My Inner Torch

Send us Fan Mail We frequently become so involved and absorbed in our Cluster B relationship, we forget to be honest with ourselves. Or maybe we avoid this honesty to keep hurt at bay. Find out more during this podcast of My Inner Torch.  Support the show

Send us Fan Mail Can you love yourself when you are involved with a Cluster B? "Self Love"...is it just a buzzword, or can you practice it? Find out more in this podcast of My Inner Torch. Support the show

Send us Fan Mail Are you continuously being challenged by your Cluster B? Do you feel like they are always throwing down the gauntlet? I share some ideas in this podcast of My Inner Torch. Support the show

Send us Fan Mail For the first time in over two and a half years and over 140 podcasts, I am apologizing to my abuser. Support the show

Send us Fan Mail Do yo find yourself asking "why?" on a daily basis....why do they do this or do that...why? I explore this further in this podcast of My Inner Torch. Support the show

Send us Fan Mail Curious about what your relationship is with your Cluster B and what it isn't? You are not alone. I explore some theories in this weeks podcast of My Inner Torch. Support the show

Send us Fan Mail The second in a two-part series "What to expect from your Cluster Part 2" picks up from last week's podcast where we explored some of things you can expect when engaging in a relationship with your Cluster B. Support the show

Send us Fan Mail In this two-part podcast, I explore what you can expect from your Cluster B on a day-to-day basis. WARNING: It's not pretty and will be emotionally painful. Support the show

Send us Fan Mail Can you break those bonds and chains with your Cluster B? Is that even possible? I explore the signs of Trauma Bonding and how we can start to break that bond in this weeks podcast of My Inner Torch.  Support the show

Send us Fan Mail Have you ever felt you are a "bad relationship magnet"? Does your Cluster B speak of their former relationships and frame them all as being bad? I explore these ideas in this podcast of My Inner Torch. Support the show

Send us Fan Mail "I love you"....what does that mean with the Cluster B? I explore some ideas in this podcast of My Inner Torch.  Support the show

Send us Fan Mail Did you ever consider the idea that you may be addicted to your relationship with your Cluster B? Find out more in this podcast of My Inner Torch.  Support the show

Send us Fan Mail Direct question with a not-so-simple answer. Are you being abused? You may find that answer in this podcast of My Inner Torch. Support the show

Send us Fan Mail Sounds like a riddle..."They are who they are, not who you thought they are" but in reality, your Cluster B will not or are not who you thought they are. They are....who they are.  Support the show

Send us Fan Mail Would you board the Titanic if you knew the ship would sink? Probably not. Then why do we enter and stay in relationships with abusive people knowing the outcome will not be positive? Support the show

Send us Fan Mail Do you find yourself asking yourself "Why?" on a daily basis in your relationship with your Cluster B?  I explore "why" in this podcast of My Inner Torch. Support the show

Send us Fan Mail Do you ever feel like you have to meet "terms and conditions" with your Cluster B to get anywhere with them? I explore "Terms and Conditions" with your Cluster B in this podcast of My Inner Torch. Support the show

Send us Fan Mail I have been thinking about my relationship with my Cluster B and during this podcast of My Inner Torch draw a comparison between being terminally ill and being in a terminally ill relationship. Your thoughts are welcome to myinnertorch@gmail.com. Support the show

Send us Fan Mail They discard and recast us with another, why can't we do the same? I explore this idea in this weeks podcast of My Inner Torch.  Support the show

Send us Fan Mail Do you listen to this podcast and others for validation? I explore this idea in this weeks podcast of My Inner Torch. Support the show

Send us Fan Mail ....it took years of living silently and being accepting of my wife's behaviors to finally find my inner voice and express it.  Welcome to this 125th podcast of My Inner Torch. Support the show

Send us Fan Mail I believe I  have made some generalizations and universal statements about ClusterB's since the beginning of this podcast and for that, I am making an apology in this podcast of My Inner Torch.  Support the show

Send us Fan Mail How can you avoid being in a Cluster B's discard pile?  Can you avoid it? Find out in this Podcast of My Inner Torch.  Support the show

Send us Fan Mail In this podcast, I revisit the meaning of emotional intelligence and how it applies to the Cluster B. This piggybacks on a popular podcast I did some years ago on EI. Support the show

Send us Fan Mail Are you one of the Knights of the Cluster B Table? Find out in this week's podcast of My Inner Torch.  Support the show