Mum's True Tea w/Kendall Lasha

What happens when your child's actions—not their words—show you they don't care? In this episode of Mum's True Tea, we're talking about the painful truth many parents face: accepting consistent disrespect, emotional distance, and lack of effort from adult children. When they show you they don't care, you need to believe them!  If you're dealing with estrangement, parental abuse, or feeling dismiss...

In this episode, Kendall Lasha delves into the dangers posed by male-centered women, particularly mothers and daughters, who prioritize men at the expense of themselves and other women. She explores how this mindset can lead to harmful behaviors and societal norms that undermine women's safety and empowerment. Through personal experiences and insights, Kendall emphasizes the importance of setting...

Summary: In this episode, Kendall Lasha discusses the growing mindset among young adults and teenagers who believe they are equal to their parents simply because they have reached adulthood. She explores the spiritual and ethical equality of all humans while emphasizing the sacred, non-peer role of parents. The conversation delves into the cultural and relational hierarchies that have existed for...

Join me as I unpack the complex topic of adult kids claiming that they are breaking generational curses. Are they truly breaking them, or merely creating new ones? This episode challenges the narrative and explores what genuine healing looks like and what generational curse breaking really looks like.  Please visit my website for more information and also subscribe to my newsletter: http://mumstru...

Summary In this episode of 'Mum's True Tea,' Kendall Lasha discusses the often unspoken reality of child-to-parent abuse, drawing parallels between the struggles of motherhood and the concept of kryptonite from the Superman narrative. She emphasizes the importance of recognizing when children become toxic and the need for mothers to prioritize their own mental health and well-being. Through person...

Summary In this episode of Mum's True Tea, host Kendall Lasha discusses the absurd reasons adult children give for going no contact with their parents, particularly mothers. She critiques the influence of social media and modern therapy on parenting narratives, emphasizing that affection and involvement are often misinterpreted as control or abuse. Lasha argues that the blame for adult children's...

Summary In this conversation, Kendall Lasha addresses the often-overlooked issue of parental abuse, discussing the emotional, verbal, and physical abuse that mothers may endure from their children. She emphasizes the importance of recognizing this abuse, setting boundaries, and taking action to protect oneself. The conversation highlights the need for mothers to reclaim their dignity and safety, e...

Summary In this episode of Mum's True Tea, host Kendall Williams discusses the emotional turmoil that comes with receiving unexpected communication from an estranged child. She emphasizes the importance of managing anxiety, setting boundaries, and protecting one's mental health while navigating these complex relationships. The conversation provides practical advice for mothers dealing with estrang...

Summary In this episode of Mum's True Tea, host Kendall Lasha engages in a deep conversation with therapist Jeff James about the complex dynamics between black mothers and their sons. They explore the societal and systemic issues that contribute to the challenges faced by black families, the historical context of family structures, and the emotional responsibilities placed on children. The discuss...

Summary In this episode of Mum's True Tea, Kendall Lasha delves into the complex dynamics between mothers and their children, particularly focusing on the rising trend of labeling mothers as narcissists. She challenges the audience to reflect on their perceptions of motherhood, the impact of therapy on familial relationships, and the importance of empathy and understanding in the healing process....

Summary In this episode of Mum's True Tea, I am going to address some of the complex challenges parents face in today's world, particularly regarding respect and communication with their adult children, how keeping parents from grandkids is a form of punishment and what parents are really going through. As I read through a series of listener emails and direct messages, I will share my insight and...

Summary Join me and my guest Promise Israel as we discuss the current climate of parents navigating the evolving relationship dynamics with their adult children and why there seems to be a phenomenon of adult children now despising their parents. The conversation delves into the no contact phenomenon, accountability in parent-child relationships, and the overuse of the term narcissism in family dy...

Summary In this conversation, I discuss the emotional burdens that mothers carry due to their children's choices, emphasizing the importance of shedding these burdens to achieve personal freedom and peace. I highlight some of the struggles of parenting, particularly in the face of addiction and legal troubles, rebellion, and advocate for authenticity and setting boundaries as essential steps for m...

Summary In this episode of Mum's True Tea, I dive into the the controversial topic of 'no contact' trend that's impacting relationships between parents and their adult children. I discuss the double standard that exists in these dynamics, the influence of social media and therapy culture, and the importance of setting boundaries for mental health. Through personal anecdotes and observations, I am...

Join me as I discuss the emotional and psychological toll on Black women following the recent election results and how we need to Opt-Out of saving everyone else and heal from savior syndrome. We need to work hard at unraveling the encoding in our DNA that has made us the nurturers of others, learn to prioritize self-care, our mental well-being, and healing over the societal expectation to be savi...

Summary In this conversation, I discuss the painful and often overlooked issue of parental alienation, which occurs when one parent manipulates their child against the other parent after a breakup or divorce. I share examples of what parental alienation looks like and share some of my personal experiences with this dynamic, highlighting the emotional toll it takes on both the alienated parent and...

Summary Join me in this conversation as I discuss the complexities and challenges of single motherhood, emphasizing that many women find themselves in this role unexpectedly and without choice. Listen to me discuss the emotional toll, societal judgment, and the resilience required to navigate this journey as a single mom. This a conversation that aims to foster empathy and understanding for single...

Summary October is Domestic Violence Awareness month and In this episode I discuss the often-overlooked topic of parental abuse with my guest Alice Slaughter-Flowers who lost her sister Rosemary Pate to violence at the hands of her own son. Join me as we explore the realities of parents living in fear of their own children, living under constant mental distress because of their children, being abu...

Don't be mad sis. Hear me out in this candid episode, as I dive into the complex dynamics that arise when mothers treat their sons like emotional partners or even stand-in husbands. With heartfelt insight and a dash of real talk, I touch on how these blurred lines can hinder a son's emotional growth and create unhealthy co-dependency. Tune in as I discuss the importance of self-awareness for moms,...

In this eye-opening episode of Mum's True Tea , I dive deep into the emotional toll that motherhood can take on mental health, including how it can lead to PTSD. I explore the backlash I received for speaking this truth, especially as a single mom. Society often paints motherhood as a joyful experience, but for many, it's far from the truth. Single moms face intense financial, emotional, and physi...

In this episode I discuss how managing motherhood is more about moving through it and learning along the way. We don't really manage mothehood, motherhood manages us. Society often silences the struggles of mothers, but it's important to have support and express our true feelings about motherhood some days. It's okay to have regrets and struggles in motherhood. To navigate motherhood, it's importa...

In this episode, I discuss how some of us Gen X parents need to take accountability for how we may have gotten it wrong with our parenting and how we may have failed or enabled our children and the importance of setting boundaries with our children without feeling guilty. I reflect on the independence and resilience of the Gen X generation and how we may have done our children a disservice by tryi...

PART 2 Because of the feedback that I received, I went a little deeper on this conversation in hopes it will encourage someone. Welcome to Part 2 of this very personal Mum's True Tea w/Kendall Lasha episode as I discuss grieving the loss of an already estranged parent further and share some of the ways that I have been able to process such a loss. Come take a look and listen at some insight on nav...

Summary On this very personal episode, I discuss the process of grieving the loss of an already estranged parent. This loss is a complex and emotional process. It is so important to allow yourself to grieve and process the emotions associated with losing a parent that was already gone from your life. It's a different pain when you have been abandoned by this parent and now they are gone. It's also...

Join me and my guest Nurse Practitioner Karin Hulon as we discuss perimenopause and menopause. We explore why there is a lack of conversation around these topics, particularly among black women, and the barriers that prevent women from seeking help and support. They also delve into the symptoms and changes that occur during perimenopause and menopause, including hormonal fluctuations, hot flashes,...