Mommy May I?

I hit 10K on YouTube, and we're celebrating. In this solo episode, I talk Beyoncé ghosting Houston, throwing two first birthday parties (Ghanaian vs. white people party chaos), and trying that viral Red Lobster seafood boil. I might leave my husband for Jason Statham, I’m done with Love Island, and starting a new diet to lose these last 35 lbs. Still running my “don’t have kids” campaign—and y...

From Beyoncé nearly falling from the sky (yes, I was there) to the rise of Labubu as a new financial asset class, this episode is one giant red flag — in the best way. We unpack the mental state of the group chat, decode gym personalities (and why straight men have colonized Pilates), and get into John’s cryptic “I’m leaving social media” texts that were clearly a cry for likes. If the economy doe...

This week, I’m joined by my dear friend Max— CEO and founder of the iconic jewelry brand AweInspired . We talk about what it’s like running a purpose-driven company that gives back to queer and women-centered charities, how he stays grounded as a leader, and his deeply personal journey through surrogacy with his husband as they prepare to welcome twins. Max also flips the script and asks me for pa...

It’s been a month since I’ve done a solo episode but baby we are sooo back! I recap my trip to New York where one of my closest friends got engaged, and I reflect on how major life milestones — like pregnancy or marriage — really show you who’s genuinely in your corner. I talk about the importance of showing up for your people, share my reaction to a troll I encountered on Instagram, and close out...

Our Pride Month series continues with first-time guest Jordan, who shows up in true Jordan fashion—attention-seeking, marathon-running, and somehow still sugar-daddy-free despite having no morals. 🏃‍♂️✨ We chat about life as an LGBTQ+ business owner, debate our favorite (and least favorite) drag queens 👑, and end with a round of “Who Said That?” where Jordan proves he’s just a little too chroni...

Happy Pride! 🌈 I’m joined by my fabulous friend John as we kick off Pride Month with laughs, hot takes, and a little chaos. We dive into how birthday and bachelorette etiquette has gone completely off the rails—when did bridesmaids become responsible for bankrolling your every dream? And why is celebrating someone else starting to feel like a full-time job? We also get into David Geffen’s spicy d...

In this episode, I’m joined by my bestie Javier — fellow immigrant kid, eldest child, and former Texas gal turned California queen. We dive into what it’s like being a parent before ever having kids — raising our siblings, parenting our parents, and still being expected to have all the answers… even now. Javier opens up about where he is in the adoption process with his husband and how he had to c...

I found myself googling “safe lipo recovery with a toddler”… so yeah, motherhood is mothering. In this episode, I weigh the pros and cons of a snatched waist versus expanding the family (again), spill a little tea on a recent fallout with some fake friends (bless their hearts), and answer a question from a mama-to-be who’s scared of losing herself once baby arrives. I also share some thoughts on n...

It’s Mother’s Day, and I celebrated in Cabo—but that didn’t stop the feelings from showing up. In this episode, I go on a full stream-of-consciousness rant about the mayhem that is motherhood right now—from not loving the way I look 10 months postpartum to remembering that one time I had to pee into a gallon jug for 48 hours during pregnancy (and yes, it had to be refrigerated). This one’s raw, un...

Yeehaw, baby — Beyoncé brought the boots out and I brought the trauma . I recap my night at the Cowboy Carter tour before taking y’all back to my “Welcome to NYC” moment, which included a sex worker roommate, the 75-year-old naked man I found sitting on my couch , and the kind of chaos that makes you question every life choice. Then, in true Mommy May I? fashion, I close with a jaw-dropping horror...

In this episode, I’m joined by my close friends Alexis and Kia for some real talk (and even realer laughs). We swap horror stories from dating in LA — because honestly, nothing tests your strength like a first date with an LA man. I also share my birthing story, and somehow we all agree: being cut open, stitched back together, and surviving labor is still easier than surviving these streets. Grab...

This episode has range ! My friend John joins me as we dive into toxic relationships — trigger warning: abuse is discussed — and react to a wild Facebook mom story where a stay-at-home wife is stuck with a husband addicted to porn, draining their bank account on cam girls. We talk through the madness and what we’d do in her shoes. Then we lighten things up with Smash or Pass , speculate on our per...

It’s the very first episode and we’re diving straight in! I’m sharing the ‘why’ behind this podcast, what you can expect (hint: it’s chaos, comedy, and a little bit of healing), plus a story time about unhinged mom groups that had me side-eyeing the whole concept of ‘finding your village.’ Just because you had a baby doesn’t mean the fun stops—let’s yap!

A quick teaser to let you know what Mommy, May I? is all about. Hosted by Sika, a first-time mom who’s still very much that girl , this podcast is for moms, gays, and theys who refuse to let any title box them in. Expect real talk, wild stories, pop culture tea, and unfiltered laughs—all while navigating motherhood, ambition, and identity with zero shame.