a relationship by how people fight about chores. Not the big, dramatic fights either, the tiny daily ones: the counter that “was wiped,” the laundry that never makes it out of the basket, the car that somehow always has no gas, and the kid mess that appears five minutes after you cleaned. We sit down as a wife, an ex-wife, and the guy who thought putting both in a studio w...

The fastest way to reveal someone’s personality is to hand them a microphone, a score sheet, and a stack of “useless trivia” questions. We kick things off with our signature chaos, then launch into a wife vs ex-wife vs Kenny Farmer showdown where the facts get weird fast. Think Navy-trained dolphins, cookie history, cartoon name reveals, and the kind of Disney trivia that turns into high-stakes ba...

The end of a relationship usually doesn’t arrive with a single explosion. It creeps in through patterns you can feel but can’t always name and that’s what we get into, loudly, honestly, and with Kenny in the studio to stir the pot right along with us. We talk through the classic predictors of divorce like criticism, contempt, defensiveness, and stonewalling, plus the quieter one that scares us the...

A wife and an ex-wife sit down at the same table and somehow nobody gets arrested, which already feels like a win. We start with the kind of chaotic, lived-in banter you only get from people who know each other too well: music choices, country debates, spring break energy, and travel plans that turn into a surprisingly honest talk about stress, timing, and how couples actually make decisions when...

A single clip about child support set us off, and we didn’t keep it polite. If custody is truly 50/50, do two parents just “handle their own house” or does child support still make sense when incomes don’t match? We talk through the uncomfortable stuff people whisper about: standard of living in two homes, the pressure the paying parent feels, and the fear the receiving parent feels when bills are...

We tried something dangerous: a personality test where Jams answers first, then the rest of us vote on whether we agree. What starts as a quick quiz turns into a loud, hilarious honesty check about empathy, emotional insight, routines, impulse decisions, anxiety, and why “I’m fine” can mean five different things depending on the day. If you’re into personality traits, emotional intelligence, or ju...

A niche service turns into a masterclass in boundaries, business, and belly laughs. We kick off with studio chaos, ADHD resets, and a brutally honest look at how “even keel” feels when the captions, meds, and momentum won’t cooperate. Then we detour into the wild world of male Brazilian waxing—technique, consent, cleanup, unhelpful physics, and the unspoken rules that keep awkward moments professi...

What if the biggest lies in relationships aren’t cinematic betrayals, but tiny shortcuts that slowly erode trust? We dive into the everyday deceptions men lean on—“I’m almost home,” “she’s just a friend,” body count bravado, money myths—and ask why they’re so common. Is it conflict avoidance, shame, ego, or a warped idea of “protecting feelings”? We don’t stop at calling it out; we map practical w...

Ever wonder why “I’m fine” explodes days later? We dive into the small, strategic lies many of us tell to keep the peace—what they protect, what they cost, and how to trade them for honest conversations that don’t blow up your night. From “you pick” decision fatigue to “it didn’t cost much” money myths, we unpack the quiet patterns that shape trust, intimacy, and daily life. We get candid about th...

Forget the roses—let’s talk about the real work of love. We dive into Valentine’s expectations, why the “one” is a myth, and how to trade performative romance for the kind that survives cluttered weekends, sick days, and family drama. With all three mics hot, we move from jokes to jolts of truth, tackling exes who overstep, MILs with house keys, and step‑parent stand‑offs with teens who don’t owe...

The argument starts with “It’s just for the wings” and quickly turns into a masterclass on trust, insecurity, and boundaries. We tackle whether Hooters, Twin Peaks, and strip clubs are harmless fun or a relationship landmine, and we don’t stop at easy takes. We dig into why attention feels addictive, how confidence shifts with age and experience, and why secrecy—not skin—is what breaks trust. Alon...

A rare quiet Saturday, a looming “Snowmageddon,” and the three of us trying to keep the mics—and our tempers—steady. We kick off with the kind of real-life chaos that makes winter weekends memorable: TikTok checks, a crowded grocery run, and a confession that meal planning is the emotional labor no one volunteers for. From there, the vibe shifts into cozy survival mode: 43 eggs from backyard chick...

The studio’s barely wrangled, the vibes are high, and we waste no time diving into the delightfully uncomfortable. We kick off with the story of a first‑ever “manzillion” and everything no one tells you about waxing men: heat, tension, body mechanics, consent, and the comedic chaos that comes with doing a very intimate service professionally. It’s hilarious and weirdly educational, and it tees up...

A holiday isn’t just a date on the calendar; it’s a messy, joyful, sometimes heartbreaking bundle of stories we keep choosing to tell together. From the first yawns of a live stream to the last bite of leftovers, we trace how traditions are made, broken, and rebuilt, and why the annual Turkey Bowl is sacred even when the weather and the knees don’t cooperate. If Thanksgiving makes you excited and...

What happens when a husband, a wife, an ex-wife, and a returning son sit down to podcast right before the holidays? You get a sharp, funny, and unexpectedly sincere tour through family logistics, language quirks, and real-world relationship problems—plus a brand-new dog named Billie Jean who steals a surprising chunk of the spotlight. We kick off with party fallout from a “surprise” 40th that wasn...

The holidays have us sprinting, the leaves aren’t raked, and yes—we turned that chaos into a live “productive relationship” quiz that put all our habits on display. From who talks it out now versus who waits to cool off, to how we split chores when life piles up, we turned everyday moments into honest data points. Spoiler: convenience rules until it breaks, celebration of small wins needs work, an...

The moment you realize the marriage won’t recover doesn’t arrive with fireworks. It’s quiet, heavy, and strangely clarifying. We go straight into that space and map the path through it: how to time the conversation, what to say (and what not to), and how to protect your kid’s sense of safety while you dismantle a life with care. Brittany joins us to share the lived reality behind a “mutual” split:...

Ever notice how jealousy doesn’t ask permission? One minute you’re fine, the next you’re replaying a conversation, zooming in on a photo, or wondering why a text went unanswered. We decided to stop pretending and put our own relationships on the line with a jealousy quiz—then tore into what the results actually mean when you live together, co-parent, and try to trust each other in real life. We ma...

A single phone call about a city burn ban spirals into threats—and becomes our jumping-off point to ask a harder question: why are tiny frictions turning into full-blown fights? We trace the emotional arc from everyday annoyances to public blowups, weaving in a tense on-road encounter, a chaotic midday scene, and the nerves of stepping into a new leadership role. What emerges is a clear pattern: s...

What happens when a football quiz collides with real life? We start with a fast, funny A‑to‑Z of gridiron terms, crown an unexpected champ, and argue our way through numbers everyone thinks they know—timeouts, first downs, quarters, longest kicks—until the room erupts over a final fumble call. It’s the kind of playful rivalry that makes learning football feel easy, even if you’ve only ever rooted...

A joke-heavy cold open collides with a hard truth: a sixth grader mentions a gun, and suddenly the room is debating what safety really means. We bring Brittany, a second-grade teacher, into the studio with Amanda, a daycare director, to break down how schools actually keep kids safe—locked doors, ID scans, visitor controls, and age-appropriate drills led by counselors that teach little kids to act...

Nothing tests a relationship quite like competition, and when that competition involves an ex-wife and current wife facing off in trivia, you know you're in for entertainment gold. This episode delivers a high-energy battle of wits as Denny moderates a trivia showdown between Amanda and Jams, with questions ranging from literature classics to planetary science. The competition quickly heats up wit...

The trio is back! After a much-needed summer hiatus, Denny, Amanda (the wife), and Jams (the ex-wife) reunite with surprising news - their download numbers actually increased during their absence. But the real drama unfolds as they dive into the explosive fight between Denny and Jams that occurred during their break. What begins as casual catching-up quickly transforms into a fascinating explorati...