MY CHIC INTUITION

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Send us Fan Mail Have you ever gone into something thinking it was innocent… and then halfway through you realize, oh—this person had a completely different agenda? In this episode, I’m breaking down a lunch that wasn’t just lunch. What started as catching up turned into something that left me questioning everything—his intentions, my intuition, and the moment I realized I was no longer comfortabl...

Send us Fan Mail That moment when a date plan sounds fine on paper, but your gut says “wait.” We’re unpacking one of the most common modern dating traps: mistaking convenience for intention. When a guy suggests seeing you only because it fits neatly into his lunch break, is that effort or is it access on his terms? I share a real story that made the difference crystal clear and helped me stop nego...

Send us Fan Mail A single good date can crack something open, especially if modern dating has had you running on low effort and mixed signals. We’re telling the story of a night that looked simple on paper a museum, a rose, Italian food, a long hug and still left us feeling excited, soft, and quietly shaken in the best way. That “I want more” feeling is real, but it can also be risky if we turn it...

Send us Fan Mail He slides back in, the conversation flows, and then he hits you with the plot twist: you actually know him from high school. That little spark of familiarity can make a new connection feel instantly meaningful, and I felt it too. I started imagining something simple and sweet for his birthday, the kind of low-pressure date that could turn into something real. Then the energy shift...

Send us Fan Mail One sentence can flip a whole date from “this is cute” to “we live in different worlds.” I’m Carmen Ramos, and I’m telling the story of a candlelit dinner with a charming guy I call Mr Traditional until he drops a line that turns the night into a real-time psychology lesson: “Cooking and cleaning is a necessity for dating a woman.” That’s not small talk. That’s a worldview.  We di...

Send us Fan Mail Tired of treating dates like job interviews where you’re the one on trial? We flip the script and share a clear, psychology-informed screening process that helps you evaluate fit with calm and confidence. From the first text to the final goodbye, we break down the signals that matter—so you can stop overperforming and start observing. We start before the date even begins, looking...

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Send us Fan Mail A Valentine’s dinner became a live case study the moment the conversation turned into a monologue and the questions never came. We walked in soft and hopeful, walked out with notes on power, presence, and why clarity will always beat performed depth. From the first five minutes—where business, routines, and leadership philosophies took the spotlight—to the therapist voice cameo an...

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Send us Fan Mail EPISODE 3 – HERSELF She used to shape-shift for safety. Now she remembers who she was before the world convinced her to be small. In this transmission, Carmen peels back the performance, the pleasing, the perfection, the pretending and asks what it means to truly return to herself . This is not a rebrand. This is a reclamation. We explore the subtle war waged on self-trust, the ge...

Send us Fan Mail Carmen explores the powerful journey of embracing authenticity over performance and confronts the psychological concept of self-abandonment. She shares personal stories about moments when she realized she was performing a palatable version of herself rather than showing up authentically. • Reflecting on moments of performance versus authenticity in social situations • Examining a...

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Send us Fan Mail Have you ever matched with someone who seemed perfect on paper only to find the spark wasn't quite there in person? Join me, Carmen Ramos, as we explore the whimsical world of dating through astrological signs with Blush, the AI-assisted LA dating app that's shaking things up on the romantic front. I'll take you through my frosty but charming holiday escapade with a...

Send us Fan Mail Fasten your seatbelts for a wild ride down memory lane, as I, Carmen Ramos, recount one of my most peculiar dates. Picture this: a gym encounter morphing into a brunch date that ventures into strange territory, followed by an LAPD helicopter shadowing our every move. The oddities don't end there - a random request to store a laptop at my house, culminating in a shocking run-i...

Send us Fan Mail Have you ever been blindsided by a first date's self-absorbed behavior? That's what happened when I, your host Carmen Ramos, went out with Mr. Not So Geared. He seemed to miss the memo on the importance of first impressions and mutual respect in dating. Join me as I recount this bizarre experience and share the invaluable lessons I learned.  Let's dive into the worl...

Send us Fan Mail Ever found yourself at crossroads, not sure if it's the cosmic energy making you reconsider past relationships or just your own confusion? That's exactly what's got me, Carmen Ramos, in a tight spot this week on My Chic Intuition. As I navigate the emotional turbulence of the Venus and Mercury retrograde, I find myself questioning past decisions and contemplating re...

Send us Fan Mail Ever found yourself in a whirlwind romance that was unexpected, exciting, and stirred up a flurry of feelings within you? Well, buckle in, because I'm giving you the juicy details of my recent encounter with a prominent music producer! A man I've been communicating with online for six years, and whose recent visit finally shifted the entire dynamic. Our story spans from...

Send us Fan Mail When my ex-husband rang me up ten years after our divorce, I found myself on an unexpected journey of self-discovery and understanding. Let me, Carmen Ramos, take you through this emotional rollercoaster of love, heartbreak, and rebirth influenced by the Venus retrograde. It's an intimate conversation about timing, understanding, and how our past relationships shape us. Learn...

Send us Fan Mail Ever felt like the world is spinning too fast and you're caught in a whirlwind of emotions? Well, you're not alone. As your host Carmen Ramos, I've had my fair share of navigating the high-strung energy brought by the Venus retrograde in Leo. My DMs have never been so full, with loads of people seeking my attention, projecting their insecurities and desires at me. I...

Send us Fan Mail Are you navigating the cosmic turbulence of Venus in retrograde? Join me, Carmen Ramos, as I lead you through this celestial event that has us reflecting on our relationships, our self-perception, and our needs for attention and admiration. As Venus moonwalks through the fire sign of Leo from July 22nd through September 3rd, we take a deep look at its influence on our love life, u...

Send us Fan Mail Ever found yourself stuck in a painful memory that suddenly resurfaces from the past? Picture this - a decade ago, I was in LA for an audition, freshly divorced and emotionally raw. A potential beau invited me to stay with him, only to ghost me, leaving me stranded and devastated. Fast forward to the present day, and the universe pulls a surprising twist  In this episode, we take...

Send us Fan Mail Have you ever explored a potential romantic connection with a long-time friend? Picture this: my confidant, my safe haven - a man I've now known for seven years, simply known as My Mr. Big. Join me, Carmen Ramos, as I unpack the complex layers of our relationship, from innocent coffee catch-ups to intimate New Year's celebrations. Navigating through the murky waters of l...